Penis size? ... would a girl cheat?

Question

Sorry for stepping on a cliche like a landmine, but through asking this question I suppose I hope to gain an insight into a girl's values. Heavens, I appreciate the subjectivity bound to personal preferences, but there is a certain objectivity to physical attractiveness, and it is more to that objectivity that I direct this question. I am perfectly happy to admit myself to being averagely endowed - 6 inches. My current girlfriend, however, decided to suck off my best friend and lasciviously inform him of his 'bigger and better' status during the lengthy and hateful procedure, which has really got me worried about this 'big dick' frenzy - or, in my case, an apparent lack thereof :P. She used me as an unfortunate object of comparison. I'm quite a shy bloke! She's my first ever girlfriend, and the girl I lost my virginity to. I have never really done 'stuff' with anybody else - nor had she. So this horrible event was quite a big deal for me. It has raised questions and insecurities that I had not previously worried about. The fact that she mentioned that seems to imply cause.. perhaps a dissatisfaction upon which the act is predicated? Its not like she looked lovingly up at my friend and compared our intellect? or the our eyes? I would like to know what girls really think? I've heard people draw comparisons between penis and breast size. However.. I know a fair number of girls who have walked out on prospective partners due to their lack of inches.. I have never heard of a guy doing the counterpart - I suppose penis size has more to do with the actual activity though. I don't know. Maybe a girl could perhaps clarify why my girlfriend would do and say something like that? Do girls really hold penis size as being as valuable as it is conveyed as being through the media and male culture? Because, frankly, I'm terrified that I am not enough, and that the girl I love will not enjoy what I have 'got' but fantasize about bigger guys - like my best mate? :( sorry :P thanks!

Lili1990 · Accepted Answer

I agree with previous comments that you should not have anything to do with either of them. But to answer your question, length is IRRELEVANT for almost all women. Girth is preferable but if a guy knows what he is doing any length works. My ex had a 4 inch penis (at best) and another guy I was with had a 10 inch but the guy with a 4 inch was so giving and gave me multiple orgasms every day. The 10 incher was lazy cos some guys with big dicks think they don't have to put any work in.
Girls who leave guys bcos of small dicks is more likely that the guy doesn't know how to use it as the g spot is near the entrance of the vagina

blitheCalavera · Accepted Answer

Please use paragraphs. As for the question at hand, you should look on the cracked. com website, as it has quite a lot of insight on the subject.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No way! Best sex of my life was with my smallest lover. She was just being a bitch.

SomeoneImportant · Accepted Answer

The novel above was unnecessary. But to answer your question, it depends on the girl, and the relationship. Guys often underestimate the effect love has on women. If she loves you, she honestly won't give a shit if you had like 3-4 inches. Also depends on the individual, as long as she doesn't prefer 8+ inches, you're good to go.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If your penis size is average, then your sex will be amazing! Men have been around for God knows how many years and by now an average penis size will do the trick and with experience it will do even more! A girl that is so into sex that shell go hop from one guy to another because of it isn't worth a second