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Why should a guy marry a non virgin girl?

Media is full of bullshit about how men and women are equal and how its accepted to marry non virgin girls. But lets be honest its totally against honor. Do you like the fresh food or another guy's leftover? You can't even trust non virgins only God knows with how many men she slept before and with how many men she will sleep when she is with you. But with with a virgin girl everything is pure her love her mind her body all are pure and belongs to ONE guy who is her husband.
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No I'm not a virgin myself and you are free to call me a hypocrite.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I know I'm not getting MHO for this but you can't hold a double standard and expect to have any success. It's not like some perfect girl is going to read this and be like "Prince charming, finally! The one I can give myself completely to. *Deep Longing Sigh...*" The only way that happens if she's being entirely sarcastic. The attitude and perception comes across elitist, as though you're entitled to a girls virginity and anything less is disgusting and beneath you. I think it may be a cultural difference and I respect that, but know you're going to get the type of responses you're getting most of the time, from American girls at least. If that works for you cool, I truly hope you find a girl who wants to be that for you.

    • you tricked him! nice reverse psychology xD jk lol

    • Looks like mr hypocrite is not smart after all heheheh

    • You respect his opinion? And he's entitled to a girls virginity? The only person who is entitled to a girls virginity is the girl herself. I agree with a lot of what you said, but those two things I just mentioned are contradictory to the rest of your point, and stick out like sore thumbs.

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  • well if that's your thing then nothing wrong with it.

    • Thanks man.

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  • You're free to hold that standard if you want. Other men do not necessarily hold your perspective that non-virgins are "used goods". Some non-virgins would make better wife material than some virgins would. And I personally think what you're saying is terribly degrading, sexist, and just plain wrong. Women are SO much more than the state of their sex lives. Apparently you don't realize this though, and it is your loss.
    Good day to you, sir.

  • well i guess you shouldn't even bother getting married since lord know how many women you've slept with and how many more you'll sleep with when your married. lol , non-virgins NOT to be trusted my ass. quit being such a hypocrite and man up. ( by the way I'm a virgin and lol, i could care less weather i marry someone who is or isn't a virgin cause LOVE , that's why. )

    • Being virgin for a guy is not something valuable its important for girls to be.

    • Asker: A woman's virginity is not "valuable" or "important". It doesn't even exist. The term 'virginity' is just a man made concept to title the act of having sex for the first time. And you having sex with whoever just means you've ruined another man's future wife.

    • @playdatesx How it doesn't exist? its a real thing not fiction.

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  • You're that sake dude that asked this question aren't you?

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1288914-girls-do-u-think-it-s-ok-for-a-man-to-expect-to-marry-a-girl-who-is

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  • Why the hell would anyone want to marry a virgin?

    Having a wife who knows her way around a man's body and is confident in the bedroom is soo much better than a clueless virgin where you have to watch out that she doesn't break your todger of something..

    • So if you were not married and a prostitute wanted you to marry her would you do that? Hell NO.

  • Because you love the girl for her and not for her vagina, that's why, you religious brain washed bitch.

    • Being a virgin is part of her too you can't say for example that you love a guy but he is very bad person but you don't care about it because you love him.

    • Being a "virgin" or a "non-virgin" doesn't define one's personality at all. Your example is irrelevant.

    • You can hold your standards but I rather to hold God's.

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  • Well well well... I see you're still on that subject. Just move on -_- If you find one Great and if not it isn't that big of a deal.

    • Hope to find but when I get tired of dating and wanted to marry.

  • *rolls eyes*

  • Oh god just stfu..

  • Girls are not fresh or stale food. They are people. If you are talking about a slut women doing it with any guy she sees, then this is not marriage material. I don't deal with girls, I deal with women. Many women who have had sex before they met you are awesome and in my opinion shouldn't be left out of the mix. Are you a virgin?, or are you stale food?

    • No I'm not a virgin but don't think its important its a value more for girls than guys.

