Gave my bf's "friend" a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

So about a month ago, me and my bf had a fight. Pretty seriously. And in all anger we broke up without talking about it decently. I work at a copy shop with a guy who used to be in the same class as my bf. They were kind of "friends" cause they were in class for so long but they kinda also hate each other. So after the breakup, this guy was playing me and talking shit about my bf. Because I was angry at my bf and probably wanted to disrespect him, one thing let to another and I gave my colleague a blowjob in the storage room of our shop, just two days after the breakup. One week ago me and my bf talked it out and we're back together and (almost) everything is fine. except for the fact that my bf's "friend" told him that I sucked his dick. I explained that I was angry and it was stupid. I apologized and said there were no feelings or anything more than just a blowjob. He accepts it and kind of forgives me but I feel he constantly thinks of it. Especially since my colleague is taunting him with it. I already got angry at the guy and told him to fuck off when he says anything about it to me, but I can't really undo that one stupid thing. So what do you guys advise me to dod and help my bf get over it? Apart from this one thing, me and my bf are happy together again.

[KwazyBruhhh]

You didn't cheat but again people need to use their brains.

I cannot believe I was born into a World that is littered with mindless idiots. You had a fight and broke up and the first thing you did was suck a dick? Jesus Christ, I've heard of people having a swift drink, they may even smoke a cigarette or confide in a friend, but to go and suck a dick? That's a new one.

There's not really a lot you can do, if your boyfriend can get over it you'll be fine, if he doesn't then you'll split up again. I don't think he should hold it against you because you had split up, but in my opinion once a couple splits up once that's the relationship dead and buried. You can try and make it work for the second time but the relationship is in the stage of rigor mortis now.

[Xeraph]

Not that new, mate - just pretty messed up...

[KwazyBruhhh]

It's pretty silly way of dealing with a break up. Whatever happened to a a nice carton of ice cream and a movie to soothe the pain? I shouldn't laugh but I'm dying of laughter here.

[anshin]

Exactly my thoughts.

[Jager66]

I dunno.. If it was me I wouldn't stick around, life is to short to spend it with people who will be vindictive like this over something as stupid as an argument. How can he possibly trust you in the future? every time life gets a little tough he's is going to wonder when you will bail on him again.

By the way you describe things it sounds like he will stick around though, even if it means constantly feeling humiliated every time he has to see that guy and not being able to trust you, kinda sad really.. he must be starving for affection.

[bubble_tea]

you guys broke up... there's nothing you can do, he has to find a way to forget it or you break up again.

[Xeraph]

You can't help your bf to get over it. You made the mistake and you should feel bad. If he forgives you. Live with it. Think about it, do it better next time.

And honestly wtf did you think blowing him off? The worst thing you could do - you did... hopefully you won't ever do it again.

[ImaSloth]

Your colleague is a fucking asshole, excuse my french, but what a pile of trash that guy is, I'm a very peaceful person, but I would smash him if I could... Your boyfriend will remember, every time you go down on him, he'll think about it, but if he truly loves you, he'll move past it.

[Your_boss]

If your bf forgives you
That's all that matters

[FallenRangerz]

Nothing you say can make your boyfriend forget about it. He will continue to think about it until he comes to term with it, you can however ease it a little by probably showing how much you love him and care for him, you can show him that he is the only one for you and the only one that you want. From there on you can probably gain some of his trust back little by little. But until then he may not have that much faith or trust in you and will continue to think about what you have done for a very long time.

[LiamJHayden]

Your boyfriend will either get over it or not depending upon his own mental/emotional make up. He will either eventually realize, "We broke up, so not my business." or he will be one of the many - easily seen if you spend any time on this site - who thinks, "We broke up and a couple of days later she was doing someone else, so she did not really care."

[Shamalien]

He even found out from this guy and not you? Wow. I feel terrible for this guy. What kind of crazy bitch blows your friend 2 days after a breakup? That is so fucking toxic.

I honestly don’t even believe this story. You’re just some horny cuck making shit up

[deshawn78]

did you guys end up getting back together?

[Abeunhonest]

Did u swallow

[Meyoialways2013]

Suck his dick like it's the best you ever had, let him take a little control over you

[Asker]

What?

[Asker]

Oh you mean my boyfriend. I read it too fast and thought you meant the other guy... sorry...

[OB3YYY]

Did you swallow?

[Anonymous]

Did you spit

[Opinion Owner]

Did you?

[Asker]

no...

[Opinion Owner]

Does that mean you swallowed? Or none of the above? Gotta be a champ

[Asker]

I swallowed. Does that matter?

[Opinion Owner]

It kinda does, what made you swallow for his friend he didn't ask or anything? Or you just went with the flow basically and things just happened I'm not judging I'm actually giving you kudos

[Asker]

I have no problem swallowing for a guy. I think he kinda asked, but I don't remember completely.

[Opinion Owner]

That's cool though. You think he would've been mad had he known you swallowed for him? Like was the experience okay? Did it Taste bad or anything

[Asker]

I didn't tell him but maybe the other guy did. I don't know. As far as I remember, it tasted fine.

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting. Well maybe he did maybe not. Lol if they're still friends I doubt that topic would even come up ever. But I'm willing to bet those odds probably ain't the best yknow. Still not knocking you though. Stuff happened for a reason and I definitely ain't one to judge! But to the boyfriends credit have you swallowed for him at least also? Oh was this something just randomly done with the friend I'd be kinda bummed if I was him and my girl stepped out and did that with someone and not me I'd flip lol But good I'm glad it tasted fine, so you didn't have much trouble getting it down easy or going through the whole gag business. Makes it better

[Opinion Owner]

Hey champ

[Asker]

I did swallow my boyfriends load but not often. In fact it's been really long since I've given him a blowjob. Actually only in the beginning when we were together.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh you did. Well at least it's more fair now I thought maybe you swallowed the other guy but not your boyfriend then I'd be superrr mad not gonna lie if I were him. Did you like swallowing for his friend more so though? From a taste stand point who would you prefer, oh wow in the beginning lol step it up!

[Asker]

Yeah the other guy's load was pretty big, think and stringy, which I like. It also had a strong but nice taste. My boyfriend isn't a big shooter and I don't remember his taste being great. So I might say I'd prefer swallowing the other guy's load, but of course there's a lot more to choosing a partner than his load.

[Opinion Owner]

Most definitely I was just saying in the case of you swallowing which guy would you prefer swallowing for over the other far as taste. So the other guy had better tasting cum basically? Interesting. Thick and stringy is actually a thing cum can be never heard that one before lol. I have heard of cum tasting strong does that mean salty or sour? How was it good in his case. I'm honestly surprise you liked his friends cum better , since it was a huge load did you manage to get it down pretty easy? And your boyfriend isn't a shooter but the friend is?

[deshawn78]

why u like it tick and stringy? did he have a bigger penis than your bf?

[Anonymous]

Why does friend have inverted commas around it but my bf doesn't