What the hell does it mean when a guy rubs your arm?

[hannah23]

I was watching a movie with my bf on his bed on the laptop i was wearing sweat pants and a white t shirt so nothing attractive in the middle of the movie, he paused the movie and rubbed my arm from shoulder to elbow twice then un paused the movie and the rest of the movie he had his hand on the inside of my thigh when i removed it he just put it back again i am freaking out right now we're both virgins and we talked about leaving sex till after marriage because well its cuter but now i have no idea what does his actions even mean and even tho a lot tell me that i have a"sex drive" now that he's getting serious i don't know what to do

[AustinMan]

I suggest you forgo the wait. In my mind, he's clearly making the move toward sex now. I am opposed to waiting because sex is such a critical element in a marriage that entering into a lifetime commitment without knowing in an experiential way that the sex works is insane and bad judgement.

[hannah23]

So you're saying that sex make the marriage worse?

[AustinMan]

Bad sex certainly can. Or mismatched libidos. Or one partner being kinky and the other vanilla.

[hannah23]

i understood 25% of your sentence but okay!

[AustinMan]

Libido is sex drive. Mismatched means that one has a high or very high sex drive and wants sex 2-3 times per day (that's me) won't be happy with someone who only wants sex every two weeks. Kinky is a collection of things like BDSM, spanking, sexual role playing, etc.

[hannah23]

Oh okay makes sense now! I don't think i actually have a sex drive now that everything stepped out from my imagination to real life. Thanks anyways!

[AustinMan]

Since you're under 18 and I never intended to respond to questions from that age group, we'll just leave it at that.

[badger25]

It's fin if you want to wait for sex but if you are into the guy there is nothing wrong with a little spooning and rubbing your hands all over eachother

[hannah23]

I guess so.. thanks anyways

[badger25]

If it's something your not comfortable with let him know!!

[hannah23]

its not that i'm not comfortable but not used to it...

[badger25]

Try and get used to it! It's fun right?

[hannah23]

haha yes kind of!

[badger25]

Yeah it's always a little awkward at first

[hannah23]

exactly!

[badger25]

Well I hope you're having fun with it!! :)

[ArabianPwincess197]

He likes u

[hannah23]

okay..