Why do guys like big boobs?

I really hate it and eversince I found that out, it makes me think at least some of my ex es used me because I have big boobs. Now I don't know what to do when it comes to guys. With this and other things, I've had the thought of not dating guys anymore and just sticking with girls. But I believe I found my perfect person now.
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  • Well there are guys like that, I'll be the first to admit that I like big boobs. What is equally true is that I look for a lot more than just a womans breasts size in a relationship. It takes a lot of effort and really trying to understand each other to make a relationship work and I believe that to be true whether your are gay, straight, or bisexual. Having similar interests doesn't hurt obviously you don't need it to match up perfectly but that is something that will help you understand each other.

    Above I said I like big boobs but I like honestly women of many different shapes sizes and colors as well, and I look at many factors when trying to start a relationship. Do we have similar interests, are we able to hold a conversation, and how we feel around each other (are we comfortable with each other). Im sure there are men out there that feel the same way that I do.

    Obviously there has to be an attraction in many cases that may be physical but thats not a bad or unnatural thing, to me is sounds as if who you were dealing with previously was just a shallow person who doesn't understand this and only looked at one part of you.

    There are men/ women that truly care about you or men/women who are just shallow. I wish you luck in finding someone, man or woman, who loves and cherishes everything about you.

    • Thank you. And that sounds better than someone just looking at the breasts

  • I think that it's something natural of the human behiavor, we are mammals after all (and the worst of all mammals)
    The point is that you feel that guys just are atracted to you just for having big breast, too bad but you have bad luck in that case, or maybe you are only with douchebags (i don't know, just some ideas...)

    All humans are physical atracted to the other humans (well, with some exceptions like asexual people)
    Some guys like big breast, some other legs and some other like another guys
    Some girls like big arms, some other like big chests or some other like other girls.

    • You're saying the ones that don't are douchebags?

    • I said that if your ex liked you just for you breast, he may be douchebags, okay that reason make him a douchebag. But my point is that maybe the guys that are near you are douchebags, or the guys that you like are like that, it's some idea that comes to mi mind when you say that guys just likes you because of your breast.

    • Ok I get it now. That could be! And I don't like bad guys and here is an example: my last relationship, I broke up with him because he only wanted sex. He just wanted my boobs and sex. WTF

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  • I personally just find them annoying lumps of fat that weigh people down. However I believe it's because of the organization in men that makes them attracted to the breasts in a sexual context, because the outcome is that it activates the female bonding circuit, making women feel more bonded with him. It's a behavior that males have evolved in order to stimulate the female's maternal bonding circuitry. For example when a woman is breastfeeding, the neurochemical oxytocin, otherwise known as the "love drug," floods her brain, helping to focus her attention and affection on her baby.

    • That's so true! I agree! That's insane and there's only breast milk once you're pregnant. I've never been pregnant before even though I might be now. But there's none until pregnancy and it's just all fat. What's nice about fat?

  • -Titty fucking. Guys are pervs and wanna put their dick all over you. Big boob girls give for more variety of places for their penises.
    -More to grab, lick, play with
    -Visually usually better looking
    -Sign of femininity and fertility.
    -Biology and all that other stuff. You know, milk producing for babies and offspring.

    I don't blame men for preferring big boobs.
    Be happy you have them. You're not gonna disappoint your future partner when you get naked.

    • Oh wow. And the milk growth during pregnancy is the same regardless of the size of them. And no milk until pregnancy. Just blobs of fat. I don't think I need or want this fat. Bigger boobs make it not disappointing where smaller ones do?

    • Yea, but big boobs you don't have to feed as often cuz they can hold more. Yea. Cuz 95% of guys would prefer a girl with big tits. That is the ideal. You have a greater chance of pleasing the man who gets with you. Lots of guys don't really like small boobs but are willing to over look it if they really like the girl.

    • Don't have to feed the baby as often compared to smaller? 95% is a lot. Sometimes I look at my body in the mirror and think how it looks kinda weird with how they are.

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  • Well, I hate to tell you this, but even some women have a fondness for big breasts. I am one of them. I would never date some one solely for that reason and I think it is unfair of you to assume any man who dated you was only with you for that reason.

    • I guess every relationship is different but I know it makes PERFECT sense for my most recent ex. And I don't know what it is exactly but I've always been better with girls. Plus I never experienced it. And now I have someone who fully accepts me and everything about me. Finally.

    • Well only you know. I wish you the best in your new relationship.

    • Yeah, I think that's for a lot of things. Thank you

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  • For me it is not so much the size of the boobs but how much pleasure I can draw from them. I actually perfer smaller breasts as it seem those women have more sensitivity. I love playing with a girls nipples, lightly breathing and nipping at them, causing them to go erect while the girl takes in a breath due to the pleasure.

  • Some guys like the petite girls, too... and 'big' is such a relative term. What is big to someone is average to others...

    • Well my cup size is DDD now and even above a C or something seems too big for me. Different to everyone?

    • I'm a 32DD but mine are bought

    • Bought? Surgery? Mine are natural and someone said it's a big breasts gene that I get from my mom

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  • What makes you think girls don't like big boobs?

    So young and naive, lol...

