Women/girls who like it rough: What does that mean?

[LovesWomen]

I’m curious... Most guys (in the West anyway) are taught from early childhood to treat a woman’s body gently, with tender delicate care. Then we’ll come across a woman who tells us to stop treating her like a porcelain doll during sex. Now – I get it – some women really like a dominant vibe from their man in the bedroom, especially if she has had to be a “barracuda” at school, at work or elsewhere in her life. The dominance factor allows her to relax and let it all happen for a change. And a lot of us guys can get into rough sex very easily. In a way, it echoes our experiences playing contact sports. But, ladies, what do you mean when you say you want it rough? Be specific. For foreplay? For sexual intercourse? How does your guy know both when it's right as well as when it’s too much? For BDSM women, what would prompt you to use your safe word? For men who have loved these lovely ladies, please identify your gender, and explain your experiences with them? How do you keep yourself from going too far?

[Anonymous]

Good question (s)!!!
I'm still figuring out why I like it rough so can't answer that.
But when I say I want it rough I definitely don't mean chris brown-rough, I just mean do it hard and fast, maybe pull my hair, maybe spank me, but nothing crazy like choking or hanging me upside down.

For foreplay I sometimes like deepthoating and if I trust him he can control how deep an how long I get it in my mouth.

But yeah the key word is trust when it comes to rough sex because you need to know each others boundaries. So talk to your partner about what they do and don't like exactly.
I also like to have a safe word, but I always try to pick one that's not a turn off and that doesn't make everything stop, because I don't want things to be awkward and I don't want my partner to feel bad.

[LovesWomen]

Would you pick a different safe word every time? What would be a typical word? Also, for breast or clit play, would you like that rough? In what way or ways?

[Opinion Owner]

No mostly the same one, but if the guy has a better one I go with that ;) I used superman for quite a while :P Some guy came up with holy peaches... Just pretty random stuff

[Opinion Owner]

Ahw thanks for mho :*

[Anonymous]

I personally haven't had sex but I figured that im the type that will like it a bit rough. I mean the sound of soft, gentle sex is cool and all but it's more fun when someone is slightly more dominating and takes control. A man in charge, and when consented, does things his way and all.. i find it hot.

[HeyHeyG]

I have not used my safe word yet and am not sure what would get me that point.

[Anonymous]

I don't mind one bit that the girl is hurting and in many ways I do like it very much that I'm hurting her vagina during sex.

Many girls had often expected that I'd be slow and gentle to enter her as I'm well endowed but I've always opted to push mine hard into her as I like the physical feel to it and also enjoy her reaction to it. While most girls didn't like it that the very first time I did her I pushed hard into her most didn't stop me.

During sex I tend to go fast and rough as otherwise I can't cum. I don't really do anything to stop myself from hurting her especially if she is a White woman.

Most White women I've been with were happy that I'm rough during sex though quite surprised that it happens so soon and that I want to penetrate her as deep as I do.

[Anonymous]

“barracuda”...

www.nature.org/.../prd_011048.jpg

[Lalaxoxo_soso]

Lmao

[polarbear94]

Have a safe word definitely. I sometimes like a hand around my neck but not so hard it hurts... Or I can't breathe haha.

[Anonymous]

I like to think I like it semi-rough. I enjoy biting and scrathing, and I would not mind if the guy wanted to bite or scratch me.

Why?
It's fun. And it spices things up.