Would you let your guy friend go down on you? What do guys think of girls who have let their guy friends eat them out?

[Anonymous]

It was in the moment and I succumbed... I regret it a bit a couple of times or few I should say.- what do you guys think of 'guy friends' and relationships with their female friends- especially when he likes to go down on you, and wants to hang out with you (the girl) all the time? I told him to stop because it's something reserved for my bf, we just have chemistry that's why I say... I've fallen for him but trying to hide it in case he isn't the one. thoughts?

[Metlahead]

If you enjoy it, go for it. Don't beat yourself up over nothing. No one will judge you, and it doesn't need to be reserved for a boyfriend. If I was your boyfriend I wouldn't mind either. But if you have one yours might, honesty is the best policy.
There's absolutely no reason to feel bad about yourself. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

[275153]

As long as you return the favor and you both understand it's just sex, it's fine. You have needs too and as long as your friend doesn't mind satisfying them, it's all good.

[soapy18]

Go for it! He wants to and you do too. Don't worry about what may happen, you can face that when it comes to that.
I've had sex with a close male friend of mine for my first time and I haven't worried because I felt comfortable and I knew he would look after me... Etc.

[BuchitaBuchys]

You have a boyfriend but did an intimate/sexual act with another man? You are terrible person. If you were single, fine. But if you're in a relationship, I wouldn't respect a person like you.

[TheYellowBear]

I couldn't agree more.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@TheYellowBear Thanks :)

[Asker]

that's good. why would I respect you? what do you know about my personal situation or his? before you open your fat mouth, learn some manners.

[275153]

This is the point of time in life where experiments happen and lessens are learned. We don't love her life and we are not perfect ourselves. We cans (or rather, shouldn't) sit in judgment of her, if we ourselves are not perfect. ( incidentally, my reply here is not a judgment of your reply. Lol). The real question is what she'll learn from this experience.

[275153]

And for some reason, I can't hit the right keys on my iphone today.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@asker learn some self respect. And some respect for your boyfriend. @275153 Eh. I know I'm not perfect. But damn. If she didn't have self respect, at least respect your partner. I just don't like cheaters. If she had felt remorse, or seemed like she learned, coolio. But she doesn't seem like it. Sorry. I call it as it is. No need to fucking candy coat shit. That's not who I am.

[bDizzie]

If you have a boyfriend and you're letting a guy friend go down on you, that's just terrible.

If you are single, then whatever. I wish there were more girls out there like you, instead of the ones we have now, that aren't even interested in anything sexual, because of their crippling fear of being judged.

[bestadviceguy]

It's already happened, and it sounds like your regret is not severe, keep going if you enjoy it, and I'm sure he does too :) Good luck!!

[TheYellowBear]

If you're both single then I can't see any harm, if it doesn't feel right to you then don't engage in it. Learn the art form of self-control.

[Bigboy234]

No I'm not gay!

[sirwilliamknowsalot]

If you want friends to stay friends I suggest not doing anything physical!

[ND4SPD31]

Is it bad, that there are some girl friends of mine that I would love to do all those things too!! But I hold back :-(

[Asker]

lets be friends? ;)

[ND4SPD31]

U wanna message me?

[Anonymous]

It would only be wrong, if you're not returning the favor. Why should he eat you out, if you're not blowing him...