My boyfriend masturbates to girls he knows from school on Facebook?

Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. My relationship before him was extreme physical and emotional abuse. My ex on the other hand did things like masturbate to p*rn and rub it in my face and say he wouldn t have sex with me because I still looked like a little girl and that girls in p*rn were "real women." So when I first met my current boyfriend I made it very clear to him all of the things I had been through in the past, I told him that before we started dating that I would make it clear that p*rn is not something I would tolerate. But a few months later I found on his history that he personally handed to me and said "read it babe I would never hurt you like that with porn" (because I was feeling insecure) and I read it and there it was right before my eyes. he forgot to delete in his history BADOINK. COM which we all know where that website comes from. I told him how much it hurt me. he told me he swears he would never watch p*rn again. Which he has not, i know this for a fact as well that he had not done it since then and I trust him. What I recently found out when I woke up in the middle of the night and he wasn't in bed, I went looking for him and found him on the patio looking at a half naked girl on instagram. I tried to stay calm but my heart sank and i told him to just tell me the truth about it, if he masturbates to these girls. Not only did he say He masturbates to random girls on instagram but he told me that he masturbates to GIRLS HE KNOWS on Facebook. I went to the search history on his Facebook and it was some of my friends and his friends from high school he was masturbating to! he told me he was just trying to avoid p*rn , bc he thought it was bc of seeing the girls naked that hurt me, To me this is on the lines of cheating. I just don't know what to think. I'm honestly heartbroken and I don't feel like I am enough for him. What can I do?
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  • When someone is used to do those things, it's hard to stop. But I'm sure that it's reasonable enough to try to stop when you have a girlfriend and she asks. At least he confessed... think very well about it. If you don't feel comfortable enough with him doing it and you see he's not gonna stop, then break up and find someone who will respect your request.

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  • That's considered as cheating so I guess u can go find another guy and give him your pussy;)