Many women complain that their vaginas are "too tight" or "too loose," and many men raise the issue about lovers. Notions of vaginal tightness and looseness are fraught with mythology. Many people believe that (1) the virgin vagina is extremely tight, (2) that loss of virginity permanently loosens it, (3) that frequent sex loosens it further (so don't be promiscuous, girls!), and (4) that childbirth loosens the vagina even more and possibly forever after. The truth is considerably different.
Vaginal Tightness
Imagine a hand towel stuffed inside a thick sock squeezed by two hands. The sock is the vagina. The towel is the folded muscle tissue of the vaginal wall. And the hands are the pelvic floor muscles that surround the vagina.
The vagina's tightly folded muscle tissue is very elastic, like an accordion or the mouth. Try this: Pull the corners of your mouth out toward your ears then let go. What happens? The mouth immediately snaps back to its pre-stretched state because the tissue is elastic. Do it 100 times. There's no permanent stretching. The mouth quickly returns to its pre-stretched state and no one would ever know you'd stretched it.
The same goes for the vagina, with two exceptions I'll discuss shortly. When it's at rest–all the time except sexual arousal and childbirth–the vagina's muscle tissue remains tightly folded like a closed accordion. Anxiety makes the vaginal musculature clench even tighter. That's why young girls sometimes have problems inserting tampons. Their vaginal muscle tissue is tight and contracted to begin with, and many girls feel anxious about touching themselves and inserting anything, so the muscles contract even tighter.
As women become sexually aroused, vaginal muscle tissue relaxes somewhat. Biologically, this makes perfect sense. Evolution is all about facilitating reproduction. A tight vagina would impede intercourse and reproduction, so women evolved to have sexual arousal relax the vaginal muscles, allowing easier insert
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It's not a myth however it's unlikely because vagina's go back to their original size after sex and approximately the same size after birth.
Sexual activity doesn't play a part. I've been sexually active for years and guys still comment on how tight I am, my vagina's size has not altered. Vaginas are great versatile things.
Women who have loose vaginas got it through a lot of childbirth or it's purely down to genetics.
yes, it goes both ways though. sometimes the woman is really loose (usually from child birth) or the guy is too thin. if you're worried about it, do kegels everyday. actually, just start doing them anyway, their good for overall vagina health. you'll get tighter and should experience better orgasms. (:
Oh I love doing them, every woman should. So loose pussy can never be used as an excuse again lol
lol, great!
i've heard that after childbirth a woman will become more loose down there... but also don't forget that at times its not the vagina which is loose... but the guy's dick who's under average size
That's what I was thinking, lol.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well I know girls who have both problems and I don't think it's related to how much sex they have. Granted, if you engage in risky sexual intercourse (multiple men, stuffing random objects into your lady parts) then yes you're going to damage your vagina.. otherwise I really think it's related to how your body is and some women are too tight, some are too lose, and some are just right ;)
Agreed
Yes. I've had tight ones and loose ones.
The more a vagina has been stretched, the looser it becomes.
Women who have had children tend to have the loosest ones. It can at times be hard to arrive at the station if you know what I mean.
Women who have been the least sexually active tend to have tighter vaginas. Also the fitter the woman, the tighter it tends to be even if she is quite sexually active.
Bigger and taller women also tend to have looser vaginas than smaller and shorter women.
You clearly didn't pass biology in school.
taller women? no! this is ridiculous. and how much sex a woman has had DOESN'T affect how loose she is. only having a baby loosens a vagina.
@thewanderingme and asker I'm speaking from experience of how my penis feels inside the types of women I've mentioned. I can't go by anything other than that.
Not a myth- tightness is a delicacy
That's like saying small penises are a myth. So yes, loose vaginas do exist, and guys do feel a difference.
But is the difference huge enough to where one pussy could turn you into a one minute man and another could have you going for hours?
I'm mainly referring to the extremes. Just like micro penises exist, giant vaginas exist as well.
Well, some guys can go for hours regardless, and frequency of masturbation comes into play. There are other factors, but generally speaking, yes, the difference can be that significant.
yes. after hymen breaks, most vaginas seem loose.
it becomes a wide open tunnel after child birth.
there is nothing like loose vagina. there is only one thing the heat created by it
Like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. you seem very happy with the small D theory here but not so much the other. Iguess that is the answer you want. Heh. If its like this now though, what will it be like after a couple of kids.
Ask any girl who had two kids by vaginal birth.
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