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Guys/Girls, do you have "wet dreams"?

By the time I was 12 I knew about boys masturbating. I would also rub myself in bed but you know us girls, we don't call that masturbating because as a rule we don't have an orgasm, at least not yet. So then I watched this YT thing on wet dreams and how boys masturbate in their sleep. I really don't think I do that, but now I'm not too sure. So guys; are you just totally asleep when you do it or what? Do you remember doing it? Girls, how about you? Did you ever see anyone doing this?
Yes I have had wet dreams
Vote A
No I have never had wet drems
Vote B
No but I wish I did
Vote C
I've been in the same room with my bro when he had one
Vote D
I've seen my guy have one. HHH
Vote E
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It is usually a guys first ejaculation. Very early in puberty around 12 ish. Normally before you are sexualized. You are dreaming about something that might not be that erotic your body is ready to ejaculate and the first one comes as a big shock. I remember mine vividly even after 38 years. It was after seeing a film at a cinema and the female lead squatted and opened her legs she had a split dress on that fell to one side exposing her pant covered crotch. A couple of days later I was fast asleep this vision popped into my mind and my first huge ejaculation happened. No other stimulation at all. Your first ejaculation is very different from all others. It was a massive in volume and very thick and lumpy it also felt amazing. It's almost like it's been stored up waiting to happen and when it does its clearing the tubes. Mine did not pump out like normal ones since , it just kept flowing out as I woke up. It is usually very shortly after this that guys try to emulate it and in order to we start to masturbate.
    Guys don't talk about it much because as a young boy it was also very embarrassing , it makes a huge mess and you are worried what your mother is going to think. Most mums know when it's happened or about too. I have heard that some boys have had a second one but I think it's rare. I have not heard of it happening as an adult or once you are ejaculating regularly. I guess it could be possible if you had long lengths of abstinence. However this know is deemed not to be good for prostate health. It's thought that stagnant prostatic fluid left in the prostate ( not ejaculating ) could raise the risk of prostate issues. Iam not sure how well in formed young boys are now but it came as a complete shock to me. Boys today have access to p*rn or very sexual material before puberty so may start to masturbate before they get a natural wet dream. So I suspect that it is now a much more rare occurrence.

    • Thank you for The MHO.

  • when i was 14 it happened on a weekly basis i didn't know why and was so embarrassed by it! And completely unaware of what happened
    the dreams felt so good, they felt so real! but it was gross to wake up at 3 am with cum all over my clothes and bed

    i dont think we masturbate when we have these dreams, i think it happens because of a build up in semen inside our reproductive system and seminal vessel that we need to release the old stuff so our bodies can create more new stuff :)

    i never heard of ladies doing this though!

    • The poll says we do. I think we might just hump the bed a little, kind of like a female dog might. :))

    • lol! guys probably do the same and just hump the bed... i bet there is studies and research done on this

Most Helpful Girls

  • A wet dream is ejaculating in their sleep, but doesn't mean or require masturbating or contact to the penis at all. A "wet dream" for a girl would simply be having an orgasm in her sleep, but again, masturbation or manual contact is not required.

    Both genders can masturbate in their sleep as well (similar to sleepwalking), but don't get this confused with wet dreams. And yes they would be in REM sleep when they do this.

    My partner and I, have also (consensually) made the other person orgasm while they were completely asleep. No memory of it in the morning.

    • Wow, I love that. Still, I think I would want to be awake. You know, for the moment! :))

    • Sometimes you do wake up, mid orgasm which is absolutely insane. My best experience was a night when my bf told me he got me to orgasm completely without me waking up and then a second time he got me to masturbate, which he said took patience and time. And when I started to orgasm, I woke up and I pretty much attacked him sexually.

  • I have sexual dreams at least 3-5 times a week, but it is very rare (maybe once every few months) where I wake up wet and feeling as if I had actually engaged in intercourse.

    • I just don't remember sex dreams. You know where you're actually doing something But yeah I wake up sometimes sopping wet, but not even necessarily horny. ?

    • I remember mine for the most part... most of the time I remember every detail other times some things are blurry. I have had sex in my dreams before where I cannot see the other person, but I can feel what they are doing.

