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Can men really cum from anal sex?

Alright, so I've had anal sex before and although it didn't hurt because my partner "prepped" me, it didn't feel good. Now I know men have prostates, and I know anal sex is kind of gay men's thing, so I'm wondering if a man can be stimulated enough to cum from anal sex? I suppose only homosexual men or men who have actually tried anal can answer this one.. Does it feel good after a while? Do you need stimulation on your penis as well?
You have tried anal sex and liked it.
Vote A
You have never had anal sex but would like to.
Vote B
You would never try anal sex.
Vote C
You have had anal sex but did not like it.
Vote D
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I must admit that I'm surprised at how many men would like to try anal sex... It isn't a bad thing, but definitely surprising! Thank you to all who participated :)
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  • I am a bottom gay man, and simply "love" anal sex. I had sex with a lot of men, almost always getting penetrated and enjoying it to the hilt. Men who say they tried, but didn't like being penetrated, were most probably not prepared properly. Cleanliness, a lot of (and I mean a lot of) lubrication, and finally sufficient stimulation are necessary for anal sex. Without those, I can see why a man may not enjoy getting fucked. But if the top man knows his trade, and stimulates his bottom the right way, then there is no pleasure that compares to being a bottom.

    And no, extra stimulation on the penis is not necessary. Actually, if anything, it could trigger premature ejaculation, which would kill the pleasure of the bottom man. if the penetration is still going on. For that reason, I never touch my penis while getting fucked, and sustain the enjoyment as long as it goes. Usually, if both men, the top and the bottom, can control their orgasm, anal sex can last even more than an hour (seriously). There were times I could near the one-hour mark, and only at the decision of letting it go, I would touch my penis. And yes, a man can cum while getting fucked, and it is incomparably more intense than any other experience of cumming, including sex with women (which I had tried before turning gay, but have not done it ever since).

    All these said, I should admit that many of the things I just described probably don't apply to women receiving anal penetration, because of the relevant differences between male and female anatomies. For one thing, like you said, women lack a prostate that makes a considerable difference here.

  • i LOVE anal sex and will take it any chance i can get. and yes believe it or not there has been a time or two that i had an orgasm from the anal only. wish it would happen MORE often, but the guy has gotta really know what he's doing and/or be able to "read" your body language real good to make that happen. the anal orgasm is a little bit more similar to what i understand a normal orgasm feels for women. kinda like a real deep whole body sensation that can occur in multiples. lol and YES it can leave your legs all wobbly and shaky as hell afterwards for a good 30-45 min. just like women do to after really good sex... its weird how it seems to be that you have to be the person GETTING penetrated to get wobbly leg effect. seems like it would be the other way around

  • I voted A.
    I have to say it's not my fav necessarily but I like different stuff.
    To answer your question yeah my guy went all over the place.
    It was great for him and fun for me.
    HH

    • Thanks :)

Most Helpful Guy

  • From receiving anal sex? Yes, I've read that men can have prostate only orgasms, and cum from no penile stimulation. I've never tried it, and I'm fine with how I cum now.

    • Okay, thank you :)

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  • With the right girl, and the right toy, and how she 'penetrates' it can be one of the most AMAZING feelings that a guy can have!! If you can relax, and feel 'her' and feel the 'penetration' that we don't usually feel, it's like another level of sexual joy, like you can not imagine!

  • Yes it does feel good, not sure how or why it does but its mentally arousing (not sure I just like it) and its physically pleasing, I need 0 to very little penis play, if I can get a vibrator in the right spot I can cum through anal penetration alone. I have done it to myself twice.

  • I've had orgasms from anal, so I'd have to say "yes"... ^ . ^'
    I've used a toy and fingers, but I haven't had penis... yet. :P It's true that it starts to feel good after a while cuz the prostate is being stimulated. It's actually my preferred way of getting off, ahaha~. I can cum from anal alone – lucky me, lol! :D –, but that's kinda rare. For most guys, prostate-only orgasms aren't possible. :o They can only get off if they combine it with stimulating the penis somehow. I've heard that some guys solve this by lying on a pillow while receiving anal; the friction on their penis helps them get off. So, it kinda depends on the guy, but purely anal orgasms can't be achieved by everyone. They're so good though, lol! ;x

    • Thank you!

    • Really? No um, touching... just a toy or something inside of you?

