Why most guys can only cum once during sex? How can we fix it?

Most of the guys that I have been with can only cum once during a night of sex. Some can stay hard and get really close to orgasm again, but they couldn't ejaculate. Why is that? For me, I can keep going and I still have plenty of energy. I asked them if it was me, and they said no it's not my fault, but what can we do so that he can cum again?
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  • As pointed out by my esteemed co-member @yaddayaddayadda02, men have a refractory period but a lot of men seem to think it's measured in days. First of all, it's his responsibility to wait to cum until his woman has cum several times. My goal is 10-15. By that time, she's fully depleted and often is begging me to cum, which turns me on no end. If he waits to pull the trigger, two things are true. One is that she's a molten blob with a giant grin and she's not dying to go again right then.

    Second point is that most men's refractory period is really an hour or less but he needs to rest and let his prostate et al recover. When he's recovered, it can all start again. If he can't cum, a brief rest and then telling him to be selfish and just give it to her often works.

  • Well, it varies but male bodies does not work as female bodies. If the woman can squirt then after once or twice she would be able to have orgasm but will not squirt. Same is the case with men. Ejaculation is too intense although it uses 1/3-1/2 of the mature sperms but still it is a lot. Therefore, there is a regeneration process of sperms and they will get back to the same amount in 10-25 days. There is no fix to it.

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  • https://i.imgur.com/uyy5QV5.gif

    Because we don't have unlimited reserves.

    • Sucker punch lol

  • Let's say the penis relaxes after we cum. It just needs some time to be ready again, there's nothing to be done about it, it's normal. Be sure it's not your fault.

  • You are a woman. Men have a refractory period. The fact he can stay hard is good enough, honestly.

  • Hormones like prolactin. Ask the guy to try and last longer. Some guys don't want to have long periods of sex though. Try asking for oral.

  • some can go multiple times. but the load is less and less.

    • why is him cumming more than once so important.

  • It's because they are weak and do not have the stamina to get their balls into 5th gear!

  • guys can cum more than once just need some rest in between babe, im a young 50 and can still do 3 or 4 times in a good session, just keep the kissing and touching going , keep things relaxed

  • If he's abstained from any sexual activity for several days before, you might be able to get another orgasm out of him, but it'll be hard work.

    It's just the way we're put together. We fire off a big load to maximise the chances of pregnancy and then need time to rebuild our stocks.

    Sex isn't just about orgasms...

  • I do not know how to fix this for other men but I can go at it three or four times and ejaculate each time just not as much as the first time we only have so much cum

  • its how men are built.

  • I cum 5-6 times a night

  • I Cum 2 - 4 Times With My Wife Within An Hour