How do you feel about Sleep Assault?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever done it or been done to you? How did you feel about it? how WOULD you feel about it? Is it rapey? My experience: One night my girl was over. The place I was staying at the time was empty, just her and I. We were cuddling bed and she said she was feeling horny but she was so tired. I told her to "go to sleep. Ill let you sleep for a bit and ill... wake you ;)" she gave me a smile of approval. I fell asleep too. Ended up sleeping for 2 hours. I woke up and she was definitely OUT! So I started feeling her up a little, moving REAL slow and soft. She started making sexy noises. I lifted her shirt and touched her the way i know she likes. Pulled her pants down and played with her clit. I grabbed her hand, moved it to her crotch and she took over. I wanted to go further but I didn't feel comfortable while she was asleep. So I tried to wake her. shook her. shook her harder, hit her im the arm, smacked her ass and she made those noises i love so much. She was soooo asleep. So I, no joke, covered her mouth and pinched her nose. She woke up quick after that LOL. I felt SO bad for that but she was so horny she just went for it and didn't ask why she couldnt breath... Best sex we ever had. She made me cum so fast! I wasn't even embarrassed, there was no pause, I just shook it off and kept going, just as hard as I was. It was amazing! I made her cum twice... When she's having an orgasm she clinches her thighs, and she was a horse rider. Those thighs where killer. There was never a thought of wearing a condom... the second time she had an orgasm she grabbed onto me with her thighs and I was just about to cum for the second time and I almost didn't get away in time! Risky risky haha... Ill never forget that night but I can't help but feel a little rapey.

[lePoivre]

If it was someone I didn't really know or was romantic with doing that to me, I would be freaked out. However, something similar happened with my boyfriend and I on New Years... I don't even think he was really awake when he did it lol. I just remember being woken by a kiss (which was awesome!) and he pulled me close, whispering in my ear that he wanted me. I told him I was too tired to do anything and I think I laid back down after that... Next thing I knew though, I was kissing his neck and climbing ontop of him. I was just kind of like, "How did I get here?" He started to get up I think, but then he put his head back down and said he was going to crash, so I let him and went back to sleep. I asked him about it the next morning and he said he didn't remember a thing XD
So basically, if it's my boyfriend doing it to me, I'm alright with it and it's kind of nice. If it's someone I don't know, trust, care for, etc., I will kindly get a restraining order against you.

[Asker]

Maybe he said he didn't remember because he didn't know how you felt about it. Did you make it evident you enjoyed it? LOL how do you kindly get a restraining order? Just wondering...

[lePoivre]

Lol I don't know, his expression/surprise was pretty honest. We had also been drinking before bed so I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't remember a lot of other things ^^; Also you can kindly get restraining orders. You don't have to spit in the other person's face when getting one; you can just get one and be on your way =)

[Asker]

That alcohol gets you every time lol Im sure YOU can kindly do it, but the recipient probably won't think its kind Heh But I guess he shouldn't have sleep assaulted you huh?

[lePoivre]

Lol that's exactly my point =)

[LauraMarx]

uhm... lol I mean. It can be rape, if you do sth to someone while they sleep. Like you haven't got consent and shit so that is rape. And when they find out you violated them that'll be like, fucked up and traumatic for them. So thats a thing.

But, you woke her up! I don't think you did anything super fucked up, really? I mean... maybe talk about it w/ a girl first in future, lol. I've done that, actually, like, I've talked to a girl about messing with her while she's asleep, if she'd be okay with it. And she was and we messed about a few times like that. It depends on the girl, if she'd be comfortable with that or not. Some girls definitiely wouldn't.

But yeah w/e from what you're telling me I don't think you're a rapist. I haven't heard how she described it, tho. Maybe tell her you feel a little creepy and ask her for what she feels about it?

