Hedonism II Resort, asking for tips, tricks, traps and best course of action?

[Anonymous]

.. and any other resorts that might better suit... based upon PERSONAL EXPERIENCE? Hubby & I really don't mind, even perhaps look forward to nudism and public sex but not really into swinging nor swapping, even on vacation. Looking to toe the line on a wild sex adventure but not cross over into more than just us in sex.

[Anonymous]

I knew a married college couple that went to HII. They said it was liberating and I don't think it was sexual beyond the you can looky but no touch. They didn't convey that there was open hanky panky either, but they shared their trip review with a large group of us so maybe they were holding back. The female received some comments about how beautiful she was and guys in our group wish they were along. It didn't seem to bother the husband. He seemed to get off on the conversation and about sharing her looks at the resort. My SO would have been freaked out about the whole thing and it would have been awkward if she was involved in the conversation.

[Red_Arrow]

I figure you know that a normal nude resort would not allow the open sex, period. I have not been to any hedonistic resorts, but did have a long discussion with a woman who did, and the one she went to had different areas. Some were strictly nude without the sexual parts, other areas were aimed at the sexual crowd. She found herself in an organized game where she was blowing a stranger, though it did not bother her. I think if you get into an area like that, you will need to adhere to your boundaries , but will get some strange looks. I believe the one she was at was in the south-western coast of France.

[HeelsNhorses]

My experience is that your boundaries are very well respected at places like this. While I have only been to one adult resort I have also been in two swingers clubs. You don't do anything you don't want to and 99 times out of 100 if the woman says NO then that's the end of it. Every now and then some horny single guy might try to "persuade" you into something but I was really surprised at how others don't let "peer pressure" become an issue. Just say no thanks! However, be prepared for lots of stares and lots of advances. But mostly a polite no thanks is all that you need to stay in your boundaries.

[Bumguy3]

You can do as much or as little as you like. We enjoyed having public sex and watching it at times too. Some are swingers that go and some aren’t. You shouldn’t feel pressured to do anything you don’t want to. You’ll also be encouraged to do whatever you want to. If you enjoy nudity and public sex then you should definitely take a chance and go.

[Anonymous]

We have never been to one. Interested in the answers you get.

[Anonymous]

What are you asking in a sentence? Because I read "Where is a nudist resort?"

[Asker]

Personal experience advice requested