My boyfriend is obsessed with sniffing my ass?

[Anonymous]

The first time he done it, I thought it was my imagination. Then he begun going down and taking long deep sniffs which turned him on like I have never seen him before.

Sometimes I will just be lying there and he will go down and start smelling my ass, it's like some form of foreplay to him as after that he wants to have sex. During doggy, he will stop, bend to sniff/lick my ass then start sex in this position again.

Is this weird or normal?

[DrSevan]

Your boyfriend is in the grip of a sexual fetish, and most, if not all, men have some type of fetish to a greater or lesser degree. It happens because of the way men are "wired," meaning neurochemically. Generally, almost no women suffer from a fetish, because women are "wired" differently than men. I have had the same fetish as your boyfriend, started when I was 14 years old, and still going strong. I should mention that, although I love to smell women's bums, and to rub my nose into their assholes, It never smells like shit or feces. A clean bottom has a distinctive fragrance, all its own. I came across a couple comments on this thread which claimed it made more sense to lick an asshole than to smell one --- but not to me, who licks something before they smell it. Not me, before I use my tongue on a woman's bum, I wanna know how clean it is. The way to find out if the butt is clean and healthy: spread the bum cheeks apart nice and wide work your nose into the bum crack, press your nose tightly up against the puckered butthole, deeply inhale through your nose. You'll know. In closing let me just add my hope that you will continue to allow your boyfriend to enjoy all your smells and flavors.

[anon2xbn]

for real? hahaha it smells shit even it clean regularly

[ImHere22]

what? you actually eat ass? dude. no. that's disgusting! Oh and this: "most, if not all, men have some type of fetish to a greater or lesser degree. It happens because of the way men are "wired," meaning neurochemically. Generally, almost no women suffer from a fetish, because women are "wired" differently than men. " is all total lies. Ask me what fetish I have? Wait for it... None, shit-breath! Yea, don't lump all men into your very small, very specific fetish...

[Sebers12]

Bullshit! All asses smell like shit! Girls fart and poop during day, and asshole is end of stomache, so it smells like shit. Don't say bullshit!

[Sebers12]

@ImHere22 Women are aroused by the same as men. And they are aroused by smell of farts and poop from men asses. It's normal and natural.

[Drummerandfunny]

@ImHere22 I eat shit too. I love it. why you so upset? Your missing out and that’s on you. Anus and shit are two completely different smells.

[Sebers12]

@Drummerandfunny No, anuses and shit are the same smells! Anus is strongly connected with shitty scent.

[Iwanttoknow2024]

@Sebers12 my boyfriend is constantly asking to smell my ass. Since I know this i'm always prepared. If I've recently gone to the bathroom then I won't let him. But if I haven't, I will usually put some coconut oil up there. And the front, it's very healthy and good for you. He goes down there and stays for a while. So I must be doing something right. Plus I use Victoria's secret vanilla tion. Also not a lot, just a little... There are ways to avoid your asshole smelling like shit lol

[Sarcasm13]

I was one of the few that voted "normal" on this. Certainly not because I've ever done it or had it done. The reason why is because there are hundreds of "fetishes" that turn people on. What I may find a turn on, others may see as odd, disgusting, or even repulsive. Does it make it wrong? Absolutely not. Does it make it weird? That's a matter of personal perspective. If it is something that makes you uncomfortable you may want to talk to him or even consider the fact that you may not be sexually compatible. If it doesn't truly bother you and you are "ok" with it, then let him continue as long as he doesn't cross any personal boundaries. I'll revert back to the old adage, different strokes for different folks. Weird is only in the eye of the beholder. I hope this helps. Good luck and have fun!

[Asker]

Perspective is in the eye of the perceiver.. It's more a thing of me wanting to understand where such preferences develop and what drives them

[Sarcasm13]

Understanding what drives specific behavioral patterns is one thing. However, understanding a specific fetish and why an individual has said fetish is a different story. The only comparison I can think of is why some people like broccoli but others don't. It's just a matter of the brains biological makeup. It doesn't make a person "weird", just "different".

[Asker]

Any fetish is derived from some occurrence during sexual development, this association was made then, that's how most fetishes are created.

[johnvanjohn]

no. this pseudofreudian crap isn't real. about infantile experiences playing such a huge role.

[Asker]

Disprove it?

[Sarcasm13]

I have a huge foot fetish. There is absolutely nothing in my past (including my childhood) that would lead to that. Aside from that, usually the person making a "factual statement" is the one that has to provide the proof. So, where is your "proof" that past experiences lead to future fetishes?