[Asker]

I was just reminiscing lol. It was a few years ago. havnt talked to her for a while sadly. always curious what she thought of that night. I never asked her, she never said anything about it. but she seemed to be enjoying it a lot. oh well :( I hope I didn't traumatize her D:

[LauraMarx]

ah okay. I thought you were concerned. I think its okay :)

[hsshannah96]

Please don’t do this again! Any sexual touch without consent is rape! I woke up to my ex’s fingers inside me one morning and we didn’t discuss beforehand or anything! If I wasn’t so damn tired, I would’ve pushed him away

[JohnScofield787]

not sure this qualifies for sleep assault. that would be to me if you took advantage of a girl that you were not regularl sleeping with and never ever gave you permission to touch her or have sex with her. IN this case you kind of had an agreement in place to sleep for a bit and then wake up. You used sex to wake her up, but it was not unexpected per se. Sleep assault would be unexpected and IS RAPE.

[Asker]

no... we were definitely slept together on a regular basis.. Long term relationship.

[JohnScofield787]

that is why i am saying i don't think this example really counts for sleep assault.

[Asker]

Ahh... I see lol

[Anonymous]

I was raped every morning by my x fiancé. She assaulted my face with her pussy. (please pass a napkin)

[Asker]

careful now.. someone might smell bullshit. I know you were smelling x fiance pussy.

[Opinion Owner]

Mmmm I was

[ThisGurl]

It is okay. :) Um if she liked it, you do not have anything to worry about okay. :)

[Mgoods]

It's not rapey if someone I'm with does it. I asked him how he feels, because it's usually me, doing it to him...
He said it's "hot", so, green light...

[Asker]

It would always be a green light for me! lol. With a girl im in to...

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Hot!
Would love that

[Ihav2fart]

I feel that an attractive girl will never be able to sleep assault me.

[Anonymous]

Gave up on p*rn and became a novelist?

[Asker]

Dear pent house.

[Anonymous]

If a stranger attacked me while i was asleep it would be rape. If my bf did it I would enjoy it.

[Opinion Owner]

How does that get a down vote by a girl of all people? Apparently she's either ok with rape or sleeping sex is naughty.

[Asker]

LOL I am curious myself...

[Anonymous]

Always been one of my fantasy's

[Anonymous]

I can smell BULLSHIT on this website again...

[Asker]

Cause you havnt done it... I can see why you would feel that way. Sorry bro.

[Opinion Owner]

You ain't done either! lol. That's the bullshit I was referring to. But do carry on!

[Asker]

Lol Alright man. I won't try, its impossible to prove. Maybe one day you'll have an experience like this and you'll realize.. 'Oh... shit like this IS possible" lol. Good luck my man.

[Opinion Owner]

it's implausible, everything about the way you worded the question screams fantasist! Good luck to you too.

[Asker]

It sounds fantasy because it was a fantasy come true... How am I suppose to word the most incredible experience I've ever had in bed? "I woke my bitch up fingering her pussy then fucked the shit out of her!"

[Opinion Owner]

No, but it's interlaced with little details that indicate lies. It adds up to being a load of old toot.

[Asker]

Alright man, Like I said.. I dont need to prove anything. I know what happened that night, and I happy knowing something like this hasn't and probably never will happen to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Of course, you would say that. But I might point out that, as it stands, it's more likely to happen to me than to you; because I don't spray fantastical bullshit. Having read it back a few times my spidey senses aren't failing to tingle, I've always known lies when I see them. I just feel a bit sorry for you.

[Asker]

Man you're some kind of guru huh? you can decipher text so well! LOL Done with you bruh. Good life... Good luck. you'll need it.

[Opinion Owner]

no, it's just experience. Cool story bruh. C- Must try harder.

[Asker]

Jealously is bliss

[Opinion Owner]

If someone thinks you're lying, they aren't jealous, they just think you're lying! lol. I feel a bit sorry for you but liars are a pain in the ass. You can console yourself with that if you need to. Hanging around toing and froing absolutely canes your credibility!