Ever wait for sex to just be over? even if a guy is small it won't change my feelings about him. I know few girls that prefer small men?

[Anonymous]

Don't get me wrong I am NOT a size queen. But a lot of girls lie to guys so they won't hurt their egos. 1 guy I've dated said that girls said that he was huge and he was only 5 inches. I knew immediately that someone had been lying to him because he felt that he could fit magnums. I don't think that penis size is the most important thing about a relationship. A lot of women are used to are guys that's terrible in bed and p*rn has a lot to do with it because its one sided, it's all about his pleasure and you never hear the girl say stop or wait which is why a lot of guys watch p*rn . Not saying that men with smaller penises can't perform well. But I've heard people say that someone with five or six inch penis could give you the pleasure of a 8 inch penis and that is a complete lie. face dick penis can make a huge difference no pun intended. don't get me wrong I've been in relationships where the guy was small and he performs um okay. fingering me, fondling me, eating me out doesn't make up for it. It does nothing for me. this is just my preference, I know a lot of people prob will argue the latter. Let's just be real ladies, let them know the truth we find it rare to have pleasure from a man. most men are all about themselves or there too gentle and that's a huge amount of men. and just a quick thing to say I don't have a loose vagina , I'm actually pretty tight and I perform kegels weekly. lot of the times women just tell men that they did a good job so they won't feel bad. its like you have to act excited rather it's a jelly bean or an Italian sausage. There are many things that can stimulate a female and male partner in many techniques to be used. let's be real I won't break up with a good man because he is smalI i will get no pleasure from sex and that won't change my feelings. that's why women will be with a horrible men for good sex. male or female it's sad but I do knowIt sucks that he gets to get off and I'm lying there like "yes!!! it's over"

[BuchitaBuchys]

When I say I prefer smaller over larger, I'm not lying to anyone. I've had a big dick, and it hurt like hell. He couldn't go all the way in cuz I literally felt like I was gonna cry out in pain. It felt like he was hitting my damn cervix and that hurted so bad.
I prefer around 4-5in. You're probably gonna say, why?
-I LOVE balls. I mean I think I have somewhat of a ball fetish. It turns me on so much when he's penetrating and his ballsack is just pounding my vagina.
-Oral and deepthroat is easy. No explanation necessary.
-He can go deep and I won't have to worry about bruising my damn cervix. If other girls are into that, fine. But that's not for me at all.
-This is a stereotype, but men with bigger dicks do less work to please. I've asked female friends of mine too, the "BigDickDaddies" that their big dick is just enough to get a girl wet. FALSE.
-If a guy with an average size dick doesn't know what he's doing, the sex will not be great. If a guy with a big dick doesn't know what he's doing, the sex will be terrible AND IT WILL HURT LIKE HELL.
-I'm a tiny girl. 4'11, slim, short and petite. I guess you can say yea, I'm pretty tight. So even an average size dick can feel a bit much for me.

I don't lie to spare people's feelings. Na. I don't candycoat shit. I like average to below average dicks. I have my preferences, when I say a 5inch dick is better than an 8inch dick, I mean it. It is true for me at least. Maybe other girls need more. That's fine. When it comes to sex, I'm not gonna lie. If he's not satisfying me, I'll talk it over with him like adults and I'd like for him to do the same if I'm not performing well either.

[JHAYES317]

Ok but a 5 in dick is average not small…

[Anonymous]

Yes, I've definitely just waited for sex to be over. No, size wasn't the reason. Lack of arousal and/or brutishness are the main ones for me. My best lover was about 5 inches, though and a guy with an almost 8 inch constantly hurt my cervix. I personally don't feel the same way as you on that one. If you aren't aroused, though, nothing will feel good being jammed in. It sounds like you dislike your partner.

PS: Magnums are really more about girth, but if he doesn't fit them, don't use them for chances of slipping off.

[Asker]

I see exactly what you mean, but its just my preference. Just like some men prefer a d-cup over an a cup.

[Opinion Owner]

That doesn't mean you should publically bash those who just aren't good matches for you, though. I'm sure it's frustrating to have a sexual response that is possibly atypical... But don't get mad, just look for better matches. I actually know a guy with a huge cock that has the opposite issue as you... His partners get hurt from him and it decreases their satisfaction, leading to issues. So there are definitely guys out there!

[Asker]

I realize this. But overall it's just a preference. I'm not publicly bashing anyone believe me I am very upfront and if I wanted to publicly bash someone in a petty way I will put their picture up here and publicly bash them that way but I prefer not to do things like that because it's a pretty low blow childish. Ever seen the movie Shallow Hal. My point exactly. and for the women who have been hurt by guys with larger penises they have to be lubricated. I do see your point but those little weenies do nothing for me. And I've heard the opposite from plenty of women compared to here. Its funny how on here the girls are taking the guys side but when I'm somewhere private talking to women I get the exact opposite.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm taking my own side, not guys! ;).

