it's tough as you consented to sex but did not consent to being video taped. you could sue or at least threaten with lawsuit on the grounds of slander and defamation of character. additionally if he is distributing the tape or showing it to people you could get him in trouble for trafficking p*rn without consent of the performer...
it is a long and arduous road. I think you best bet is to talk with a friend who may be a lawyer and see if he can simply put the fear of lawsuit into the kid (as I'm sure the kid doesn't realize that a lawsuit would be long and tedious)2 1 0 0again it depends on the state but in most states it is illegal to film someone engaged in sex without their consent. I know it's illegal in PA, FL, MD, NY, CA and a whole bunch of other states.
I'm not sure about "slander" but there is definitely a privacy violation. If there are laws where she lives about a violation of privacy or recording without consent I think that's more like it. Unless slandering someone takes on an additional meaning in this case such as saying things in the recording that are untrue or not proven about her.
I'd say it's an invasion of privacy, if you weren't in public and it was done without your permission. You should be able to take legal action if he doesn't destroy the video.
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I'm so sorry that happened to you chin up buttercup!!!
3 1 0 0You didn't consent to it. I'd sue the bastard.
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1 9You are not a whore. People make mistakes but it doesn't define them.
0 0 0 0If you did not consent to being videotaped, you need to go to the police.
3 0 0 0Don't have sex with someone who you can't trust.
0 1 0 0wow we have 2 heartless people on gag
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As Tractorbeam said, not in public and done without your consent, you could take legal actions.
2 0 0 0Have you asked him to see it, just so you know?
0 1 0 0Hey! You are awesome. You did not do anything wrong. It's not your fault that the guy in an asshole. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Shit happens, life deals you bad cards sometimes. But you get on with it, do awesome stuff and earn the respect you deserve. Don't let this incident define you, you are, as they said in days of yore, Amazeballs.0 0 0 0Tbh I'm not in uni yet but people can be dicks just try to ignore them the best you can, but if that doesn't work then make their insalts your own. It takes the fun out of it for them
0 1 0 0at least is it not you however you can always say you saw a weapon in his hand
0 0 0 0A** Ho*** do this and nice guys spent their life alone (The truth of life).
0 1 0 0I feel your frustration believe me C'est La Vie right
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