Why are so many girls so easily pressured and submissive in todays word (very important please read all of it)?

[Anonymous]

If you come to look out over the years guys have basically changed and manipulated women into believing what they want. I in no way am writing this up to disrespect you girls out there but i just wanted to notify and alert you all. Girls are constitenly pressured and manipulated from guys and it all ways seams like the guys win. For example social conventions are changing to accept what guys prefer such as having girls naked, or wearing little to no clothing whether participating in sports or not. Just look at all the sports women participate in and see how there bodys are revealed. More so more and more girls are accepting the commonly used phrase "Boys will be boys" when they're man screws up in some way involving cheating/adultery or breaking relationship rules. Even more so girls are accepting habits from other guys if they are assholes verbally assaulting her or even if they are beating her up physical abuse. More girls are open and so willing to put up with so much shit. These days even sexually, girls are more open to anal. More girls are handing out there V-card like it doesn't matter and more are engaging in sex with a new partner within the first week or 1st or 2nd or 3rd date. I mean if he had daughters and sons would you be happy knowing that theyre following in your foot steps. I act like how i would want my son to act and i think more guys should and more girls should act like they would want their daughters to act. Ladies there's only going to be more manipulation, betrayal, lies and deceit if you continue to let your man walk all over you. Use your voices say "NO" have an impact it seams like we as in "men" keep getting away with shit cause they know they can. Learn to have a handle on your relationships and have strong hand and grasp on what goes around are we will continue to run a much around. To those that have come this far and are still reading I thank you and trust and believe me when i say i don't mean any bad intentions from this.

[7heDubz]

Wall of fucking text.
Holy hell man, FORMATTING learn some.

Anyway, I agree with you on some points, and not on others.

Agree ~
To many women allow men to walk over them due to naive nature and/or just wanting to see some good in everybody.

" Girls are constitenly pressured and manipulated from guys and it all ways seams like the guys win. "

Well, I mean, when it DOES happen this is pretty true, we do normally win when we pressure girls into doing what we want.

Normally.

Disagree ~
" social conventions are changing to accept what guys prefer such as having girls naked, or wearing little to no clothing whether participating in sports or not. Just look at all the sports women participate in and see how there bodies are revealed. "

Uhh, I don't know about you but, ever watched track or wrestling matches? (actual ones, not WWA or whatever that shit is). Clothing can get in the way of the athlete, so they wear less. Males follow this rule too.

" more and more girls are accepting the commonly used phrase "Boys will be boys" when they're man screws up in some way involving cheating/adultery or breaking relationship rules. "

Apart from the grammatical issues with this sentence, I myself have never seen that used in such a way, only ever in silly ways like when I decide to be an adrenaline junkie, "boys will be boys," I have never ever heard a girl use it to try and say that their boyfriends cheating was justified. Maybe that's just because I don't generally befriend such weak women though.

[mistninja314]

More girls are handing out there V-card like it doesn't matter and more are engaging in sex with a new partner within the first week or 1st or 2nd or 3rd date.

IN the words of 1 of my fav GAGirls @xHoneyxBeex ""Women are worth so much more than simply an in-tact hymen between their legs. I'm not a walking vagina" I totally agree and if a girl only thinks that she has that to offer "SHE AIN'T WORTH SHIT IMHO". She'd be just another girl walking around using their vagina to get them through life in my books.

Those are the same girls who get humped and dumped BECAUSE that's all they had to offer was a set of wet walls anyway AND THE GUY SAW THAT ><.

[mistninja314]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1348544-if-women-didn-t-have-a-vagina-would-you-still-go-out-of-your-way-to Which leads to that type of question sadly

[Asker]

Yea but if that's all they are taught and brought up to think or see around them then theyre a product of their environment. And us guys are responsible for it were always sexualising women, manipulating women basically telling them they are a "walking vagina" or are forth putting her body before her mind. We know this is a man's world and our society keep pressuring and persuining girls to be more submissive and accept guys are gonna cheat and have multiple partner and marriage is not right and there's no such thing as a soul mate and girls shouldn't work and should only have kids and women aren't strong and etc you know its fucking annoying me. I want more dominate girls. I want more tough women. You know what im saying @mistninja314...