  • Big boobs = sex appeal MORE TIMES THAN NOT and gets my dick hard so there ya have it,

  • Big boobs to me are really heartwarming & they look really attractive based on how big It. I don't really want the boobs looking too big because I hear that some women having some implants in that area. It's much more perfect only if it's real & medium. I don't really talk about boobs & butts at all through my mouth but think about it inside of my head as well as me looking at a few pictures online. Thing is that I love big booties than big boobs.

    • Like DDD naturally? Too big to me. I hate having them. I wanna cut them off since surgery is so expensive

    • You can say that. But to be serious, I love boobs that looks naturally good but those implants that most women do are a complete turn off. The DDD ones could work for me as long is it's the boobs that God gave you & not what the surgeons has given you. I hope that you can find the sergeon that would help you with this. Good luck on that. By the way, any girl with a naturally perfectly shaped & big booty is a complete turn on for me.

  • Many think the fondness for big boobs is genetics/survival of the fittest. Like how big boobs make for better mothering and reproduction or something like that. But I think it's just that guys like big toys. Personally I stick with tractors. I actually would prefer small boobs over big boobs. But I don't think there's anything wrong with any size. And congrates on finding your perfect person. Hope you two are very happy together (:

    • Crazy but interesting. While pregnant, they get bigger anyways because of the hormones and producing milk for the baby. I've thought of breast reduction surgery cuz I hate having big ones. How it feels and everything. Then that's expensive.

    • I think that whatever size you are, is how god made you and you are perfect that way. And there will always be a guy out there who will love you just the way you are

    • Thank you by the way. We are.

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  • BECAUSE BOOBS!
    show em @linkywinky haha ;P

    • jks jks

    • Bahahah

  • Research previous posts on boobs.. You will learn that a large majority like b's.. B/C average. To consider avoiding guys because you think they all like big boobs is foolish because not all guys do. Thats like saying I ate a burger at one restaurant and didn't enjoy it so I'm never eating a burger ever again at any restaurant.. Over reaction and silly..

  • Guys like boobs in general.
    To be honest I don't see why most of the guys prefer big boobs because from a biologically view small boobs can produce the same amount of milk with big boobs.
    Anyway, I think it is just preference.
    Don't worry not all guys are like that, don't loose hope!
    I really hope the person you found is the perfect one ! :)

    • That's true. It's not all and my sister has one that isn't that way. That's just one of the things. Must be a preference of some or something. The person I'm gonna be with sometime soon fully accepts me and everything about me. Finally. Plus makes me feel so great and happy and smile a lot which I have experienced with no one before

    • Im so happy for you, not all guys are (luckily) the same!♥

    • Thank you and yes that's true

  • It's actually human nature. Big breasts are a sign of fertility so it gives off a certain pheromone, causing guys to be attracted to them. Guys are also more attracted to girls who are on their periods for the same reason.

    • Oh wow. People who have big boobs are more fertile? And periods have those hormones,

    • Well I don't know if they are actually more fertile but the bigger they are the more pheromones the give off

  • Why do girls like abs and muscles? it's evolution... i never get why girls ask these questions

    • It's a crazy question?

    • it's just an overly obvious question. It's like asking why women are attracted to men with penises or with muscles...

    • Seriously? Oh my never thought of it that way

  • i don't know they are lactating bags of fat i don't get why guys think they're hot. some worry i know a guy that for a while in 8th grade some guy just wanted to date me because of my boobs

    • Yeah, it's all fat because there's no milk until pregnancy. I don't get it either. I hate when that happens.

  • guys just like boobs in general. big ones are just more showy.
    My gf has smaller boobs but they match her body perfectly, i would have them no other way.

    I'm sorry that you feel you were used. I have met many guys who are VERY good at being assholes in sheeps clothing. (Don't trust the wingman either.). So be careful, but don't shut yourself in over it. there are decent guys out there!

    (Sharing nudes, bragging about tits/ass, and bragging about cheating are all common in some circles I've been part of in the past.*)

    • Totally crazy

  • You're gonna try and become gay because you have big boobs? What if lesbian/bisexuality women like yours boobs too?

    You can't just give up on dating people because you think they're just after your boobs.

    • I mean, I am bi but more on the lesbian side. But I've never experienced it with girls. And I tend to feel better around girls. I say it because if it's because of my boobs then it's lust which gets me nowhere.

    • OK, I gotcha. I can understand that.

    • Yeah. Lust really isn't good and gets you nowhere. Just bad, relationships that aren't worth it, it's a waste. And they say with love, the physical part is one component of it but it's not crazy or anything. But just lust and no actual love or anything else?

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  • basically i like all boobs sizes as long as they're natural!

    • No plastic surgery haha

    • Yes, natural!

  • Size doesn't matter much as long as they are nice and round in my opinion. But if you must know why most guys like somewhat big boobs, it is because it suggests fertility.

    • Round? Fertility?

    • Yep. It suggests your ability to feed and care for a child. I don't want children, but no matter how much i despise children, it cannot override my human instincts to search for a fertile mate.

    • So if I had smaller ones whether it was natural or a breast reduction surgery, I would be less fertile and not as able to have and care for a baby?

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  • I don't! :D B-Cups to small C-Cups, please!!! :D Small boobies are more typical of petite/thin women and that's what I like, too. ;D

  • fun to lick, squeeze, press my face between. plus i just like how they look

    • Interesting.

  • Not a given that all men like big boobs, I personally prefer smaller chests.

  • If I didn't know guys outside of GaG I'd think that guys hated girls with big boobs lmao

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