[Asker]

Well it wouldn't apply to everyone would it, just beause it isn't that way for you doesn't mean it's the same for everyone

[Sarcasm13]

You said "ANY" fetish is derived from past experiences in your comment. I simply disagreed.

[Asker]

That's fine, I said any fetish but not all people..

[Caius]

The evolutionary incentive is to test if your partner has any pathogens that may be harmful. Smelling ass is on the same spectrum as smelling a vagina or smelling sweat. The extent to what you are willing to smell depends on genetics for the most part. It's likely that culture and past exploration with such things will influence your present desires but it's unclear how influential such factors are. Ultimately, if he enjoys your smell it means your body is likely safe for him to be in contact with. The sexual arousal or repulsion acts as a drive to incentivize mating with a clean partner and avoid taking risks with unclean ones. Your nose doesn't have the precision to detect all harmful agents but it can detect the majority of common harmful pathogens.

[curious_99th]

This is interesting as I was looking this topic up for a female friend who thought it was disgusting to her but not all (men and women). The medical explanation is this has to do with pheromones (a chemical substance produced and released into the environment by an animal, especially a mammal or an insect, affecting the behavior or physiology of others of its species) not a fetish. A way for females to relate maybe when a man 'smells' good because of the brand of cologne he's wearing... to a different woman she may not like 'that' cologne (scent) but it's the pheromones that cause the sense. It's all different depending on the person, not a fetish per say. I like it, shrugs... voted normal

[oneleggedwonder]

When I was 12, this cute redheaded girl, age 14, did something to me that created a fetish that has lasted a lifetime.

[Tim2nice]

Excellent answer.

[Derpyy]

I don't know how old this is, but here's my two cents. Just because you don't understand something, doesn't make it bad. People fesr what they cannot understand. It's not weird. I honestly don't see how licking isn't weirder than smelling. I mean, what stimulation does the licker get? It goes the same way with, "what stimulation does the sniffed get?" It's always seemed pretty biased to me...

I'm a female, and my boyfriend loves to do what yours does. Therefore, every night, I make him smell my ass until he comes while I talk dirty to him. And I love hime for it everyday. Even though I do not get off on the exact act, simply seeing that a part of me can make a man go crazy with lust feels me with joy, and THAT fact turnd me on. Your boyfriend isn't weird, he's a feak and you should love him for all his quirks. Just talk to him. I'm sure there are things he does for you that he's not so enthusiastic about.

There, my rant is over.

[Mike0122]

Amazingly well said. I too enjoy a couple sniffs of the butt. Good stuff

[Invincible_Toaster]

On behalf of the ass sniffing community, I would like to thank you. I know I'd lose my mind if a girl was talking dirty to me while I sniffed her ass.

[JayTeez]

Those acts are medically unclean. And in reality is a form of mental sickness. These activities are known in western societies where many "fetishes" exist outside of purposeful sexual intimacy. Any act that is harmful is considered as unclean. Cleanliness is next to godliness and we all know how westerners feel about God and morals.

[Anonymous]

I think it's just a fetish, like some people love to suck toes and sniff armpits and whatnot lol I've seen some pretty dank stuff, but I guess normal.

[Asker]

It's just nothing I have ever come across- ever

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I've never heard that one before lol.

[curious_99th]

This is interesting as I was looking this topic up for a female friend who thought it was disgusting to her but not all (men and women). The medical explanation is this has to do with pheromones (a chemical substance produced and released into the environment by an animal, especially a mammal or an insect, affecting the behavior or physiology of others of its species) not a fetish. A way for females to relate maybe when a man 'smells' good because of the brand of cologne he's wearing... to a different woman she may not like 'that' cologne (scent) but it's the pheromones that cause the sense. It's all different depending on the person, not a fetish per say. I like it, shrugs... voted normal

[RationalLioness]

Some people have fetishes that aren't well known. I don't see that as weird but funny to be honest. I know many guys who have fart fetishes.

[Arianna16]

it depends on ur personal preference, if u don't like it then just tell him

[Asker]

Still doesn't beat the fact that it's a little unorthodox

[Mr_twoface]

Interesting that more than 90% believes this is normal. I've never heard of it nor experienced it myself as a guy. I enjoy rimming an ass but not sniffing it. I guess everyone has different fetishes! If you are uncomfortable with it, just let him know.

[ImHere22]

What store do you shop at for him? The store I used to take my girl changed ownership- they still do great with her nails and getting in without an appointment, but I've noticed the inventory just isn't quite there yet...

When you take him out, would you say the sniffing is excessive? He might be nervous? I would talk with his doctor the next time you take him in for a check up.