[Asker]

Sure

[JHAYES317]

Great but 5 in ain’t small

[Anonymous]

The problem afoot is lack of experience
and the talent/ability to grow his asset
beyond what others gals & even he can accomplish himself

[kheserthorpe]

I would not want to be with a partner who didn't find me sexually satisfying. You can't say it 'doesn't change your feelings' because how you feel about sex is one of the feelings I care -a lot- about.

I'd guess some women care, some don't. Quite a few women like sex, but get more direct pleasure from eating out or fingering, or cum primarily from having their clit rubbed during intercourse. So his size may not matter THAT much to them.

Some of what you wrote seems a little contradictory - you complain about p*rn , but it seems like what you want personally is less foreplay, more hard thrusting, which is almost the exact opposite of what most women who complain about p*rn say the problem is. That's fine and all, but I don't think what you like is what every woman likes. That's fine.

But if a certain penis size is important to you, then accept it and find that, along with the 'inner beauty'. you see.

[Asker]

really true. Most women do not have the same opinion as me. but what's wrong with accepting it.. wouldn't it be shallow if I turned a guy down just because of the sex completely. I do like some foreplay but it bothers me when the guy only reaches for my vagina to finger it and or focus completely on the breasts. . just not going to turn down a good guy because the sex is bad. I've had these conversations with plenty of women. & I don't only and I don't only like rough sex, nothing wrong with love making.

[Asker]

I know men want to know that they please their partners but I know several women that are on please in bed but still love their man

[Asker]

my mistake. I'm using the voice to text. I meant to say that I know women that are under pleased in bed but won't leave their man just because of that and don't want to hurt their egos. I know honesty is important, but do you know how most men will react to you saying that I'm not sexually pleased

[kheserthorpe]

No, it would not be shallow, it would be accepting reality. I mean I'd start off with trying to talk about what you both like and seeing if you can find something compatible, but if the sex isn't bad, unless he has a really low drive, you're not doing anyone a favor by just letting that part of the relationship be crappy. You AND he deserve better. I sort of intellectually nod and say yes, but deep down, I cannot feel romantically loved by someone who doesn't want me sexually. I just don't feel like they love me, on top of any other frustration and disappointment and self-esteem hit. I don't feel wanted.

[kheserthorpe]

I think that most men AND women react horribly to that news. Step 1 is to not say that. Step 1 is to simply focus heavily on what you DO like. If you like lots of rough thrusting and a little bit of manhandling, keep stressing how much you like that, and that you'd like more. Plenty of guys love that, so if he's really acting not into it, its likely going to be hard to be compatible, but lots LIKE it. One issue though is a lot of guys if they screw like that cannot last long. So you need to reach a point where if he LIKES it but can't deliver, that can be worked on... lots of practice, and recognizing he will have to slow down and catch his breath, but you sort of agree that's the goal you're both working towards. If you're saying you really want X and they're ignoring it and won't talk about why they won't do it sometimes, you could go into 'i'm not satisfied', but tbh, if you're not married, I'd probably just dump. Incompatible sex COMBINED with an unwillingness to talk = dump

[Asker]

I wouldn't want him to feel like he couldn't pleasure me, I would suggest different techniques and maybe some toys to play d the If you were wondering how I handled the situation. But for that very reason home and feel like they are not wanted which is why some girls tell guys you're not too big not too small. I don't mean you specifically because I don't even know you.

[kheserthorpe]

Obviously I have a titanic sized ship sailing in my pants. I mean seriously, I haven't dealt with -that- specific issue, but I think most of us have dealt with being unsure we pleased our partner at some point in some ways. Nobody is stupid, it's easy to say 'toys' like people shouldn't take it personally, but it's pretty natural to. If a guy wanted to have sex with you, never came during sex, and after sex wanted you to hold a super tight fleshlight while he thrust into that till he came... you'd probably feel a little crappy about yourself. How big a D does the guy need for you to feel satisfied?

[Asker]

communication is definitely not a problem. But did you notice that you said sexual incompatibility would be a reason to dump someone. Yep, I really wouldn't want to hurt anybody.

[Asker]

I would say six and a half or 7 inches is fine. reason I don't like a lot of fondling is because I was molested at a younger age and overdoing it fondling just takes my mind back to that. and I have been getting help for that.

[Asker]

the Fleshlight comment was awesome. But the part about him not getting off is pretty rare

[kheserthorpe]

I'm aware that's very rare, but hopefully you can see why guys might feel hurt that you wanted a dildo bigger than them. 6.5-7" is above average but not that unusual I don't think? I'd think you could find guys like that without TOO much trouble, maybe 1 in 3 guys are that big, or better? I can understand why your preferences are as they are. Dumping someone hurts them, but so does spending years with someone you're not satisfied with when they could have moved on.