[mistninja314]

I hear your Mr ANON, I like strong foesty woman who aren't scared to get in my face and tell me how it's gone be (#^ ^#) COOL BUT WHEN i SAW THIS ". We know this is a man's world and our society keep pressuring and persuading girls" HUH QUITE THEE OPPOSITE IMHO So i1127.photobucket.com/.../...m_MDU1ODM5NDU5Njk.jpg LOL I just made a question saying the opposite of that

[mistninja314]

feisty women*

[xHoneyxBeex]

Aw one of my quotes was used! heck yeah! Lol

[mistninja314]

@xHoneyxBeex It's true though and more people need to have your mindset (#^ ^#) Bee for pres/girl next door #moment

[Queen_naki5]

Trust me. These girls have a choice. They're choosing to go through this. Anyone can say no. I'm a firm believer that we're given more choices than we think. Women aren't being manipulated no more nowadays than they were before. Guys can also be manipulated by girls as well. Girls nowadays aren't "giving away" their v-cards, they feel they're being "sexually liberating" and that waiting until marraige is whack (some, not all). Yes, some guys will manipulate a girl into bed, but it isn't the end of the world. A women is worth so much more than that. "Girls are accepting the commonly used phrase boys will be boys", while girls will do their dirt and say "I'm a strong woman", or "girls just wanna have fun". It's nothing wrong with feeling this way, but don't make these girls/women appear angelic and helpless. It's never that simple. How can any man respect us if we don't respect ourselves? Vice versa, and that applies to anyone. I'm sick of these double standards though, women can hurt a man as much as he can hurt her. Women nowadays have much more rights, oppurtunities and financial superiority than they ever had in history and although what you're saying is correct in many instances, it doesn't have to be that way. I'll also like to add, I'm with a good guy and had my share of a-holes, but I came to the realization that they were a-holes and that is why I am not with them anymore. Some women will stay with an a-hole because of various reasons, but even if she had 20 kids with him, she has the choice to walk away.

[mistninja314]

Well said and read my response LOL

[Queen_naki5]

@mistninja314 First thing I read :-)

[lumos]

As far as I'm concerned, it has always been like this? Like at least concerning the attitudes about being pressured into submission, shoving serious issues under the rug ("boys will be boys") etc. And as far as I'm concerned, more and more women are speaking up about these issues (hint: it's called feminism, look it up) by telling men that they're not having any of it, and by questioning societal norms and structures. You're acting as if we don't already do this, lol.
The thing about your post that really kind of irks me though is when you talk about female sexuality.

"These days even sexually, girls are more open to anal. More girls are handing out there V-card like it doesn't matter and more are engaging in sex with a new partner within the first week or 1st or 2nd or 3rd date."

As far as I'm concerned, anal can be enjoyable for many women. Obviously it's not everyone's cup of tea, but a lot of women have expressed genuine interest in it, as well as explained that it's something they truly enjoy. So why is that such a bad thing? Also, I don't see why losing your virginity SHOULD be such a big deal. You're really not losing anything, you're gaining experience. Life experience. Sexual experience. How is that a bad thing if the girl/woman feels ready, feels mature enough, and actually wants it? You're trying to shame girls for being more sexually open nowadays, and that pretty much CONTRADICTS the rest of your post on so many different levels. Sheesh.

[Asker]

I'm not contradicting myself when I wrote this piece I had genuinely good intentions. I say these stuff because its true. Girls in todays world are looking for "Conformity" or "Compliancy"meaning they are looking to be "Accepted" and those in power and in charge and in control are you guessed it, "Men". Ever heard the phrase "It's A Man's World"? I want to see more empowered women because when I come to think of it I look around my community and through other communities and I don't find it acceptable to say girls should look skinny to look pretty. I don't think its acceptable regardless for men or women to be having sex by the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date because then you are indirectly telling more girls and guys yea its cool to have sex at any given time with a girl even if you don't know her.

[lumos]

But it IS cool to have sex with a girl (or guy) if you feel ready and if you want it. I still don't understand what's so wrong about that? What goes on between two consenting adults is none of your business, and quite frankly you don't have the right to shame them into believing that what they're doing is wrong.

[lumos]

There's a difference between having a healthy and sexual relationship, and being pressured into having sex.

[tina15xox]

It's not just that it's advertising guys like sex and sex sells everyone knows that so kinda guys being a little silly

[Lalaxoxo_soso]

I completely agree with you, not to mention how guys enjoy using multiple women or girls at once and not even be honest about doing so

[Asker]

yea I know society keeps pressuring and perusing girls to be more submissive and accept guys are gonna cheat and have multiple partner and marriage is not right and there's no such thing as a soul mate and girls shouldn't work and should only have kids and women aren't strong and etc I want to see more girls being strong and tough. This entire twerking, Friends with benefits, Side chick-Main chick shit is just another form of controlling girls and I hate it and them same dudes are telling you "These hoes ain't loyal" and girls are still like I love my man its like wtf ya know.

[gotnothing2do]

True that...

[Asker]

do you have anything else to add apart from "true that"?

