Are there any other guys who feel inexplicably sexually attracted to men?

NoClue12345 Xper 4

Hi, The title pretty much says it all: are there any other guys who feel the way I do? I am not gay, I do find girls very pretty and I love everything feminine in terms of clothes, shoes, make-up, etc. but, somehow, instead of wanting to have sex with pretty girls I want to be them, and although I find 90% of guys somewhat repulsive from a physical point of view, I sexually long to be in the passive role with a man, longing for strong shoulders, strong hands, muscles, etc. I don't want to take, I want to be taken, Although I find female parts cute, I do not want to penetrate a vagina, I want to be penetrated by a penis. Sorry about the graphic content. The same goes for oral things.

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dreadpirate Xper 6
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Not saying you are but you may be trangendered (or non-binary gendered); but as a man what you have described about being attracted to men and not attracted to women would be considered pretty normal homosexuality. a lot of gay men find women pretty.
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- Skadouchebag
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  sxual orientation has nothing to do with gender. It's all about your sex. The difference is explained here:crazy-eel.deviantart.com/.../DNA-Matters-to-Me-496378216
- NoClue12345
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  My problem is that I do not really find gay men, especially the feminine ones attractive (I know it is ironic). I can be intimate with a woman, though, I may have to use a bit of fantasy and imagine I am her, but I can.
- dreadpirate
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  @Skadouchebag I don't care about your link, the concession about the askers gender was based upon the statement "instead of wanting to have sex with pretty girls I want to be them"
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- dreadpirate
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  @NoClue12345 I think it's only a few of the men that conform to the stereotypes, many gay men are just regular guys.
- NoClue12345
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  I understand that about gay men, I have a gay friend who is pretty regular guy, not feminine, pretty manly, normal guy interests, etc. It is just that gay men seem to be wanting a type of guy that I am not. I was told I am too feminine, it is like dating a girl. They want a man!
abaigovich Xper 2
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You are not alone..;) At times I find men more attractive than women. For me, it depends on my mood. When I am not around girls, I do find men sexually attractive.
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- NoClue12345
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  I am glad to hear I am not alone... I tend to kind of change moods... Like in bed I would really like a man, whereas socially, I do not log for one as much. Have you tried it with a guy?
- abaigovich
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  Yes, I have tried with man.. TBH I did it with someone for like 4 years. And It felt amazing at that moment. PS. I think you are writing my story as every single detail is also correct for me.
- NoClue12345
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  Were you in the active or passive role, if I may ask? I am glad we have very similar stories! I love it! :-)
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- abaigovich
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  In the beginning we use to change roles, but as day passed, I became passive in bed. Its not that I dont want to laid down with woman. I think I am a bi-sexual. In my sexual fantasies, I imagine both man and woman. Sometimes Its all about man and other times It all about woman.
- NoClue12345
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  I see... Is English not your first language?
- abaigovich
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  No, English is not my first language and I am sorry because I think my comments are so much grammatically that you are finding it difficult to understand them.
- NoClue12345
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  O no, I understand you fine, sweetie, but where are you from, if I may ask? :-)

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Lexxy666 Xper 7
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I think ur bi-sexual, if u didn't know that.
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- NoClue12345
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  Well, the thing is, when I was a teenager some 20 years ago, I was puzzled because I would get little crushes on certain guys who made me feel "safe" and happy, but then I would see so many guys whom I did not find attractive that I think " I am obviously not gay or bi and the fact that I do not get arouse when I see the pictures of naked girls like the other boys do is because I need more emotional involvement"... See what I mean?
- Lexxy666
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  Oh so its more of a sexual fantasy I guess, becuz a lot of girls get those too, some str8 girls too.
- NoClue12345
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  Well, I have tried both, so, it is not like I fantasize and that is it...