Sister saw her best friend blowing me?

[Anonymous]

So to make a long story short - my sister fell asleep downstairs when her friend was hanging out. I should point out she's known this girl for three years and they consider each other best friends. So her friend came upstairs and after bullshit polite conversation a game of truth or dare got really heated. Clothes were scattered everywhere, and she ended up on her knees, and I finished in her mouth. As I pulled out and we were laughing, we heard a floorboard outside my door creak. My heart pretty much stopped and my sisters friend scrambled to find her clothes. Nothing happened, but after my sisters friend left the room, I didn't hear anything downstairs for about 10 minutes. Then I heard the front door shut. I stayed in my room not knowing what to do. I left a few hours later and my sister was in her room across the hall staring daggers at me. "Really?" She yelled. I didn't know what to do. She ranted for a few minutes about how creepy and wrong it was and how she can never look at me or her friend the same way again and I tried to rationalize it, but she was angrier than I've ever seen her. What do I do? It was all consensual and we are of adult age. She's threatening to tell our parents. Why is she overreacting like this? Is this rational or crazy?

[KBob93]

Ok, dude. I've been in the SAME situation.
My brother had a couple friends over, & he knew his friend & I had a thing (& had done stuff). But what pissed him off was that Jerid came over to see HIM, not ME. But when my brother, Jerid and the third friend got drunk & crashed in the basement, I had gotten back home from visiting my friend's parents. I was tucked in when he came into my room intoxicated with just his underpants. I wasn't sure what to think of it, honestly; he was right there, & so was I, he was horny, I had a former crush on him. So it happened.
Bottom line, it really made my brother (& probably your sister) angry due to the fact that his/her friend was over to spend time with him/her, not take advantage of that time together for sex with their sibling. Except I ended up breaking down & telling my brother, as to probably why he wasn't nearly as mad at me as your sister was at you, by way of the nature he found out, versus the way she did!

You say that both of you are adults. How older/younger are you to her? Jerid's 18, I'm 21. Was she younger than you or older than you? Because if she's still in high school, word could spread around. Believe me, women talk. Your own sister would probably say something to slander her, but your name would be tossed in there too. Or what if this girl cries to a "friend she can trust" & then it's spewing in texts everywhere? See, that's the thing, Jerid & my brother attend church together. A lot of the age group at that church know that "Jerid fucked Jay's sister". It happens. Age can play a part in molded results, so watch out.

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

i mean i don't have a brother so i can't completely relate to your sister. i know two of my best friends have brothers and i mean i can't imagine i would do anything with either of them but i think i would be really hurt if my friend was pissed at me if i did happen to hookup with their brother. maybe she will cool down about it? i am honestly not sure why all these girls are freaking out and talking about bro code and you stealing her "bestie." maybe i'm just too chill I don't know lol you probs should have shut the door though haha

[Hajar_Whitestone]

let's be honest here and be open minded : she is her friend not her girlfriend she is an adult girl not a kid if her friend want to date you your sister doesn't have any right to involve you had sex with your sister's friend it's not a big deal your sister need to grow up.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

Thank you for MHO :)))

[MariahfanN1]

It's not a big deal? that tells me a lot about your personality, it's not about dating, it's about them behaving like rabbits.

[LovesTVDx]

She was downstairs as it happened! He needs to grow up and control his urges! There's a time and place for that, not when his sister is in the same house.

[Asker]

Why does that matter to YOU if two people behave a certain way?

[dartmaul15]

@LovesTVDx what sbout her friend (who evidently initiated it)? Does she need to controll herself, or was it ok?

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@MariahfanN1 it's there business if my brother fucked my best friend I want give that much attention they are adult not kids.. @LovesTVDx So what they are both adult not kids everyone has a right to do what ever he want why would I judge them? they didn't do anything wrong it's there life not mine or anyone's else

[LovesTVDx]

@Dartmaul15 nope they were both completely wrong, with that said he is her brother. To me he is just about worse considering he (assumedly) has been there all eachothers life, this girl had only been friends for a few years- I am not condoning the best friend at all

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@LovesTVDx tell me why? did he fucked his step sister or something? it's a strange girl from him..

[MariahfanN1]

@Opinion Owner that's just your opinion, whether they did something wrong or not, just because they are adults doesn't mean they can do whatever they want, that is a stupid argument, they should have respected at least the location if not her.

[LovesTVDx]

Exactly what @MariahFanN1 said. Sorry, not sorry- you don't do it in the same place where the sister could potentially walk in- she would obviously be traumatised. It shows the lack of respect both parties have for her.

[MariahfanN1]

@LovesTVDx is absolutely right.

[kep79]

there's a lot of frustrated girls here

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@kep79 am not frustrated I believe in freedom yes she is my friend but I don't have a right to control her behave he is my brother but it's his life he is adult. am open minded.

