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Do I fancy my female masseuse? Is she hitting on me? Why do I get aroused by her and is it all right to moan out loud?

I recently started seeing a mobile masseuse. I have seen other female masseuses before and have kept relatively calm. The day I first met this one, let's call her L, I thought wow, she is hot! She is tall, leggy and very fit. And when she gives the massage, we talk a little. She has a great personality to match. I love the way she massages me, especially my glutes and thighs. For some reason, unlike with previous massage therapists, I find it arousing when this one does my legs. She goes really high on my inner thighs up to my groin. And it feels so so so good! I normally don't moan, because I am nervous, but I really want to! I end up getting tense because I am holding back. I think she realizes I am excited as she can probably see my erection when facing down and definitely when facing up. I've seen her for a while now. She texts me about massages and adds x's. She also kisses me on the cheeks before leaving. I have always tipped her well from day one so I don't think she is doing it to earn money? I can't help but get excited, but I want to relax when with her. I feel like I am holding back (by not moaning out loud) and end up having to masturbate my excitement about her away once she leaves (normally to her picture). She seems to like my compliments and she seems to like feeling my body. She randomly did my chest and hands the other day and seemed to enjoy it. She goes really high up to my groin on my legs. It feels like heaven when she does the inner thighs. She also has asked me "Does this feel good" in a sexy voice when massing me. How can I ask her to focus on my thighs rather than doing calves? How do I flirt with her a little more? She is a young hot masseuse a few years older than I. What kind of things to text her? Is it all right to wish her new years?
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  • I wouldn't ask her if it's okay to moan, because she might find that a bit weird. However, I don't see anything wrong with asking her out. The worst she'll do is say no. I'm not a touchy feely kind of girl (I'm shy) and I am also no a masseuse, so I wouldn't know why she touches up higher. I know for all the massages and I've had they've never gone up between my thighs. However, I doubt a male ever would just because they'd be scared of a sexual assault law-suit. With females, a guy is likely not going to complain if she's touching up higher, especially if she is hot. I'd say if you really want more from her, out of your options just risk asking her out. I just think anyone would be weirded out if you asked if you can moan more than they would be if you asked them out.

    • This is really good advice. Thanks! Yes, I'm not sure why she touches really high. It's literally right up to the groin. I love it tbh and it feels relaxing. Tbh, wouldn't mind if she focused there which she does when I'm facing down. She must see my erection as well which is why I was embarrassed. One day she actually touched it (through a sheet) by accident and moved it onto my stomach. Thing is I am currently traveling for work. I haven't seen her for ages. She knows this. Is it okay to text her for Christmas or to flirt? She is very hot and has entered my thoughts sometimes. She used to text me about appointments and flirted a lot. Last time, she kissed me on the cheeks before leaving. Thing is I end up being so hard, that I had to masturbate about her after she had left. Thoughts on texting her?

    • It wouldn't hurt if she's already texting you and flirting. Go ahead and see what happens. Flirting with you over a text definitely seems a lot more than a masseuse and client relationship.

    • Thing is she was texting and flirting whilst setting up appointments. Having said that, on one occasion we just texted and it was fun. At first she had thought I was booking her, but then she just continued texting. Is that good? I'm not sure how to text her really. Is a simple how's it going message all right? Is it okay to wish her for xmas/new yrs? Also how do you flirt with her a little?

  • How about you say something like " I have a lot of pain in my inner thighs could you focus there?" Just casually ask and then maybe she massage your inner thighs more often. Also just subtly brush your erect penis maybe on her arm or hand just to like let her know. And then finally when your ready ask her out. Wow I know this is weird but your story about her massage is making me really horny like my Pussy is dripping?

    • Right. Is it okay to say that?

    • It's fine to say that because it doesn't sound sexual it sounds casual

    • That's a good point! Phew, thanks. Tbh, I really do find her inner thigh massage relaxing. Could you help me out on another question pls? About a friend putting feet on me. Appreciate your advice!

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  • Well if you think she likes you and enjoys giving you massages why don't you just ask her out? She can be asking you "if it feels good" because she wants you to enjoy the service she's giving you. so you could come back.

    • She's a mobile masseuse and she's been visiting me. I genuinely find her massage really great. I think because I find her attractive it heightens the excitement, especially when she does my inner thighs! I feel nervous about being vocal in sessions though. I would prefer to moan out in pleasure, but am forcing myself to be silent. It means I end up less relaxed than I could be I guess. Maybe she wonders why I am not letting loose? I do like her, I think she is a few years older, but seriously she is so hot. Thing is, with work I have been traveling. Haven't seen her for a bit.

    • 1. She used to text me a lot (about appointments, but there was flirting) Is it all right to send a xmas/New year's message? 2. Should you text her on sms or whatsapp? She used to text me (with x's) on sms. After a period of absence, I messaged her to ask how she was on whatsapp. Got her to laugh a little. 3. Is it all right to flirt with her on text If so, should I just ask how she is or how her weekend is going? 4. Can you befriend her? Atm, I am not in her city for the holidays. So could I just text her and ask how's her day going?

