Boners from a turn off to turn on?

[Little_Storm]

I've been told that my boyfriend gets a boner when we are together and today for the first time I noticed it, it was he most discussing thing I could ever thing of! and we both want to do a cute romantic making out thing but im really scared ill feel something, I don't no what it is but I find it REALLY discussing, how do I become more turned on by it, because I get it will happen and I don't want to be freaking out and never end up kissing him from my fear of it!!! please help!

[jacquesvol]

Boners are an unavoidable reality and are 100% normal, also when boys who aren't in love. They're just part of the 'cute romantic making out'.

A guy can NOT control the rising of his penis but he can very well control what he does with it. It's not the boner you have to fear, it's the guy not wanting to control his acts.

[Anonymous]

"we both want to do a cute romantic making out thing"
In other words, you still have a Disney-fied idea of what kissing and making out is like, and the real world, of human liquids and boners and screaming thigh-sweats, is "disgusting" to you.

Eh, grow up?

[Anonymous]

Go on the internet and look at pictures of it, try to see your bf naked and get to know his body slowly. If you are afraid of boners, you are clearly too young for what you are doing.

[Craigelbagel]

Erections are actually a good thing because it means that he finds it enjoyable being in your company. You better get used to them though, you ll have more coming when you're older. Of course you get more turned on by it because he is turned on. It's normal and not disgusting, make the best of the moment rather than worrying about why he's hard.

[misscocobutter]

Are u a lesbian, seriously are u?

[Little_Storm]

im 14...

[misscocobutter]

There's nothing scary about a boner its a wonderful amazing thing. Don't worry u will relalise when u are older

[kelly173815]

ummm how old are you?

[Iron_Lions]

Hahaha

[Little_Storm]

fourteen

[kelly173815]

Okay, you're older than I thought. It's probably just inexperience. You're still really young, you'll get used to it over time. besides, it's totally normal, and isn't something that he can help, or control

[PalmWave]

you're perspective on the matter really reflects on you maturity. I dont think you're ready to engage in any sexual activity with boys. Your mind is too you and way too frail to understand what the sexual body can do. Besides where are your parents? lol

[Alessus]

While I agree with @Iron_Lions, I'm also wondering why do you find a boner disgusting? Is there a real reason for it or do you just feel that way?

[Little_Storm]

I have no idea what it is, but I feel bad and I don't know how to get used to it?

[Alessus]

Maybe you are a lesbian, if you feel physically repulsed by a natural part of a man.

[serp777]

Wow grow up. It's called biology. Guys don't have cooties. You do realize the entire goal of relationships is to eventually lead to sex right? That's why girls get with guys and vice versa. A boner is required to have sex. What is there to be afraid of ROFLMAO? It's not like it's the movie alien and his cock is going to turn into a monster and eat you alive.

[Shpongolia]

Boner-phobia is a real issue that impacts the lives of many in such a negative way. Don't be a victim and overcome your fears.

[famousme]

I think you meant 'disgusting' for a boner. Well if he dont get a boner then thats a problem. Erection is normal.
I think girls are lucky because when you girls are turn on, there are no abvious sign like an erection penis. Just wet vagina and stiff breast nipples. Kinda hidden. God creates that for girls to keep their dignity.
So, i guess you are not actually disgusted, but you are scared, maybe because you are too young and its your first experience of sexual interaction.

[Little_Storm]

yeah I think that's true^

[Iron_Lions]

What you need is a dictionary.

[DoraLikesSugar]

Honey you're a lesbian.