Girls, too much cum?

My gf doesn't like to give me head. At first I thought is was because I have a really big dick and it's uncomfortable for her. But when I asked about it, she said I shoot too much cum. I get that, but when I asked about the times I pulled out, she said she never saw a guy cum so much and it's messy. Is this a problem? Should I find a way to cum less? Like jerk off before sex or something?
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I had a conversation with her about it. She said when she sees me cum, it reminds her of a "porn star." What am I supposed to make of that?
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Last night she gave me head but then aimed me at her tits when I came. She tried to act like it was nice but I could tell by the way she wiped the huge load off that she was not happy.
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  • Soo, a mess can be a good thing. BUT, that being said, it can def be overwhelming if the guy ummmm yeah... If he shoots a lot. Trying to swallow in a situation like that esp if it's unexpected can be a challenge. But like I said- a mess can be a good thing depending on the circumstances... :o)

    • Is there something I can do to get my girl to appreciate this? I don't know if I can change how much I cum.

    • I mean I don't know there is really no way I can think to hide it besides using a condom?

    • I was afraid someone might say that. Not that I'm totally against condoms when having vaginal sex, but for everything else they are terrible. And depriving me of my explosive moment just seems so wrong.

  • I like it and I dont. On one hand, I like it because it makes me feel like I turned him on and gave him a really big orgasm, so I'm flatter. On the other hand, I really dislike swallowing it, but do anyway because it's just easier than going to get a towel, blah blah blah

    • Do you think it's bad if I spray it on my gf? Where am I supposed to put it? It's not like there is a cum receptacle nearby.

  • I think its hot. I love it cause it means you're saving yourself for your partner. Not watching p*rn or cheating. It makes me happy..

    • Do you know any girls that have changed their mind on this? And if so, what changed it?

    • Agreed, I think it's very hot. I don't know of any girls who've had a problem with this

    • @MissDisruptive, do you think it's hot for swallowing, or otherwise? You know, the messy alternative.

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  • I think she just needs to enjoy it. I love it when my boyfriend shoots lots out because I get to swallow more.

    • Is there a way to get my girlfriend to like it? I've always been a heavy cummer.

    • You can't really make her like it. For me it's just been natural that I like it. Sorry.

    • Even if she doesn't swallow, she can lick up the sides. My bpyfroend like that too. All you need to do is experiment

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Jerk before sex and you'll make it harder to cum.

    p*rn stars are told to abstain for sex for several days before a shoot to make sure they blow a massive wad that looks great on camera.

    • Been hanging around with p*rn stars again?

    • I didn't get to this year, but I do remember reading that fact in an article years and years ago (and there's many more like it on the internet). More jizz, and if you've waited you also get off, you are more sensitive and aroused.

  • I don't know if you should do it but steroids will make your balls smaller. Probably a bad idea though.

    • I don't think that would work actually.

    • It was a joke

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  • There is a saying that goes something like "there is a cover for every pot".
    You could try finding yourself another girl that isn't grossed out, and let ur girlfriend find a guy who likes to cum in a condom or only inside of her.

  • How much cum are we talking about here? How much cum would you describe as a lot? Like, how many spurts, volume or time spent ejaculating?

  • Like how much do you shoot? Are we talking about Peter North here?

    • Who is Peter North?