I think that's really cool that you feel strongly about your decision for no sex. That takes a lot of self respect, good for you. There isn't anything wrong with that, but it may be unfortunate for this guy you're dating because he obviously feels differently. If you haven't figured, guys really like physically interacting with a girl in a relationship. That doesn't always mean sex, like cuddling, holding hands, hugging, etc.
So far I think you've played your cards smart. Telling him your feelings is always a good step one. Despite a troubled past, I think you should care for his feelings in exchange. Cuddle with him more, hug him when you see him, etc. We like having a girl who physically shows that she cares about us. A handwritten letter doesn't really show physical affection.
I know you have had a troubled past, I'm sorry to hear about that. I think you need to help yourself out by telling him about your troubles. Maybe he can help ya out? We love helping our girlfriends out, that's how we feel important to our girlfriends. We love solving their problems and earning trust.
Basically what I suggest is for you to physically open up to him a bit more. Let him know who you are by talking with him and tell him about your "happy days" as well as your "sad days". If he continues with the whole "why can't we have sex" talk, then he's a waste of your time, energy, and you should dump him.0 0 0 0You asked him to be open and he was. You can't blame your partner for wanting you sexually. Imagine if he didn't want you that way!
He would be worth forgetting about if he forced you to do what you are not confident with. Not if he is simply speaking his mind.
Just because I guy wants sex doesn't mean he is only interested in sex. Yes there are a lot of guys who are, but there are a lot of guys who also see it as a greater step than kissing, eg making love. I wouldn't have sex with a girl I didn't have loving feelings for.0 0 0 0
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Sorry to say he just wants sex I am on the same situation. I went out with a guy and after I told him I wasn't just some hook up he still tried to have sex with me on the first date... it was annoying he said he wants me badly but he can wait. Then he kept making out with me and tried again... kept telling me how much he likes me etc. I know he just wants sex though and you gotta stay strong and wait for the right man because these are not men they are boys 💗
0 0 0 0I think you should cut this guy off. Clearly he only wants one thing from you & that's sex.
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0 3Either he's lying his ass off and screwing other girls behind your back...
Or he seems to genuinely want both.0 0 0 0Obvious he's not looking for nothing serious with the girls he puts in that category.
0 0 0 0Life is so fast. I move so slow.
He cares nothing for you.0 0 0 1
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