[kep79]

i was not referring to you, i agree with you, i was talking about the other girls

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@kep79 I see

[J1nnishere]

The amount of simple mindedness and lacking of understanding in the supporters of this act is just mind buggling! Haven't any of you (supporters) heard of conflict of interest? Don't you know unless you @asker and your sisters friend have a loving lasting relationship, only bad can come out of it? Unless of course, you're emotionally retarded and your sex to emotional bond has been severed or damaged on both ends. Also, you @asker seem to only be seeking for supporters instead of considering what night be truth. The truth is, what you did was absolutely unwise and disrespectful to your sister. The slut you got head from isn't even your sisters best friend or if she thinks she is, she should drop her, for bad company ruins good character. I thought not doing things like this is what makes us superior to animals... a superior understanding brain order. Well, thanks to people like you and your sisters "friend", Jerry springer has entertained us through exploiting idiots like you for yrs.

[J1nnishere]

And @hajar_whitestone , I had no idea adults are exempt from consequences of poor life choices! Adults are given the freedom because theyre expected not to do dumb shit not a green card to do dumb shit and get exempted from suffering. Wow, and you got best answer! You and the @asker should give oral to each other. By the looks of it, you'd do it in a heartbeat supporting his ass.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

If my best friend did it with my sister I would be grossed out on a personal level but I wouldn't call it "wrong" or immoral or irresponsible or anything. It wouldn't affect our friendship but I would just have this memory of my friend doing something gross. I'd react with "Urgh, dude, that's gross," and try to forget the image. That's all.

It might be a courtesy to run it by me that he wants to do it with my sister, but if it was spontaneous, then whatever, I'll deal. Even if they came to me, asked me and I said "Hell no, that's gross" and then they did it anyway I think I would still get past it just fine (possibly after some nausea).

So I don't think you did anything seriously wrong, but maybe fooling around with a girl's bestie is different to them because they might instinctually presume you were taking advantage of her somehow.. or something like that.. just a thought.

p. s. You're being too much of an asshole to the people disagreeing with you. Chill mate.

[Longblackveil]

Haha!!!

Look at all the girls saying you fucked up and all the guys saying "yeah! Atta boy!"

I don't know, I don't feel qualified to answer in all reality since I've never had a sister. My first thought is "atta boy!" But I think if I had a sister and she messed around with my best friend, I would feel a little different.

In the end though, she'll get over it. Just be nice, let her yell at you and be mad for a little while, don't let her anger get to you and let it blow over.

ooh that was a bad pun;)

[AustinMan]

My position is in between the two offered responses. I'm not sure it was right but if you were consenting adults then it's legal. Was it wise? Probably not. You live with your sister so keeping things stable will mae life easier. Is your sister sexually active? That would make a difference.

[dartmaul15]

Nothing wrong in that. Would've been if he approached her, but from what i understand that was not the case. Quite the contrary, it sounds like SHE approached him.
That makes it her call to have sex with him, and it also makes her the initator. So her FRIEND chose to bang her brother, not her botherchose to bang her friend. I'd say there's a moral difference there!

[lumos]

Not really, because he still had the choice to turn her down.

[dartmaul15]

@lumos he did, and so did she. Why is i that it is ok for HER to go after him, but it's not ok for him to go after her? Shouldn't you people also be thrashing the girl for fucking her best friend's brother? You do seem quick on the trigge when it comes to how HE behaves at least

[lumos]

It's not ok for her to go after him. I think his sister already proved that by telling her to leave after she found out. There's no point in scolding her though, since she most likely won't read any of this. But he will.

[dartmaul15]

@lumos yeah, but he's asking if it's right, AND he wants these two answered "Why is she overreacting like this? Is this rational or crazy?" So we've established it was wrong. Now let's answer the REAL question, k?

[lumos]

I already did, tho?

[giabanana]

I don't think it's a big deal... you didn't force her into anything and vise versa. You guys were just having fun. You're sister is just overreacting and you'll probably laugh at this in a couple years down the road

[lumos]

I'd be traumatized... seriously though, you just don't do that to your sibling's friend (s). I would NEVER in a million years do anything like that with my brother's friends. It's just weird, and it can potentially ruin friendships.
I don't really know what telling your parents would do, though. Apologize to her and then try to act normal again. Maybe she'll get over it.

[SummarHeart32]

Sorry but you just don't do that, maybe try explaining what happened and saying sorry to your sister

[Asker]

Why should I say sorry though? Her friend came upstairs and flirted with me, I flirted back. She took off my shirt, I took off hers! We made out, she sucked my dick, we laughed! It was fun and exciting! She just happens to be my sisters friend. I'm 20, she's 18 (legal age of consent) so I don't see a problem.

[MyNameIsJonas]

Well whats the age difference?

[summiter]

Hey you both were consenting adults. Was the bj good btw? I can see how your sister might be upset, but you are a young guy who like 99% of other guys want sex all the time. Maybe next time, find a place to fool around when your sister is not around. Your thoughts?

[Asker]

It all happened really fast and I wish my sister didn't come upstairs to see it. Of course next time, it will not be anywhere near anyone else.

