How to prepare for anal sex?

Question

Can you use a Bisacodyl Suppository 10 mg to prepare for anal sex? What else can I use?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

- Get some good water-based sex lube, like Wet or AstroGlide.

- Make sure you go to the bathroom a couple of hours before, then shower and clean yourself well. You can use an enema if you are totally paranoid, but if you prepare as I mention here, that's probably overkill.

- Have him slowly work a lubricated finger into you. I said SLOWLY. Get used to having something in there, moving around and such. When YOU are ready, have him use a second finger. Go as slow as you need to in order to be comfortable. If you get to the point where he can move his fingers around a bit without any discomfort, and hopefully with a bit of pleasure, then he can try his penis.

- He needs to agree, and be absolutely clear, that if you tell him to stop, he will STOP moving immediately, and if you tell him to pull out, he will pull out immediately. YOU control the show here.

- After he's lubed up, have him SLOWLY work his way into you. It actually helps if you push out a bit, because that opens you up easier. The goal is to get him inside you and then STOP and give you a chance to adjust to something that size being in you.

- If you are still feeling okay, he can start slowly, gently thrusting. If you feel there is too much friction, have him add a little more lube, and you may need to do this a couple of times.

- If you are still okay, he can pick up the pace a bit. You direct him.

For most girls, the first time, even done right, is such a new sensation that it's hard for the girl to know what to think. If you followed my steps and went slowly, there shouldn't be much if any pain, but the sensation will still be new and different, and you might need some time to get used to it. Usually, by the second or third time, the girl starts to enjoy it (she grows used to the sensation, and isn't as stressed about it, and so can start to enjoy it), and then, she will usually ask for it from time to time when she's in the mood.

dthdhdghadh · Accepted Answer

Make sure you do a position where your sphincter muscles are loose, for example lying on your back with your knees up, added benefit that you can look at each other. Communicate. Particularly how you feel, but make him also tell you how it feels for him.
Have him prepare your ass with his finger, then two, if he can make you cum from your ass that will make your initial reaction to it smoother since you already experienced pleasure from it. It might occur that your ass sort of shuts down on its own, in that case tell him to stop immediately, but not push out, just stop any movement.

bombamboum · Accepted Answer

Lots of lub and to be totally relax. I wouldn't do drugs. When it comes to anal, it's mostly mentally that you have to be ready and you have to use tons of lub, if it doesn't work out it could be because you're not entirely relax

Nylena · Accepted Answer

don't use drugs... you don't need that. lots of lube, relax and start small and there is no problem

Amagi82 · Answer

Don't use drugs. Have a bowel movement an hour or two beforehand, then relax. Use lots of lube and go slowly. It'll go easier if you're very turned on, especially if you just came. By "go slowly", what I find is most effective is to very gently stick the head in, then stop, and wait for 20-30 seconds for the muscles to adjust, then gently go in the rest of the way, and gradually pick up the pace while being very careful and communicating a lot. He needs to be very hard when he goes in, or it won't work- it's easy to lose an erection while waiting for you to adjust, which is one of the reasons why guys try to hurry it along too much. Don't be afraid to pause and add more lube if necessary. Remember: if it hurts, STOP. You're doing it wrong. And personally, I think you should be a pokee before being a poker. He'll be more aware and encouraged to pace himself if you've put a toy up his ass beforehand. But above all, have fun! Anal sex can be amazingly pleasurable for everyone. :)

Bear_of_Death · Answer

Take a dump before penetration, use a lot of lube.

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

I would not use any drugs. All you need to do to prepare is not do it within several hours of your last BM. If you're uber paranoid, a water-enema is more than enough. A shower or bath is fine. Lots of lube and have fun.