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Boyfriend asked me if I wanted him to cum inside me. What does that mean?

As my boy friend was about to cum he asked me if I wanted him to cum inside me. It caught me off guard because I've never told him to do that. We've talked about how we both want kids, but more like an idea far in the future... What causes a guy to say this knowing the risks of getting a girl pregnant? He knows I'm not on birth control and we were using a condom... I'm confused.
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*we were NOT using a condom
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He wants to release a hundred million sperm inside you to find your egg and make you a mommy. Perhaps he thought you started taking birth control and hadn't bothered to tell him. Or, maybe he was hoping that you wanted to start trying to have kids now. Or, he just might be super horny and wanting to feel the sensation of busting in you. Be careful... whatever his motivations are, he could easily get you pregnant, and without having better cognizance of his end of the bargain, you are at far greater risk than if you were on the same page on this.

    • Oh, I just saw your update. Without a condom, even if he didn't let loose inside you, you run the risk of getting pregnant. Don't let him in without a wrapper.

  • He most likely was so caught up in the moment that his sex/pleasure side was overriding the logical side of his mind. When having sex, we tend to only think of the pleasure that we're feeling at the time, not the long term consequences that can occur from sex.

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  • he probably wanted to feel to feel the feeling of cumming inside you, be cautious.

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  • DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT. let him do this unless you are prepared for children. He can still wear a condom and cum inside you. That's what they're for. There are some great ones out there so there is no excuse.

  • If you're having sex with zero protection, pregnancy doesn't really seem like an idea far in the future. Not to mention, live-birth rates decline after age 32.

  • That depends on if he is being serious or not sometimes the idea of doing that is just appealing to guys we dont always think of repercussions.. At least from my point of view

  • well we men have a compulsive thing about cumming inside it feels damn good but if he wants to feel how it is to cum inside why not try it anal? he'll love it plus no risk of pregnancy. If you both don't mind the risk of having kids then by all means go ahead

  • He probably wanted to have that pleasure and after that you would take a morning after pill to be safe.

  • If you're having intercourse without a condom, or any other birth control, you're already at severe risk of pregnancy. It takes a lot of concentration for a guy to remember to actually pull out "in time" and that really doesn't mean anything. Precum, and poor timing make pregnancy a real possibility.

  • It feels really really really good to do that, and sex makes people stupid. All kinds of risks we know we should avoid get tossed aside in the moment of passion.

  • He's a horny, irresponsible guy. Don't do it!

  • lol dude stop trolling...

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