[summiter]

Was the bj fun at least? I hope you got a great orgasm out of the deal!

[Asker]

It was amazing. she looked up and smiled as I finished and that sealed the deal. 10/10.

[summiter]

Outstanding! I'm sure you prefer getting a bj in your room as opposed to jerking off!

[anothergirl23]

Honestly, I think what you and her friend did was completely fine. It was consensual and I bet you both had fun so what's the big deal. You're sister is just going to have to get over it.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Your sister needs to lighten up.

[DodgersGM]

I accidentally voted B, meant to vote A.

I mean, it's your sister's nest friend, man. I get the appeal and I get that mistakes happen. I also get that you're not the only one at fault here, too. But yeah, next time exercise some better discretion and let your brain do a bit more of the thinking. LOL

[mikereno]

Your sister is understandably upset, she will get over it. You and the girl made your own decision to do that as adults

[zombiebabe]

dude its not okay!!! she's HER bestie

[dartmaul15]

Question; why is he in the wrong if SHE approached him?

[zombiebabe]

maybe his sister felt betrayed by her best friend and that her bro is the cause of it

[J1nnishere]

he shouldve said no either way but the slut best friends is more at fault and comepletely wrong for coming onto best friends brother. she a hoe but he cuolve refused

[Asker]

Why would I refuse if a cute girl wants to have some fun with me?

[Hajar_Whitestone]

they are adult not a kid and the girl is her friend not girlfriend that sister need to grow up if her brother did decide to date her so what would she do say no --" it's not her business thought

[Insaan]

Zombiebabe... you actually can't convince westerners why is it wrong to do like that. It's part and parcel of their life. They have their own cultural norms. There are many things that are somewhat acceptable in their society which we do not. We feel weird but they don't.

[Insaan]

@hajar_Whitestone Cool down girl. You need to read properly that he is not dating her. If he or she was genuinely attracted and dating each other then it is a different case. It was a random sexual encounter with her friend. RANDOM. Let me say once again R AN D O M. She blowed him in the name of game. She was a slut.

[NoMoreDreams]

How would you feel if your sister gave your best friend a blowjob or he ate her out?

Yeah you and her best friend are both adults but it's an unwritten rule. Bro code says guys can't go after their friends sister, this goes the other way too.

[thesaintman]

i tell ya it was wierd.

[SomeoneImportant]

Did she really think a guy would turn down a blowjob? Nothing wrong here. Don't sweat it man.

[kangy]

I wouldn't like it if my best fren did that to my sibling. Yes agreeable between two adults but I dont feel comfortable.

[Diego9O]

Mm what would you do if you get to find out that your sister and your bestfriend are going naughty under the same roof? Is irrespectfull.

[guitar94]

Irrespectful?

[Diego9O]

It is. If you had a sister and you care your best friend to your house and he end up having sex with her, what would you say. Ok?

[LovesTVDx]

I can see why she's mad!! How would you feel if you caught her with your best friend? It's different to if you were in a relationship with her but you did that while your sister was downstairs!

[Jakesusername]

Well at least you get along with her friends.

[MariahfanN1]

I wouldn't like that. I wouldn't be so close to her anymore if my best friend did that. She should tell your parents because this is a serious situation. I don't know why people take sex so lightly, especially in such circumstances like this.

She sucked my dick and swallowed my load, and then we laughed!! LOL WTF!
Today's generation is getting more and more uncivilized.

Tell your sister to suck her best friends brothers dick.

[Asker]

Go read some English poetry from the 17th, 18th century. Pretty much all about sex. Most of it was adulterous too. Shut up with the "this generation is failing" bullshit.

[MariahfanN1]

You are the evidence that today's teenagers are a bunch of cheeky babies that are reckless and think they can do what ever they want.

[Asker]

But if we are two consenting adults (20 & 18 years of age) we CAN do what we want.

[MariahfanN1]

You are behaving like animals because you did it right in front of your sister, you should have went to your bedroom or something. But no! let's do it right here! just like animals do! It's not about personal lives or religion, it's about how you act and here you have shown 0 respect for your sister therefore you sound like a typical TODAY'S teenager to me, sad.

[Asker]

Okay I already stated that I'm 20 and if you actually READ the story instead of fuming about today's teenagers - which is such a hot button issue with you - you would know that we were in my room upstairs and my sister was downstairs asleep. She happened to come upstairs and walk by my door.

[MariahfanN1]

What would you do if you were in her position? She seems like a slut, your sister should get rid of her ASAP. I would like to see your reaction if your sister started sucking your friends. and you suddenly came by.

[Asker]

Because we should demonize girls who choose to have sexual relations by calling them sluts.

[Asker]

Yeah I'd be a little weirded out if my sister did the same thing, but if they're consenting adults, it's none of my business what happens.

[MariahfanN1]

She sucked your dick and swallowed your cum, then she laughed!! Sounds like a slut to me especially because she did it for a bed.