Do guys like girls with big clits? Would you guys mind giving oral?

I've been with other guys and they've given me oral sex. My new bf wants to but I don't let him, because I'm self conscious about my clit, I feel like he's going to be grossed out. Should I tell him why I don't let him? And tell me I'm self conscious about it? Please tell me if you would be grossed out or anything complete honesty.
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    Bless you please don't worry. Here is a fantastic piece of art where hundreds of normal women have had a cast made of their pussies. Please have a look and I think you will find it very reassuring. You will not be that big or not normal. This is a very common issue for a lot of women and it simply should not be. Pussy is the most desired thing to all heterosexual men and most men do not mind if their woman's is slightly different. In fact they love it and in my experience a big clitorus is very desirable. They show how aroused you are getting , by getting erect. They are fantastic for giving oral to more to lick and flick. I think you are worrying unnecessarily and in fact you should be empowered by having something very desirable. If your boyfriend in some way makes any negative comment then he is very silly and doesn't deserve the pleasure of your body. I wish in some way I could empower you to understand how much you have this the wrong way around its a very positive and sexually arousing thing you have , you are very lucky and should be happy.

  • I wouldn't be grossed out at all. Hell, if nothing else, it should make it easier to hit it juuuust right.

    • The 2 of you are older, though. would it matter if you both were 20?

    • It wouldn't matter at that age any more than it would matter at my age. Besides, most younger guys are still relatively clueless, so he might be grateful that it's easier to find. Women are a lot more critical about their own bodies than a man would ever be to her. I can almost guarantee that he won't find it gross or anything like that. Unless he's an asshole, he'll love your clit, no matter what it looks like. If he wants to go down on you, he'll be ecstatic just to have the opportunity. Once he gets his tongue on it, you'll be too busy twisting the sheets to think about anything else. Besides, there are so many women out there who aren't lucky enough to have a guy willing to do that for them. You should be happy that you have a man who does. Isn't that worth setting aside your insecurities just long enough to see how much he'll like your body the way it is?

    • Very true, thank you so much, you've made see things in a different way. If you dont mi d me asking, but have you ever met a women that has a big clit?

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  • It's never slowed me down any.

  • I've spent my life looking for a girl with a big clit. I'm not talking the size of my penis, which is large, but up to 10 times what we normally see would be a huge turn on. I'm not much for giving oral sex but if she had a big clit, she'd have a hard time keeping me from diving in her muff. You are soooo lucky. Be proud, mama!!

  • No I like big clits. Especially when it comes 2 giving oral. My favorite is 2 lick and suck on that clit till I can get it 2 stand at full attention. The bigger the better. Along with I think it makes u wetter. Don't know how 2 describe my obsession with big clits. All I can say is I love 2 give oral 2 a woman who has one.

  • I honestly don't care either way. I'd love to give some girl oral but that hasn't happened yet... Maybe I should offer to and see what happens worse case scenario they stop talking or kick me in the nuts that's not so bad. On the other side though I don't see to many ladies hmmm decisions decisions lol

  • Bigger clits are kind of hot.

  • After having had other guys go down on you, why is it that now you have become self-conscious about your clit? Were the others grossed out.

    Clits can be tiney and even hidden so far back under the hood that there is no way to see them. And they can be big, up to almost looking like a penis. And honestly, that would definitely bother me. Big clits are nice, but not if they look like a penis.

    • They never said anything and my ex never really had a problem with it that I know of, and I wouldn't say like a mini penis but big enough to see and flick with out needing to spread the lips open. Is that gross?

    • I can't know exactly what size you mean, and even if i could, I have never personally come across any that large, so I don't know what I would feel. BUT... I don't think I would find it gross, especially since your prior guys did not express any bother in any way. I would say let the majority rule, guys like yours.

  • I find bigger clits to be extremely erotic and sexy. Obviously we all come in different shapes and sizes and that is what makes it interesting. You may find one guy who is put off by it, and another who it is just what he has been looking for. Hopefully you find the one who appreciates it and knows how to treat it.

    • Well me and my bf had sex but I wny let him go down on me bcs I'm self conscious, and he's had multiple partners.

    • I would be thrilled to go down and find a big clit waiting for me, personally I would consider myself very lucky to be in his place.

  • no one cares !! What the hell !!
    If anything it's hot...

  • well sweetie here what you do you get online and look up large clits and let him see them watch his reaction if he's not freaked out then id say let him go down on you. if he is freaked or grossed out then just push him away cause you know he's not going to like what you have to give.

  • if you don't let him how shall he know?

  • There’s nothing to be ashamed of about your big beautiful clit.

    ( I gotta go deep to get to the point So bear with me )

    All men and women start off as women in the womb and we men get the y Chromosome which makes our pussy turn into a dick

    So with that said a clit is a very small dick and we all have very similar amount Of nerve endings ( the more nerve endings closer together means more sensitivity) so your big clit isn’t anywhere near the size of my 10” dick BUT. Every nerve ending on my 10 inches is the same amount on your little beautiful clit ( and vaginal wall which the clits nerves wrap around)

    Now 🥵, the smaller the surface area of the plethora of nerves in our sexual organs means the more sensitive: a smaller clit is more sensitive, some to the point of not being able to handle it being touched. But what is lucky about yo ur big beautiful clit that I find so sexy is that it’s hard to miss for men who don’t understand the Anatomy of your pussy and that phat pretty clit is small enough to be sensitive and big enough to be able to handle whenever your sexual partner sucks at sucking on your clit and pussy because small clots can’t even handle the fuck ups of licking and sucking on their pussy wrong.

    Congratulations  you are blessed rare and your big juicy clit is beautiful almost every man that gets the pleasure to enjoy it will cherish it. J

  • Go ahead an let him pleasure u.

  • I feel like a bigger clit is more inviting : ).
    Can get in their better

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  • Well, what size clit are you talking about. Personally, I doubt I'd be freaked out by it but, some guys are easy to freak out when it comes to girl stuff. They can't even TALK about periods or tampons because it might make their balls drop off!! None of that bothers me at all!! I used to change my ex-fiances tampons for her all the time. There's nothing at all to be afraid of! It's actually kinda neat!
    I recently saw a video of a girl with a clit so big she could actually use 2 or 3 fingers to beat it off like it was a dick! I'm sure there''s other big clit videos online that you can get your boyfriend to look at and ask him how he'd feel about a girl having a clit like that. If he's excited by it or okay with it, let him dine at your pink taco stand! If he's repulsed by it, maybe he's not the right guy for you.
    If I were you, I'd introduce him to these videos gradually. Watch a few others together and eventually show him the big clit videos then ask him what he's do if he was faced with one.

  • I would be grossed out at all. Mater of fact I woud be sucking on that big o clitt

  • you are normal, let him suck your clit

  • i love tge big clits

    • Get off here, your comment isn't close to being helpful, just disturbing.

  • Seriously? What's big?

  • Girl I'm totally straight... But I would suck your giant clit like CRAZY!!

  • Eeither way it doesn't matter to me as long as you both can enjoy the things that you're doing well I go down on a woman with a big clit hell yeah I do anything to make her happy

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