It's not a stupid question at all. You're curious, so you're asking. :-)
My girlfriend does the same thing as you. She has an amazing butt, and I love to feel it pressed against me when we're cuddling/spooning. It makes me horny, and she knows it, but we both understand that it doesn't always lead to sex.
We both just enjoy the feeling of being close to each other, and if it leads to sex, that's great. If not, it still feels good, so there's no disappointment if that's all we do.
Thank you :) I worry that my bum is too soft/jiggly or something as I'm not very toned at the moment lol. Okay awesome good to hear you are both happy with that and that she does the same thing. was worried I was teasing him or something
Haha, I wouldn't worry about your butt being too "jiggly" if I were you. If he didn't like it, you probably wouldn't be feeling his boner pressed up against it, as he wouldn't be hard. :-)
haha thank you, good point!
I usually try to hide it. I'm worried the girl will be turned off or think I want sex or something you know? So I try to hide it the best I can and hope she doesn't notice. As far as the question goes if you aren't planning on having sex then ignore it or make a fun joke like "someone's happy"
I just ignored it other than pushing myself more back into him. A couple of times he sort of shifted positions slightly when it when twitching so I just wanted to make sure I wasn't making him uncomfortable
I always feel like it's awkward for both people
see I didn't really find it awkward but I was worried he might
I wiggle my butt into it to let him know I feel it too! = ] I wiggle it into my butt crack, give it a cheeky squeeze, wiggle a little more enthusiastically to let him know I like it and would love some of it!! He gets the message! = }
thanks :) that's what I do too but since I don't want it to lead to sex I was a little worried about it haha
Then just stop at the first wiggle back into him, he will probably like knowing you can feel it and are ok with it. Before we had sex the first time, my guy used to kind of pull his groin away when he got a boner. That's when I began wiggling against him on purpose so he'd know I was alright with him having a boner. Actually I was more than alright. I was pretty flattered that I could cause that kind of reaction!
okay thank you :) trouble is altho I don't want sex quite yet I do want him to hold me tighter most of the time. yeah sometime he pulls it away. I know I don't find it awkward I find it flattering. At one point in the night I think he might have started to like wank himself off but I wasn't sure cos I was/am sleepy/innocent haha and had my eyes closed, but maybe he was trying to stop himself being hard
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!i love to feel the girls bum against my boner while spooning. it feels lovely and well cushioned :)
ah okay, I could feel it like twitching and I didn't wanna make it uncomfortable for him
it twitches kos it likes the feeling against u.. i dont get uncomfortable. if for another round of sex, i rub it agains yoru ass or between asscheeks, till its damn hard n then go on... if not i enjoy the sensation against your butts and let it feel and wait snuggle close, and remain spooning.
Oh okay that's good its not uncomfortable, and yeah it was slightly between. We haven't had sex yet at all so it wasn't for another round he knew he wasn't getting any
If you're not planning on sex with the guy, try not to "torture" him. He probably likes it and won't say anything because he's getting close to you. Just don't be surprised that he might have "backprssure."
we did decide before I sleep round that we're not gonna have sex tho. can you tell me how not to torture him? :) and whats back pressure?
Just leave your bum where it is before you feel the boner. "Back pressure" means blue balls or just have to release some tension (cum) because the guy is horney and he's "just" spooning.
okay thank you :)
You do exactly what my gf does. It is a little bit like torture, but in an amazing way haha.
ah okay haha. would you rather she didn't or she did go back against you?
I love it when she does it :).
awesome thank you :)
That's rough because it feels like a huge tease. If you don't want it, you need to pull away a bit so he gets the hint without hurting his feelings.
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