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My sister touched my brothers penis?

So something really kind of odd happened the other day. Me, My Brother, and my sister were getting ready to go running. (They're twins, both 14, and I'm their younger sister, 13 years old) My brother was trying out a new pair of running spandex he got. You could see the outline of his penis through them, and My sister commented on it. She said sarcastically, "I wonder what that is," pointing at it. Now I have to admit I was a little intrigued as well, but I would never have done what she did next. She reached her hand out and kind of rubbed his package through the running tights for a couple seconds. My brother looked like he liked it. We laughed it off, but doesn't this seem a little weird. They are very close, but I think this was crossing the line? A possible explanation is maybe she was just curious what it felt like... but still, wasn't that inappropriate? The fact that my brother let her do it makes me wonder if they have done more in private... that's just a suspicion, though. Anyways, this situation made me feel weird about their relationship... what do you think? Are they acting inappropriately, or okay since we're so close? Should I bring it up and ask them about it? If so, how? I wouldn't consider going to my parents about this... they probably freak out and I don't think my siblings deserve whatever they would do. Also, being the youngest I don't get a lot of trust/respect from my parents, and I'm not sure if they'd believe me and I'd just look like a pervert. Thank you for your advice!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's your choice of whether you want to ask them about it. But like you said, twins are close and do almost everything together. Your sister's curiosity and actions are normal, since all girls have that same curiosity when they reach puberty. Lots of twins have had some kind of sexual experience with each other, just like regular boys and girls. I definitely wouldn't tell your parents about it. And like I said, it's your choice as to whether to talk to one or both of them about it. I've seen posts from girls and women who said they learned how to give handjobs and blowjobs by practicing on their brother's penis, so what your sister did isn't nearly as a big deal.

  • Well it's pretty inappropriate but I doubt that they had any bad intentions or that they do it in private. As long as it doesn't continue it'll eventually just become a harmless but extremely awkward memory.

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  • That doesn't sound right. Inappropriate. I mean, from my knowledge it's been fine if he was a baby and she was cleaning him but since they're the same age I don't know. When I was a kid I showered with my older sisters because we were close and they got me to shower that way. But actually touching sexually I don't think so. And they always say family is not meant for sexual stuff. You could try to tell them in a good way that it's not right and it's not apropriate and no one is supposed to touch anyone's private areas and only in sex with a future partner. But it's private and not right. Also shouldn't have sex with everyone

  • I don't think a parent would take that lightly or just ignore it simply because you're "youngest"... but as a reader from the internet I can sense this as MAJOR BULLSHIT!

  • I don't think they'd donthat in public if they were doing anything " more". Bc they'd be paranoid and go to extra lengths to cover it up.

    • Good point. Thanks!

    • Sure:)

    • Only in West Virginia, lol

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  • Well it's kinda odd.
    But you said they were close. Chances are it was just her being stupid and dumb. I wouldn't worry about it unless something similar happens again.

  • This was weird and inappropriate, but if I was you I would leave it alone. After all, you might find out something you really do not want to know if you ask about it. Also, it has nothing to do with you. As long as they keep their hands off your private parts, you should be alright. However, if you really feel you must do something, tell them to not do that kind of stuff in front of you anymore because it made you uncomfortable, and leave it at that.

  • they're probably close but if the brother gave some other reaction then that's crossing the line or if they actually do it together then that's also bad but telling your parents without evidence is risky plus your siblings probably will grow personal hate against u but if you have evidence they're doing smth bad then go ahead and tell. Though I feel like twins are pretty much so close they just want to explore different things (especially about the opposite sex but it definitely shouldn't go directly to yk what. I mean seeing and touching each other's private parts consensually for a bit is just fine out of pure curiosity but nothing further. Like I don't have a twin brother but I'm extremely close with my younger brother by 2 years since we're almost the same age and we've explored each other and what happens to each other's body through puberty cuz of pure curiosity but nothing else.

    • I wanna ask u smth in dms but u have ur dms off

  • It's important for family members not too sexualize nudity because it is appropriate and healthy for siblings and other family too familiarize and examine each other's bodies if they were raised too view such activities as normal medical and hygiene routines. It is inevitable that family will see you bare for one reason or another. During a medical emergency, I thought that I wouldn't be able too look my mother in the eye while bending over and spreading buttocks too expose everything for her too examine. On the one hand, it had been 40 years since she saw me naked. 9n the other, she's mom, and neither one of us could think of a rational excuse for iether one of us too be uncomfortable or embarrassed, so we weren't. Even when her fingers contacted my prostate, causing an immediate erection. What's the harm, considering that she gave me that penis with her genetic contribution too my body. We were worried about me possibly losing my boyparts too caustic exposure, not embarressing examination by mom. If there is no family norms or philosophy preventing the three of you from checking each other for hygiene and general health, than if you're comfortable doing so, go ahead.

  • I mean I think it crosses lines but I guess it depends on their relationship

  • Seems harmless to me, just kids being kids. If it goes any further than there's reason to worry.

  • I have a twin sister and doing so doesn't seem appropriate. Your doubt is right. They might have something else. It's not right to let your sister do such things.

  • This is wrong so many levels. i'm 100% sure this has happened before. you need to put an end to this.

    • But how?

    • Confront them along with your parents.

  • OF COURSE THAT'S CROSSING THE LINE! THAT'S INCEST!

    • Only in West Virginia, lol

  • Well probably just curiosity, but yeah a bit odd. I would just stay out of it unless you catch them doing more sexual behavior. In that case let your parents know and have them deal with it.

  • You have confessed being intrigued seeing your sister touching penis. If so, why do you think of asking them or telling parents? It is confirmed they both are very close and it is surely a first step to move forward.

  • Your family needs help.

  • You sound somewhat jealous? Normal growing up stuff.

  • have you ever seen them do something similar?

  • I think it's cool they trust each other so much maybe if you asked they would open up to you since your their sister too, having a close family is awesome and you should be happy they weren't afraid to hide everything away from you but telling your parents could backifire your right not to run and tattle.

    • I agree.

  • Feel comfortable to have this experience. .. if you're brother asked if you wanted to see it and pulled it out. Would you be mad or curious? Maybe they explore each other naked. And maybe you should join them.

    • I agree with you on that

  • I wish I had done this!

  • well if your brother came to you and wanted to touch you to see how it is would you do it.

  • If I had to guess, I bet she’s done it before.

  • have a three some

    • Yeah because I mean IF they are willing to do all that, what they did, then who knows maybe a 3-some wouldn't be a "HUGE"/"TERRIBLE" thing to consider, ya know

    • Actually that I would have to agree with you on/with that/what you say/said I mean Shoot IF they have/had done that and they had seemed pretty comfortable with doing it/that in front of another person well then I mean Shoot I would say maybe a Threesome would be something that they would actually think would be in order/something that they Would probably do with one another...

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