[Asker]

Trust me its been done for a loooooooooooonnnnng time

[Asker]

Also take a look... www.gurl.com/.../
Didn't know dildo thing would bother him. Guess i could go to the shower and pretend. Lol articles like this are what women frequent.

[kheserthorpe]

Obviously you can have a crappy sex life and masturbate secretly. I'm suggesting that's not healthy or good for either of you. I don't think 6'5" are that unusual!!! Go find one. We're around.

[Asker]

Gotcha.

[kheserthorpe]

Hmm. I said 6 foot 5. I'm not quite that tall. I meant six and a half inch plus :p we're out there. Also, hmm. If I were with someone like you, I'd kind of -love- knowing how my size mattered to her. Would make me feel amazing.

[mcmorrowro]

I understand where your comming from and its true... guyss lie about the diuck size too much... and honestly it pisses me off as a guy myself because i have a large penis and all the other guys are like dude i have an 8 incher... then im like hey bro mines 8 inches i doubt it... it seriously pisses me off... i guess they do it to help themselves feel better and more ocnifdent

[Asker]

very true, why even lie its not worth it it's no like she's never going to see your penis. But a lot of guys have so called the Egos. and it's funny the responses I've got because I've talked to plenty of women about the same topic and most of them will prefer a guy about your size. See they are conditioned to lie to these guys lol

[TripleAce]

Average can do the job just as good

To be honest. If a women can orgasm insanly off of one finger, clearly average is enough

Its mostly all in your head. Its mental for you

[Asker]

yes I totally get it and I do like foreplay just not too much fondling lol yes it is very mental for women to get off. I know this is strange but the reason I don't prefer a lot of fingering is because it's uncomfortable for me and you can even Google it there's other women I feel the same way. Its not that I don't like foreplay but I was molested when I was younger and sometimes it brings the thought process back.

[TripleAce]

Another thing is your poll misleading. Your classifications are wrong. When people see small they think under 5 inches. Your poll should of been Average penises pleasure Average penises do nothing i think you would get much more average then anything else for sure

[Asker]

I see what you mean. But six or seven is enough. Im talking about men five and under.

[Virulent]

My insecurities are on fire!

[Asker]

Why should there be? someone for everyone and this cold cruel world.

[Virulent]

Yeah but who wants to accidentally run into someone who really wants nothing to do with them? I mean I'd prefer someone just say "No, I will not have sex with you" versus having sex with me and really wishing they hadn't bothered. Major turn-off to dating altogether.

[Asker]

I'm so sorry. It's just the truth several men don't know what they're doing. And just like some men still deserve a chance and are worth dating.

[Virulent]

The question is rather why not just be honest and upfront? I have no problem if someone doesn't like me but shit I don't want pity sex or even pity dating because it would be "mean" to get them this far and then turn them down due to incompatibility. It's not even fun now.

[Asker]

he's in some women lie is so they don't hurt the ego, like some men would lie about the girl being good at oral. a lot of men can't handle the truth like you, these comments I got. You have to be able to see it on my side because some men would get really angry or feel upset.

[Asker]

this has nothing to do with pity sex

[Virulent]

Look, I understand hurting someone's ego, but there's no value to behind the curtain type behavior. Like me thing is asking people upfront if I'm liked or not because I don't want to play this game; I do not work off the implied "oh, she's interested" bullshit because thus is childish. Of course you're younger so that makes sense but when you get serious and are looking for an actual partner you don't waste time with this crap and you feel more offended when the time is wasted. I mean I have no problem with someone who doesn't like me. I have every problem in the world with someone who just wants to give it a whirl or tries to hide it. Now mind you I do understand from your vantage that people who are delusional you can't necessarily tell, for instance dude who thinks he's Magnum quality and is not, but from my perspective I am honest and up front and I expect the same.

[Asker]

I have been in serious relationships. But I'm not going to argue that point with you my point is there are plenty of guys that take advantage of women, abused women, etc. few good men. but I'm not going to let the such thing as a tiny penis make me not want to be with a really good guy. I don't think that you understand what I was talking about

[Virulent]

Here's the thing. No one is going to turn you away because you're not the best pussy in the world. I get that. It's like you took the time to state "facts" and then deflect at the end talking about how men do this or that when in reality it's about your opinion, something about dicks, and honesty and avoidance so I don't get it. It all accumulated to "I don't want to talk about it but I wanted to express it" sort of. It just doesn't make sense. You voided your own statements.

[Asker]

of course no one's going to turn me over for not having the best pussy in the world men go by looks. such an idiot most men suck in bed. You men can't handle the truth. That's why so many women lie to you many women are conditioned to lie to you that's why they're so many women on here talking all that crap. That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard I was just being honest and letting you know my point of view so what I said if I was only being honest!! bye teenie weenie!!!

