I sent this to one of my best friends and asked if she liked it and she said I looked slutty, which I'm not trying to be. Is it slutty to take pics in a bikini top? lol, don't really wanna look like a "slut"
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You're right. Logically you're right. It's just a bikini top so why would you look like a slut?
It's because of the situation. You're laying on a bed with your hair cutely spread on the pillow so it looks provocative. Plus, there's no telling from the pic that it's a bathing suit. Could just as well be a bra which adds more to the negative perception. Now, does the average girl post up shots of herself in her undies? Not really, and if she does then that's considered slutty... and your pic looks like one of "those" shots. It's more provocative because people don't know the full story behind your pic. They think it's just some random girl posting up undie photos.
Sure, there are undie catalogs and undie models so why is that any different? It's situational. It's like seeing a condom in a half opened wrapper and then seeing a "used" one on the floor. The latter looks "gross" but for all you know it was never used. Maybe some douche bags were using it as a water balloon lmao. But you see how your initial impression was negative? It's all situational.7
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