*Your boyfriend sounds like a dog. Who goes around smelling ass? If I wanted to smell shit all day, I'd work for a port-a-potty repair and replacement company.

[Sebers12]

Most people is aroused by true smell of ass, it means farts/poop from opposite gender.

[JuicyBrain]

I don't see a problem. After all, women are into men and I find men disgusting. I can't understand how or why like it. Also, most women can't understand the appeal of another woman like I do. Such is the miracle of nature... We don't get to chose what attracts us. Some women wear perfume. Personally, it makes me physically gag. I can't stand the smell. Yet, I like that smell of a cattle farm. It may have to do with the fact that when I was young, I spent my best time in the country and there was someone I hated who wore strong perfume. Who knows, maybe he spent his best years cleaning septic tanks? LOL

[Riverock]

It is weird. He's not alone I'm sure but he must be in a pretty small minority.

Whether or not, it's wrong or unacceptable is up to you two.

[Asker]

I agree but I jugs don't understand why anyone would like the smell of asshole

[Riverock]

Neither do I. When it comes to things like this I just think: 1. Is it between 2 consenting adults? 2. Is it harmless? If the answer to both of those questions is yes, then it's not my place to judge or complain. It's strange but I'm sure there are stranger fetishes out there. It's up to you two (you especially) what you do about it.

[Asker]

I totally get what you mean but I just can't understand the appeal of an ass smell. Also, everything is fine in moderation so the constant sniffing is strange to me, it's like an obsession

[catarecute]

90% voted normal lol i think its time to leave this site!!!

[LongHairDude]

It feels weird to me but I don't judge. I can understand in a way since I like sniffing the pussy and get aroused by that. I just don't get the anal attraction since it doesn't feel sexual to me at all.

[BertMacklinFBI]

you mean like your butt hole? or just your cheeks?

[Asker]

My butt hole, ring of glory, poop portal. Seriously I'm really unable to see the appeal

[BertMacklinFBI]

yeah.. me too..

[Maraneva]

My wife always complains playfully when I go down there, spread her ass cheeks and just inhale like I'm gonna breathe her in whole before probing her asshole with my tongue like a power drill! It feels that good! But to each, his/her own. Some people like it, some don't.

[killergoku999]

When you say ass you mean anus place or butt crack/cheeks? I would say, not for me, but if he likes it and you don't mind, well, why not have fun with it ;)

[Eatmedrinkme]

My boyfriend will rub his finger on my arsehole when we have sex and then sniff it. He's always doing it to see what i smell like. If I'm naked he always rubs his finger their and sniffs it. Most of the time it will make him want to have sex. I find it funny!

[DontDropIt]

Your bf is quite the romantic!

[Asker]

He sure it lol

[The_Sexpert]

If it's not a whole 10 minute or half an hour session of him spending on your ass alone, no it's not a fetish it's just a part of foreplay

[Mac-One]

Not interested in smelling that.

[meatballs21]

It seems weird to me - at least licking it, you (the female) are getting some kind of pleasure and stimulation out of it too. Him just huffing your ass, nothing,.

[Asker]

I know, I mean, what is the propose? Who honestly like the smell of ass? I just wonder how and when this started for him.

[meatballs21]

Some people really do have that fetish, though.

[Asker]

It's all new to me

[kangy]

I find it weird
did u ask him
what if u fart into his face

[Asker]

If I farted in his face he would probably climax there and then, I don't want to spark of something even stranger lol. I haven't spoken to him about this before. I don't want to make him feel insecure, he must feel very comfortable around me to do this and I don't want to make him feel like he can't express himself so I'm treading water

[Nehaagarwal]

You think he will enjoy the farts?

[MJstheman23]

I'm a total ass man and have licked and smelled every girlfriends ass that I've been with. What you describe about the stopping during sex to lick/smell and then continue with sex, I've 9nly done with 1 girl. She also happened to have the most amazing smell out of any woman I've ever been with. It would turn me on more than anything, so I'd drop in during sexand then continue what I was doing. Guarantee that's what you have going on here. Your smell obviously drives your man absolutely nuts, which you should take as a compliment.

[stratford]

Do you like the sensation when he licks you back there?

[sc15022]

I personally find it weird, but different strokes for different folks I guess. I don't know, maybe if your ass smells like springtime cinnamon I would understand 😂

[amphet11]

I find girls assholes visually appealing, but i am not going to sniff or lick it.

[Asker]

Lol that's cool but it's mainly the sniffing

[Nothing_]

Its his fetish.

[Asker]

I'm struggling to understand it

[Nothing_]

I don't get it neither. But I wouldn't say its weird.

[Asker]

I'm trying to be fair