    • @CuriousEddie Exactly! Pretty crazy, huh? ^ _ ^' I only discovered prostate orgasms some months ago, but I'm loving them, lol! As a bottom, it makes me kinda happy to know I can be satisfied that way... :3

  • Based purely on the fact I have hd a lot of different guys cum inside my ass - yes guys can cum from anal haha

  • Kinda late but I have loved playing with my ass since I was young. It was normal to me that guys liked it in the butt. I know I do. But every man should try to relax and let their woman or man turn them out to some extent. It may not ever go past some fingers or a small toy. Or it can lead to huge dildos and your partner wanting to switch in bed and share a cock or two from time to time. I suggest that men try at least a few cocks in their youth. And I mean seriously. I'm bisexual because of cock alone. It's number one in my book. It took years to have hot sex with any man I let penetrate me. I just want to say that most tops aren't very into the sex past how it feels being inside you and how hard can they pound me like the bitch they see. Which is cool since I was turned out against my will but it wasn't bad cuz I liked it so much that I wanted more. I get turned on by making men cum and hearing the sounds of pleasure they make when they take it balls deep for the first time in one of my holes. Another thing is that I've never had an analgasm if I didn't suck some dick. It makes my gspot throb and my dick leak pre cum. It's not really a physical thing so much as a mental thing. Gagging is a trigger for a physical response in my ass/dick. I also literally almost cum when a top is pounding me but he's into the sex enough to compliment and praise me for my looks and my creamy pink asshole. It also helps that as long as I gave them head and got comfortable in my submissive zone down on my knees looking into their eyes. It makes me feel owned and I fall a little in love with every man once I feel like they're in control and I crave to give my masculinity to another man. That's really when my heart races and I get to love him for giving me attention and get off on the fact I'm just a piece of ass and he's gonna use me and abuse me. Also thickness is important since I like my butt gaped and length is key to making it come together when he triggers the final thing to make me so turned on and in love. That deep penetration is almost like a 2nd gspot. Even if it hurts. The pain is what he wants you to feel. Punishment's like that are what you get for having good boi pussy. And if all else fails his climax will save it and get me there. All this and I can cum from even the most one sided beat downs. Well I learned how to.

  • Guys are just delighted with this sex. I've had so much cum in my ass in the past four years haha

  • not a man but yes they can

    • Thank you!

  • It's not a homosexual thing I am a straight man and I love having anal sex with a girl more because it is warm, tight, and sexy to see I always cum harder. So yes men always cum inside while having anal sex. I give anal only and don't have any ideas of having anything up my butt nor do I want to have it done.

  • I have had anal sex (Giving) with my ex girlfriend years ago and by doing it right, it was an incredible and great feeling especially cuming inside of her because it increases the male sex drive to the extreme. I have not received (Hell no because it is gay if a man receives) and I would like to experience it again but I don't hold that towards next woman I meet because an anus wasn't really design for something to go up in it but at the same time I still cherished the great experience.

  • I've never been able to do it but I've seen lots of videos of it, it's pretty hot.

    • Thank you for answering :)

  • Yes im bi and i can cum from my ass after a while that the prostate is well played with;)

  • I've often cum from anal, both with a guy and with a girl using a strap-on. It took a while to convince my girlfriend to try it the first time, but since we started, it's a very common way for us to finish off a session, just because I cum so well when she does me in that way.

  • Voted a. yes you can cum from anal sex I'm a gay man and I love anal sex it feels great

    • Thank you!

  • I've received anal numerous times from transgirls and loved it, it was always at least a bit painful but this just added spice to the experience,,,

  • I would never sleep with a guy but I love to have anal with my wife

  • The best orgasms I have ever had have come from anal only. I've had finger, penis and dildo's up there - just mind blowing when it happens! My ultimate fantasy is to be fucked by a girl with a strap on.

  • I don’t recall the exact order of events but I know that I never had any thoughts about having sex or being attracted to guys growing up. Not until college after a lot of drinking one night did I find out that I didn’t mind when my college sweetheart got a little upset during a long 69 session where I had one of my fingers in her b-hole. she had stated that she didn’t want to have anal sex and I kept pressing the issue by asking her or testing out if she might like it with a little more experience. She most certainly was not interested (except 1 time where she let me try and get it in and she couldn’t take it no matter how much lube) however she would let me get away with a finger every now and then. This night in particular however we both were very very inebriated and I got carried away with the one finger and was going pretty hard after 35-45 minutes of 69 and I was having a great time! But I guess because of how I was doing it she decided to “see how I like it”. But she didn’t waste time with it she just shoved her finger in as far as she could all at once. I stopped everything I was doing because it hurt and shocked me but only for a few seconds and then I came harder than I thought was possible! I slowly but surely started down the path in which I knew nothing about to see “why I liked it, how far can it go) and after about 15 years of trying and failing I can answer your question from a lot of personal experience. Just under a month ago I finally ejaculated from anal (by myself watching sissy hypno porn) without my hands or a toy touching my penis. I have had many orgasms without touching my penis but never had I ejaculated too! There’s a difference between ejaculation and orgasming and most men start out doing both at the same time with out ever realizing there’s a difference. But anyway I did give up on trying many times and would promise myself I wouldn’t try again but I would always come back. Now I can say for me it was worth it because I had a goal and didn’t even know if I could actually achieve it and I did.

  • I've tried to get myself to cum from just anal and haven't been able to. Haven't tried someone else giving it to me yet ☺️

  • not cum, just diarrhea

    • Okay... Well thanks for answering :)

  • Not gay, but let a girl finger me during a blowjob. More direct pressure on the prostate, so it can be a more intense orgasm. Intense orgasms are good, so yeah I liked it.

    • Thank you :)

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