    • When she massages me, I end up getting really hard. When facing down and facing up her fingers go really up my inner thigh. I love it. One day I was slightly embarrassed. When I turned over, I was so erect that she touched my dick whilst running her hands up my leg. She ended up using the small sheet covering it to guide my dick onto my stomach. But I didn't say anything. I wasn't sure what to do. Thing is I felt even more nervous with my dick like that. I wanted to move it to one side, but was unsure what to say. When we've finished, I find it very difficult to sit up because I am so hard. I wish the massage would go on forever and really want to ask whether she could focus on my thighs rather than calves. Before she leaves, she always gives me a hug around my waist. I have always tipped well from day one. From week 2 onwards, she kissed me on the cheeks before saying goodbye.

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  • Yeah you can flirt her over text. If things go wrong tell her you were just friendly kidding her as she can't see your expressions.
    If you want to moan then moan but not too loud because it'd be so weird. Do it in low voice.
    You want her to concentrate on thighs, tell her, she is paid for this.
    Good luck.

    • Awesome. In terms of best way to flirt over text? Can I text her regularly to ask how she is? I haven't seen her for a bit as I am traveling for work. How to best ask her to focus just on my thighs and ignore calves?

    • Yeah text regularly but I can't tell you exactly what to text because texts differ as personality.

    • Right. Reason why dream about her massaging me? lol

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  • If all you want is to moan then don't do it... she'll get uncomfortable if you're being excessive
    If you want to ask her out then be ready to stop being her client... because there are regulations for someone in her position

    • Got it, thanks. Thing is should I ask her whether I can moan? I'm not sure I want to ask her out.. am I attracted to her because she is fit and massaging me? She is really hot tbh! She texts me with regards to appointments, but flirts too. Is it okay to text her? Atm, I am not seeing her as I have been traveling for work for a long long time now. Last time texted her was a few months ago.

    • Feel free to text if you want to see where it could go but no you shouldn't moan nor should you ask her If it happens accidently then I guess you can see her reaction to it...

    • Got it. As I'm not seeing her as a masseuse atm, what can I text her to be flirty? Flirty things for xmas/new yrs?

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  • My mom was a massage therapist. They are not paid "foam shower girls" so don't hit on her. If she does end up doing happy endings she's nothing more than a licensed whore.

    • It's always been a massage. One day I was slightly embarrassed. I had gotten so hard that I think she accidentally flicked my dick when she was running her hand up my thigh. She used the sheet to move it onto my stomach as I was so erect. I didn't no what to say! She makes me feel very relaxed. I really want to be able to moan out when I enjoy her massage, but feel worried to exclaim "Ohhhh" or anything of the sort. Thing is it's more innocent flirting, but after the 2nd session, she's started to kiss me on cheeks before leaving and hug me with her hand on my waist. She's really hot and it's hard (literally) not to get excited. Can I text her about non appointment related things? It's been a while now. What flirty thing to say? New years text?

    • Is it all right to keep my eyes open? I like to watch her massaging me.

    • What is a foam shower girl?

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  • I think she's just doing her job, but hey if you want her ask her out.

    • I think so as well. I mean I'm not currently in her town at the moment. I texted her and we had a texting conversation twice now. Worth keeping in touch do you think? How to do it? She is fit tbh!

  • just do it

    https://youtu.be/Spny9p0G_yc?t=26s

    • Haaaa! You really think that would work? Remember this episode, back in the day. Seriously though what to do?

    • sure.. just remember to tip her very well for enduring your noise lol

    • Lol I'm not sure I want to moan that loudly!! But I would like to go "Ohh yeah" I love it when she massages my thighs, she goes right up the inner thigh. Can I ask her to focus there?

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  • Continue to enjoy her silently

    • Okay, thanks for the advice! Is it all right to text flirt with her? I haven't seen her for a while whilst traveling for work. What type of things to say? Text on xmas/new years?

    • So no moaning?

    • It's hard not to, I end up getting tense trying to keep it all inside,

  • You want this to turn into a "Dear Penthouse" letter, its her job. Nothing more.

    • You sure? Why the kisses on the cheek? She did that from week 2 onward? And so high up the thighs?

    • @catpetter @Starrk @Born2shine01 @SuperMommie13 @crazyincalifornia @Hajar_Whitestone @kittykatg @coffeprince @LastGirlScout What do you think about this?

  • She is providing a professional service, treat it as such. If you aren't mature enough to ignore your arousal, get a different masseuse.

    • She massages really far up the inner thigh.. much higher than anyone else has. I mean, I really like it though! Does it mean anything?

    • Can I ask her to focus there?

    • If you want to pursue ANYTHING sexual or romantic, you should not continue using her professional services, period. It's also not fair to her to put her in that situation. Even if she is attracted to you in return (I can't obviously say if she is or is not), your move should be made only once you are no longer professionally linked.

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