  • As long as she's not promiscuous or has been promiscuous and is able to remain faithful then that's all that matters me, I couldn't care less if she's a Virgin or not.

    • How you can say she will stay loyal to you while she proved that she has no self value?

    • I am not an infidel, so I base a woman's value on her personality, her morals, ethics and values as well as our chemistry level and compatibility. That's all that matters to me.

  • you shouldn't marry a girl unless you like her. And if her sexual history is a factor in how much you like her, then you should hold out for a girl who also buys into that archaic b. s.

    • I don't care about love cause love is stupid idea I care more about honor and wife material.

    • Honor? What does that even mean?

    • @insanelyme Forget it. Its something admirable you never heard about.

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  • Guys like you are so annoying.
    If you're virgin yourself then what you think is okay.
    If you're not.. Then you're an idiot

    • Not agree, its not a same thing.

    • What are you talking about then? you're not a Virgin? I guess you are impure and no girl should ever want anything to do with you.

    • I'm not a virgin but its not about me its about her. I'm dating girls but non of them are wife material so I have no future with them. But for marriage i want someone pure.

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  • One might ask, "why should a woman marry a non virgin guy?"

    What if he cheats and has sex with other women?

    Oh and do you think it's perfectly ok for you to sleep with many women before your marriage but expecting women to not do the same? What gives you the privilege?

    • Are you a guy for sure?

    • What kind of question is that? Yes I'm a guy. Are you?

  • hypocrite.

    • A proud hypocrite.

    • Because you are proud doesn't mean you are right. And for a fact, you aren't.

  • Because non virgin guys want to marry too... little hypocrite.

    • I'm a non virgin guy but never want to marry a non virgins girl. my standards are so high.

    • Asker, are you assuming women have no standards? Well, they do. And most don't want a guy who thinks he's entitled to whatever in the world he wants.

    • You might want a virgin girl, but they don't want you.. sorry to burst your bubble..
      and since you have such high standards... this is you >>> img.auctiva.com/.../513572888_o.jpg

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  • If you consider a woman impure after you've touched her, perhaps you should look at your own hands.

    • Here we need a little hypocrisy.

    • Ahhh, you're an Internet troll.

    • No I'm not maybe someday you find people around the world don't think the way you think and respect differences.

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  • I don't have negativity to those who are not virgins. But you know what... I think we share the same sense that virgin girls are sexy as shit.

    It's the same kind of feeling of having your name tattooed to a girl's inner thighs.

  • I don't give a shit how many guys she's been with before. So long as she has no babies and no STDs, I'll love her.

    • So you deserve what you get.

    • Yes. A fellow human being, not a possession.

  • The scent of fresh troll.

    • My answer to another user who said the same: No I'm not maybe someday you find people around the world don't think the way you think and respect differences.

    • The chances of you finding a "pure" girl (especially with that attitude) are very slim unless you marry her when she's 12 or 14. Good luck.

  • yes you are a hypocrite, that means based on what u said, u r not pure and u r also leftover food

    • Not pure is not the correct word I'm experienced.

    • U did this to stir up a debate

  • well if you're a virgin yourself then i guess your expectations are fair. If you aren't then you are a 5/10 gigolo

    • I'm not a virgin but I couldn't wait more so lost it when I was 16 and I know how bad effects it has so I want someone pure someone who loves me with all of her heart.

    • what if the virgin girls view you as a slut and end up not wanting you?

    • I need to hide my history then.

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  • Why wouldn't a guy marry a non virgin girl?

    That 'honor' concept sounds rather Mid Eastern.
    Are you a Muslim?

    • Yes I'm. How did you find it?

    • I met many people in my life, Muslims included.

    • But, widows and divorced women aren't virgin either and they're still marrying material.

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  • I agree, i think a girl should just give herself to one guy, I'd marry a non virgin but not a slut though i'd like my husband to be a virgin himself

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