[Virulent]

"of course no one's going to turn me over for not having the best pussy in the world men go by looks. such an idiot most men suck in bed." You're so young... Haha! Men will fuck amazing pussy no matter how it looks. Men will keep good looking poor pussy solely to show off to their friends. There's a total divide between being good at sex and valued for it and just being pretty and a trophy. Men don't go purely off of looks. Older men actually give a shit if the sex is good or not; with young bucks it's just "Sex is sex!" but there's a clear difference between good pussy and... the rest. I like it! "such an idiot most men suck in bed." ... Sadly so do women. If you get men alone and safe they'll talk about the best pussy they ever had. However that's EXTREMELY TABOO to talk about. A girl says "his dick was small?", that's meh, if a guy says "My exes pussy was BOMB!" that's writing yourself off and ending your bloodline. XD Oh shit. I laughed so hard.

[Asker]

Not only about sex. Thats why if I care for him I wouldn't wanna hurt his feeling but trust me I've heard plenty of guys convos about this, they went into great detail. Most guys I've dated were older because young guys aren't my thing.

[Virulent]

I forgot what we were talking about.

[adika63]

I’ve never encountered a bad pussy honestly. And personality makes someone attractive.

[Ihav2fart]

Welll... I might as well just kill myself...

[Anno_Domini]

I'll join you!

[ReneDS]

no worries dude, you still got your beard , which looks ridicoulous to me hahaha normally beards make guys look bad ass, looks like you used yours as dust cleaner... maybe grow a beard in your pants 2, is pretty dusty down there as well, and you can hide your 3 inch monster inside of it

[ReneDS]

my little samurai

[adika63]

She’s right about why lie. If someone ask I’ll tell them exactly what it is. That’s why we have toys and give them lots of attention before we bring the little fella in. But on the other hand would dismiss a guy if you asked he told you he had 3.5 or 4 in member

[adika63]

I’m a guy that’s tiny but I know that so you make sure she gets off first. I wish girls would just do what you said as well. I’m no
near 5 and will tell you and laugh about it. Guys need to get over there insecurities and accept it

[Anonymous]

i got 6 plus, wanna date? XD and apperantly im good at it as well ;) show me how attractive you are, i dont want sex with ugly girls, turns me off

[Asker]

Typical! Gotta love it.

[Opinion Owner]

just as typical as your love for big guns :P you like it huh:P lets do some sexting through private messaging ;)

[Asker]

Nah dont sext

[Anonymous]

It's all about honesty to yourself and each other. some plugs need certain sockets, some sockets need certain plugs. it's just how it is. good communication is the best. yay to preferences, nay to shaming

[Anonymous]

Aaaaand... women like you are why I am still a virgin...

[Asker]

there's someone for everyone. And actually there is a lot of things online the help guys and women with tips about sexually pleasing someone. But if someone really cared about you, it wouldn't just be about sex and vice versa

[Opinion Owner]

There's a point at which a penis is just too damn small to bother.

[Asker]

I disagree, not every woman has my opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn't change the fact that being an inch below the average in both measurements is pretty much a death sentence for a normal sex life.

[Opinion Owner]

Or two inches, depending on which study you reference.

[Asker]

try foreplay and oral sex

[Opinion Owner]

It still won't make penetration satisfying for most women.

[Asker]

Most guys dont do a good job anyway

[Opinion Owner]

But at least they have the ability to learn. I can't match them no matter how good I get.

[Asker]

Look at the comment from a female below, see some do enjoy it

[Anonymous]

Lol. And girls get pissed when guys prefer bigger boobs...

[Asker]

I understand exactly. But I can't complain because I have double D's

[Opinion Owner]

Well, there's no proof of that

[Asker]

no need to lie

[Opinion Owner]

You'd think so

[Asker]

Ill humor u

[Anonymous]

You tripped over yourself, you now sound like an idiot.

[Asker]

thanks glad to have the great feedback from you

[Anonymous]

Haha. She's not a size queen and doesn't have a loose vagina. I think she's been lied to just like the men she talks about. Kegels weekly will do about as much for you as 10 situps every Saturday morning.

[Asker]

I see I have struck a chord with somebody. I figured I would. I hope that made you feel better. how about the fact that I performed at least 6 days a week and I've been doing it for 4 years. will leave you with your own insecurities have a nice life.

[Anonymous]

And what if I told you unless a girl has a nice ass and tits we just think about other girls to get us excited instead of thinking about you?

[Asker]

it wouldn't bother me, a lot of men to choose women just because of looks so it's pretty common and it doesn't bother me at all but I do have a nice pair of tits and a nice ass so no need to imagine someone else