Blue balls a myth or a fact?

[Anonymous]

For those guys and girls who say blue balls doesn't exist I am here to set you straight. The first time I got blue balls is when I got a new girlfriend and we would make out (kissing) but nothing more. Before the next date I would not masturbate cause I wanted to save it for her but again just kissing. After about 3 days in a row of this I started feeling a pain in my balls and abdomen. I actually went to work and left early to go see a doctor cause I was in pain and could barely walk. The doctor examined me and couldn't find anything physically wrong so he asked me if I just started seeing a girl. I told him yes and he explained blue balls to me which was the first time I had heard about it. He told me the easy fix was to go home and masturbate to relieve the pressure. As soon as I did this (3 times) I started feeling better right away and within 2 hours I felt pretty good.. I'm here to tell you it does exist but as I stated a quick masturbation session is all it takes to cure it. Ladies if a guy tells you that you have to bring on the ejaculation for him then you are dating a moron. Once I told my gf about my embarrassing doctor visit it never happened again. Girls has a guy ever told you he needed you to cure his blue balls? Guys have you ever experienced blue balls?

[meowcow]

Yeah it exists.

And it actually hurts, even it you leave it alone. Even after you ejaculate, it can take a few hours to go away. Blue balls doesn't come about if you don't think about sex. Sometimes, I'm travelling for work with a very busy schedule. As soon as I get home, I fall asleep. This can go on for weeks... and no blue balls.

But if I'm anticipating sex in a few days, and I'm thinking about it all the time, blue balls will rear its ugly head and the boys will ache until they get some release.

[joemm]

It is a fact for sure. But all you need to do is masturbate a few times and things get better quickly. And keep in mind that there are penis health cremes available if you get too aggressive and mess up your penis skin. These work really well and will keep the skin chafe and pain-free. Cheers!

[tinyclit]

I don't know about "blue balls", that's probably something completely different, but I do know that my husband gets very uncomfortable and can't think and can't sleep if he doesn't cum regularly. What's sometimes a nuisance for both of us is when his body is demanding he cum and yet for whatever reason he just can't cum. In the mornings we'll sometimes have to try multiple times. We're getting old, but at least we're doing it together.

[Asker]

Sounds different but I know I need regular maintenance or I can't function either.

[Anonymous]

I got drunk once, and the guy I was making out with is 15, and I was 16 at the time (now I'm 17). Anyway, he was like grabbing my ass and touching my hair, and basically really horny (not sure if it was just because he was drunk..)

But in a drunken haze, he told me If I didn't have sex with him (which I didn't) he would go home and jack off because he had a huge boner. I don't know if this is blue balls or just being horny..:/

[Asker]

having an erection for an extended period of time is what causes it but in this case I think he was just horny lol

[Opinion Owner]

I've never had sex.. I wouldn't just give it up to anyone. lol XD I think he was hard for about 4 hours tho. From 5 until 9

[Asker]

That might do it lol

[Dorkasaurus]

My boyfriend said I gave him blue balls one time after we went to the movies and made out for awhile. He didn't tell me until a week later, but he said he let his die off he didn't do it himself. He knows how I am about doing it for him (we are 15 and 16 and have only been together 6 months and I'm waiting for anything like that for awhile) so he respects that and doesn't ask me to do it for him.

[Asker]

I have read that it will go away after awhile but for me I have to take care of it or be in extreme pain

[Dorkasaurus]

you mentioned seeing her within days apart though, we only see each other once or twice a week because he does music, and I train for the Olympics.

[Asker]

I think it was 3 days in a row but I couldn't tell you if it started hurting on the 2nd or 3rd day

[Dorkasaurus]

either way with consecutive days you will have a harder time controlling that, we have never seen each other 2 days in a row, we are just to busy. My training takes up the majority of my time and the reat is school.

[Rahdle]

Yes. Hurts like hell

[Asker]

Yes sir!

[JackKerouac77]

Fact, but not as big of a deal as guys make it out to be.

Solution? Just jerk it.

[Asker]

where were you 20 years ago? when there was no internet and I could have used some words of wisdom

[JackKerouac77]

20 years ago I was just an idea in your head. :)

[Asker]

your Mom was a frisky one😱

[JackKerouac77]

Haha!