[gotnothing2do]

I guess it also has to do with the way society is Bringing up children from an early age parents naturally tend to separate their kids and fit them into the gender role already laid out for them so children r raised to think that their personality has too comply w their gender. which then creates tension with the opposite sex br cause there is no gray area. Then as they grow older they learn to distinguish the difference between them and how that applies to fitting in growing up ext. Most modern day TV shows for teens show them that if u r a certain gender u have expectations to live up too. Girls look at the way older women dress and try to mimic them. They developed the idea that in order to be more "woman like" they have to flaunt the parts that seperatw them from being a man. They r raised to be weak and submissive to men. The way a guy is raised into society is w the idea that they r dominate and in charge. This of course is opinion based on stereotypes

[gotnothing2do]

Was that the comment u were looking for cause I can go all day if u give a good topic

[Asker]

yes please do and keep going on your enlightening me. I want to hear more from you...

[gotnothing2do]

On what ecactly

[TheyCallMeMacDaddyG]

You need a tl;dr for this kind of thing. I know a lot of strong women. To me this post is nauseatingly feminist. I'm all for equality (where it is practical), but one of the most things to me is the extreme feminists out there, I group them up with religious extremists and PETA.

[Asker]

whats a tl;dr? this post is what I believe to be true and im sure you can agree with me on some points.

[TheyCallMeMacDaddyG]

Too Long; Didn't Read. That being said, I read. I agree that there are some double standards, such as the concept of "sluts". However, saying that men are the "bad guys" and we are all domineering assholes, which is the message I am getting here, is both ridiculous and vomit inducing. What does liking anal have anything to do with submissiveness? Just so you know, sex isn't a vile act that men commit on women, it is a passionate and intimate connection between a man and a woman who enjoy each others bodies.

[Asker]

Yes but you've got to understand some of my point here. We as guys and when I mean guys I don't necessarily mean all but a big proportion of us are who im refering to up top. We need to be responsible for our actions and if it doesn't apply to you you need not to feel insulted. We do cheat we do pressure women we do set under tones or rules for how its acceptable for girls to act. Its like women must conform to what us guys want. Take a look at diet and health. Girls are told to look skinny or thick because us guys want it. Girls will starve themselves just because we put these ideas in there heads. We do try to constrain and control them. I said anal because more women coming to terms and grips and being genuinely open to the idea of anal. More girls now are open to it because guys said "hey I want to do your booty" and were manipulated or persuaded in a sense so that they can sexually gratify the man. I do think that we pulling the strings too much as a society, don't you?

[TheyCallMeMacDaddyG]

Yes, men set social rules and roles for women. However, women do the same thing, by expecting men to be the guy to initiate relationships, pay for dinner, not hitting back even when they are taking a beatin'. I don't have a problem with these things because my parents raised me right as a gentleman. Girls also influence the way guys want to look by wanting the six pack abs and muscled body, which is a small percentage of the male population. I would argue that women are as equal and independent now than ever before. In some cases to a fault.

[Asker]

Well yes because some of them made logical sense and are old-fashioned. Think about the 60's guys wages made more than double women's wages. More women wouldn't get jobs because they weren't held in the same respect and standard as men. So it would only seam right and fair to pay for dinner. As far as not hitting women here you go again men are physically stronger than women. What we've set barely make any logical sense why should girls have to starve themselves to fit an ideal image? why? Why should girls have to accept boys will be boys when we cheat? why? Why should girls have to wear revealing outfits? why? Theyre so many social conventions outlined by men that shouldn't be there and theyre to control women. Now were looking at side-hoes, main bitch. like it something to glorify and be proud about.

[Klaatu51]

personally i don't do that...

[abundantlyrich]

The virginity is just to describe the hymen not broken. But what matters is the first time experience that should be meaningful. :P Virginity is nothing. Anyone can break their virginity through with an object.

[mistninja314]

This guy is just a simp. mangina ass nigga I think lolololol

[abundantlyrich]

Nothing sacred about the virginity but who you give your sexual experience (s) it to is utterly important. Having sex with the wrong person can bring down our energy reserve. Having sex with the right person who is in sync with us, makes sex more than just a physical act because there is giving and receiving of energy from both ends.

[abundantlyrich]

These girls are very naive and weak willed. They just take every word of assholes at face value and thought he is genuine.

[wom77]

u said it !!

[Asker]

Thank you, but what do you think I want to have a woman's perspective on this.

[wom77]

100 % agreed

[wom77]

men like u keep the world clean !! not littering the world with filth !! my say - ban p*rn too !!

[wom77]

woman is like a treasure.. protected and not to be destroyed !! and man must not look at other treasures !!

[wom77]

woman is like rose, you destroy flower ,,, all left = thorns !!