Why does guys like grabbing butts so much?

I have the smallest butt ever, but my boyfriends hands are like constantly on it anyway, and he really likes to sort of spank it - gently. As a girl I honestly find this quite funny and weird. Why does he like that so much? Also I thought guys definitely prefered big butts!
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  • Women's butts have the sexiest shape to them. I love how they move as you are walking. They feel amazing. It is great how your hand just cups and glides over her ass cheek. When it comes to guys, you have your boob guy, leg guy and ass guy. You probably have an ass guy. We just love them. Enjoy it.

  • simple question: because its feminine part in women and its one of the parts that attracts men.. me my self i dont see a point spanking... etc but feeling while sex it actually makes the women feel good... mind answering my questionwww.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1263498-a-waitress-i-talked-to-in-a-bar

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  • for some reason my bf likes to do that with me as well, mines also really small and he loves to grab it and spread it apart (gives me shivers), i dont really know why he likes it so much but i only enjoy it when i'm aroused (and hate when he does it in public)

  • Guys are touchy feely and he probably feels it's the most sexual part of you he can get away with squeezing whenever he wants! Just take it as a compliment :)

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  • There are as many different preferences as there are butts out there. He likes yours. I'm playing with my lady's ass ALL THE TIME!! I'm an inveterate booty man so if I get close to it, I gotta play with it, pat it, swat it, grope it, whatever...

  • Not all guys like big butts. I like smaller ones. If you do not like him to touch you there then tell him. I'm sure he would rather touch your breasts!

    • Nah it's okay I just find it sort of weird :P And he never ever touches my brests hah - he takes off my bra, but he never touches them.. Maybe because they're too small i think

    • He does not want to touch your breasts... why> Many guys like smaller breasts including me. Tell him what you like and do not like. The key is to communicate what feels good and what does not. Guys need some feedback! Are you two having sex? Is he a virgin and perhaps a bit scared/shy?

    • Let's just say I'm wayy too shy to ask him hah! And no he's slept with a couple of girls before me, but I was a virgin before I met him..

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  • Tiny little butts NEED to be adored.

    Same with big ole bubble butts, but I like the little ones best.

    He likes dat azz.

  • I prefer small butts. Like, smacking a bag loosely filled with popcorn is 'interesting,' but smacking a tight drum is art!

    • If you do squats you have a BIG tight butt like smacking a drum also?

    • @Lizzy32794 I've never encountered a girl with a big tight butt. Not saying such a thing is impossible, just that I haven't seen it. Though I once had sex with a dancer, of sorts. Her butt was slightly larger than I prefer, but oh soo tight and delicious. She didn't like anal though, so what a waste... And sadly, I've never smacked a girl's butt while she was doing a squat :-/

    • Lol I have a big butt and I do squats all the time. You need to touch a squat butt for sure! :)

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  • Cause it's scrumptious

    • Perfect answer XD

    • :D. Speaky the truth

  • Cause it is so fluffy ;)

  • They are awesome.

  • it's cool..

  • Smaller butts are cuter, in my opinion.