Can a guy be horny and not have a boner?

can a guy be horny and not have a boner? or if a guy is horny does he have to have a boner? i heard somewhere that every time a guy is horny they get a boner.
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  • Honestly, no a male doesn't need to have a boner. Horny is the feeling of wanting sexual thoughts or physical touching.

    They usually have a boner from physical touching or a sexy mental image. But the blood that rushes to the penis constantly moves, so the boner kind of hardens and softens if the touching or image stops (think of those like fuel)

  • Yes... Why did my comment the other day get you thinking about this?

    • i don even know waht you are talking about i am asking to see if someone i like says to me he hornydoes he have a >

    • Well... Yes, I can be horny and not have a hard on.

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  • Being horny can actually out last a boner. Boners also happen without being horny. One does not guarantee the other. So yes, a guy can be horny and not have a boner. He'll just be very quick to get one if you do something arousing.

  • Yeah, you can see an attractive female and be all fidgety and agitated with the whole butterfly effect in your stomach thing and not have a boner.

  • 95% of the time when we're horny, we get a boner. We do occasionally get a rush of hormones even without getting an erection however.

  • Nope, I doubt it is possible cause I personally have never been in that position at all nor do I know anyone else that has

  • It depends on the situation , sometimes a guy has masturbated too much in past few days that even if he is very horny , his penis would not listen to him..
    so, it depends, if you explain your situation, it can be better to find a reason :)

  • I suppose so. A few years ago, my 2nd girlfriend came back and wanted to fuck me some more and I wanted to fuck her but, as much as we tried, I just couldn't get hard enough to get into her. I don't have that problem any other time so, it's not ED. It's just that I was no longer IN love with her.

  • Yeah, it's possible.

  • Of course they can. I only get a boner if someone toughes me down there. I never got a randomn boner, just because I am horny

  • The simple answer is yes.

  • Yes, a guy can be mentally horny and not have a boner. this happens usually after the teenage years. But when a woman touches them, they are primed and ready.

  • For us guys, being horny is synonymous with a boner, we can be romantic without a boner but as things heat up we are bound to get a boner and become horny

  • Yep. And we could even get a boner if we're not horny.

  • I can't imagine myself being horny without a boner