    • I so wish I were you. Do you have it more when you go like for a long period without sex, like a week or so, or even if you don't masturbate for the same time period?

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  • I've had sex dreams, but nothing more. :/

  • Yes I have, if I don't do any sexual activity for a week or longer.
    And yes we don't masturbate in our sleep, ejaculation is kinda automatic, it's a myth.

  • I believe you're talking about a hand job from a ghost or similar spiritual creature. And yes I have been blessed to experience this.

    • HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Funnneee HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

  • I still have them from time to time but I think because I masturbate every day I don't really "need" them.
    with that said I do still get morning wood fairly regularly. (sorry if that was TMI)

    • Yeah! My guy is 30 and he awakes at attention too. Love a guy like that. HHHHHHHHHHHH

    • that's good to know. :)

  • I was seen having a wet dream and seen my brother and friends have them at camp and places like that. in a tent with five horny teenagers holding in their sperm you're going to notice erections and throbs and sometimes moans and wet spots grow in their crotch, sometimes air humps while they are in orgasm. your dick will get hard and with no privacy try to figure out some way to release.

  • It's rare that I have them anymore.

  • It happened a few times when I was just hitting puberty. Fucking hormones were all out if whack! Hasn't happened since then however I have woken up horny and woke her up so I could release that :)

    • HHHHH I get that.

  • that happened only twice or thrice in my life

  • ""you know us girls, we don't call that masturbating because as a rule we don't have an orgasm, at least not yet.""

    That sounds like an arbitrary limitation...

    Anyways, yes, so I have voted A). In fact, I started masturbating primarily to stop them from occurring.
    My wet dreams were way too messed up for my liking, and it is just awkward to have to deal with stuff in your pants.

  • This question really brings back memories. When I was going through puberty of course I heard all about wet dreams, and after I had my first ejaculation (I still remember!) I was just sort of waiting for the morning I'd wake up all sticky. But it never happened. So I'd heard all this stuff about how wet dreams are a way for boys' bodies to get rid of built-up semen and all that. So I devised a plan that involved a lot of discipline. I resolved to not masturbate until I had a wet dream. Because I wanted to have one. I went like a month when I was 14 without jacking off, and it still never happened. And it never did. But what did happen after I broke my abstinence was one of the most powerful ejaculations I ever had. lol

  • yeah sure lol! i wake up wet very often

    • Yeah I do too come to think of it. But I always wear cotton panties to sleep in so I just don't think I finger myself though. I'm really not sure now. A lot of girls say they do. If I do I just don't remember it. Weird. :))

    • Same I wake up wet and horny which leads to masturbating... :/

  • I had maybe 2 then I started masturbating, and then I don't remember having anymore. I don't get enough sleep to dream of anything else either anymore.

  • I had them quite a lot before I learned how to masturbate.

  • Just an occasional sex dream, but never actually having ejaculated. Also i'm pretty sure it's not sleep masturbation, it's actually an automatic thing.

  • I've had a few wet dreams when I was younger. I don't have them now.

  • yep! especially the last three three days lol

    • So did you just like remember it after, woke up during, or what?

    • yep i remember it after and feel like didn't have sex for ages haha

  • I have had them. I dont think I was touching myself though while asleep. But I have woken up thrusting or just after the fact. I was always extremely hard, more than usual, when waking up if it wasn't a just afterwards situation, lol.

    • Yeah I think it's really more of a guy thing. Just not sure. so wish I was a guy when it comes to stuff like this. HHHH

    • Its a little awkward though when you wake up in bed thrusting and your wife is right next to you. That happened a couple of times. And I was thinking, woah, she slept through that. Well, she seemed to anyway. Lol.

    • HHHHH I would so jump on my guy. HHHHHHHHHHHH

  • I had that kind of experience but do girls also fingered themselves in sleep?

    • I just don't really know. I would think so I mean I rub for sure.

    • Does they put there hands inside panty and boobs feels them odd to keep hand on chest?

  • I've had but a long time ago...

  • Yeah I sometimes wake up and find that I have cum hard in my sleep... ;)

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