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Is Sex physically exhausting for you or your partner?

Im a virgin and i want to know if sex is physically exhausting? Do you get tired while trying to have intercourse? or are you more relaxed or refreshed? Does missionary take a lot of strength/endurance power to do? Im curious how physically demanding it is? And if you could tell me what positions is the most physically demanding to the least demanding is missionary harder than cowgirl or vice versa. What makes you keep going if your fatigued or worn out. Please give your honest answers for your chance to win M. H. O. Thank you in advance :)
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  • Yes it is, especially depending your personality, if you're lazy and don't care, you may do a bit, she then does a bit then your done.
    You may be competitive and want to give her the best ever, some chicks will like hard and fast, some slow and sensual, some through fucking, some through getting head, some using hands or toys, some may need a combination or all of the above. This may require many sessions to work out, she may not even know. This all equates to energy output. Coupled with this trying to achieve a certain number in a given timeframe equals more energy.
    Orrrr, you could just not think so much and go with the flow and enjoy it.

    • thanks you dont hear people talk about how exhausting sex can be. I'd probably stick to what feels best and not as much as to how to pleasure her because then i'd seam out of touch. Nice and slow and relaxed.

  • Being on top can be tiring for sure - I always work up a sweat when I'm doing missionary. After ten minutes or so of missionary or similar, I'll pretty much feel too tired to go on. Swapping to a girl on top position does give me a rest but that only helps so much. I particularly feel tired in my core (abs especially) and arms from supporting myself over the girl and thrusting. It's preventing me from really enjoying sex; for a start, I almost always get too tired to go on before I get near orgasm.

    • or You don't need to use your arms to support you. Rest your arms beneath her head (better if she's lying on a pillow), almost crossed. And her on top, as well. If you're getting too tired, it might be because you're thrusting hard and fast for a long (ish) period of time. You could try slowing down. If you're concerned about stimulating her, in my experience it's not so much the speed but the depth. It's better to penetrate deep and slow than shallow and fast. But, for those who might be worried about their size; it's not the direct depth that matters. It's the angle. You want to stimulate the walls, and not just dive "straight" in. Ten minutes isn't much time, so either you're not quite fit or using too much energy early on. If you claim you're fit, then it's the rhythm that's the problem. You could try going slowish to start, and then speed up.

    • haha way to go edum you've put a lot of thought into it. I say do what makes you feel happy and good if im constantly worrying about her i'll fuck up. Doing too much is never a good idea to me. I say go slow and steady and do what u can. If your going to fast its pointless if you can't control yourself. I dont wanna get worn out then you smell and look silly...

    • haha. It might just be a case where your starting out too 'intense', slow it down at the beginning, think it's a marathon not a sprint and slowly bring up the passion and intensity.. it gives enjoyable sex sure

Most Helpful Girls

  • Missionary, cowgirl, and doggy are not too tiring. Doggy is good as it's most effort on the guy's part, but he doesn't have to support himself with his arms ro anything so that's good. Missionary is also by the guy for the most-part, not too exhausting. Cowgirl is decent on the girls part, not much harder than missionary, and gives the guy a chance to rest in between.

    If both partners are getting a bit worn out. It's nice to sometimes just kiss & rest for a bit, or even have one person go down on the other for some oral.

  • Yes it is a good physical work out - but the best kind. Changing positions also changes who is doing the most work and can allow rests in between.

    • whats your favorite position and is it exhausting for you?

    • A have a few favourites - anything that grinds his body against my clit. Missionary is intimate and I enjoy seeing his body on top of me - more physically demanding on him. Cowgirl - I like to be in control sometimes - more physically demanding on me but the guy can help by pressing his hips upwarda at the right time or putting his hands on my hips to give me a bit of a boost. One I dony know what it is called - I lay on my back with my knees up (like I'm about to do sit ups). He lays perpendicular to me on his side one of my knees loop over the top of his body. His top leg goes betweent my legs - probably more demanding for him.

    • ohh sounds good. Overall it seams like us guys are doing the most work. I guess i better prepare and train my endurance levels lol. Do you have any tips for me?

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  • I can't believe a young person is actually worried about sexual stamina. They should be the least worried of any age group. Seriously underestimating the energy that comes with being young is what OP did with there elongated drawn out question.

  • It truly depends on who does the most work. If your on top you will get tired first and vise versa

    • By on top i assume you mean missionary if so why would you get tired in missionary so quickly? surely the pleasure would keep me going? or would the fatigue get to me rather quickly?

    • Yes the pleasure help but 15 min of straight up sex your going to get tired bro you got to change position s everyone in awhile so you don't get as tired or bust a nut to fast

    • wait what? would you bust a nut in some positions more than others?

  • I can't be arsed to go into it too much, but yeah it can be exhausting. A virgin will likely give a very descriptive answer and get MHO for brilliant speculation, dressed up as actual experience. haha

    • Well this is the place to lay down your opinion. Feel free to express it. How was your experiences?

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