My new girlfriend and I had a threesome. Did she get jealous? Normally she is very attention seeking and why is she behaving like this? HELP?

[Anonymous]

Long story, see the UPDATE PLS!!

1.) I meet a great girl (A) at a nearby uni who I start to date and I spend my first time with. We really hit it off. After 1 year at uni, (A) then is going on an exchange for 18 months as part of her course. It's hard, I really miss her. But after talking about it, we decide to stay in touch as friends.
2.) During my 2nd yr, befriend another girl (B) at halls when I meet new people. She is an attention seeker, but I don't mind her. I think she likes that about me. She is hot (not as much as A), but I hear she has a long distance bf. Despite this she is very flirty with me? She tends to grind with other friends at clubs. At halls, she puts her feet on my lap and TOUCHES MY CROTCH at a party. I feel really aroused, but don't try anything. Later she tells me whether she should break up with her bf, I just say to do what she feels is right.
3.) 6 months later, B is single and suggestively touches me. I feel turned on when she asks me about a relationship. I don't like her in the same way as (A), but feel aroused, so agree to be bf and gf.
4.) I do find her very fun and it feels dirty to have sex with B. She knows I am less experienced than her and that I find her wild. I also give her attention and am kind to her.
5.) New girls arrive at halls, including C. She's really cute and I get on well with her. She becomes B's buddy in Spanish soc.
6.) On a night out, B grinds some random friend of hers and is clearly posing for pictures. I tell her I feel hurt. She panics and wants to make it up to me. For Valentine's day she dresses up real sexy and gives me my first head. I find it so hot and she likes how it turns me on.
7.) She still wants to make it up to me as I feel upset about how she gets jealous of me talking to any girl, yet she almost made out with a guy. She suggests a threesome with her friend D for my birthday.

Continued on.. UPDATE FOR THE POINTS 8 and 9!! See below pls!!

Why is she jealous of C, of A and of F?

She is an attention seeker. Wait for A, or ask out C or F. You deserve better than B. She is a terrible friend who teased you.

B loves attention and wants you as a backup. She's not a true gf. Even if you can't be with A, C or F, don't stay with B. Break up with this narcissist.

Break up with her. Request B's help to meet F who she was trying to block you with. If she is not a true friend, end the frienddship as well.

Request her to go through with the threesome properly and then break up with her.

B has every right to be upset even though she was trying to seduce you when she had a bf, and was acting like a harlot when she made your hers. Stay with her until you meet someone. She had a right to block you meeting F even though you were single.

Updates

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I have met D, one of B’s RANDOM friends, and clearly she is not as attractive as B and I don’t want to do it. But I say yes, if it’s with C. B hesitates, but then agrees. B, C and I go out for drinks with some others on the night, then B tells me C might not want to. When pressed, she admits SHE HAS NOT ASKED C and whilst touching my crotch says that some other girl E who is here might be up for it. I don’t like E either and want C. Eventually B says ok and goes to ask C who agrees! THREESOME:

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+1 y

It literally feels epic. B and C started to kiss, and then kiss me and it felt great. B then starts giving me head, knowing how I love it when she does that. C joins in and I feel like I’m in heaven with a double bj. It gets WILD with B and C taking turns to have sex with me. C makes out with me and I LOVE IT. She gets me off with her feet near the end and I started moaning for her. I’m about finish and then looking at B she panics and says she has to go. B seems insecure the next day?

[Anonymous]

Honestly it seems like B is obviously in it because you feed her ego and she looooves it! She just wants to have fun with you and random people. But because you give her that extra boost she wants you as her boyfriend. I mean I could be wrong but from this perspective that's what it seems like. She wants things her way. And it's unfair if she gets jealous but you have to bite your tongue and take her shit? You mentioned she looked or seemed insecure? You are the person that's kind to her and feeds her security. Another reason why she keeps you around. she sounds like a complicated person!

[Asker]

I know right?

I feel so confused. With my first gf, it wasn't like this. The thing is when I became single, I met B and we were friends. I asked her about this girl I liked on her course, and she deliberately told me that the girl was not nice. I met her recently and she is!! So was B manipulating me? This was when B was with someone else.

She eventually seduced me then, but I withstood it. When she became single, she did it again and I was so aroused I agreed to go for an exclusive relationship with her. But I felt so upset at how she was flirting with others so openly.

The thing is she gives me really good head that is out of this world. I feel so turned on when she does that it's like nothing else.

When she offered me a threesome as an apology, it was hot. I don't feel like B is the one, but I don't know what to do?

[Asker]

She seems to want me to be exclusive, but mess about herself.

And when she offered the threesome as an apology, she ruined it at the end by staring at the other girl to leave?

What should I do? I can't stop masturbating about B. I haven't spoken to her for two days now as she told me she doesn't want me to speak to other girls including my ex who is a friend. Yet she talks to any guy?

She texted me saying she wants to give me another threesome as an apology?

I would like to have a double bj from her and a hot girl, but I don't know why she doesn't like to see me make out with someone, yet offer it?

[Asker]

Also sorry, why did she block me meeting that other girl? B was taken, I asked for her help as my friend and she lied.

Even now, she doesn't feel guilty about it?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah she does sound pretty controlling! Wants things her way :/. And probably picked unattractive girls for the 3 some so you wouldn't be feeling them. Hmm let's see. Do you want a committed relationship this point in your life?

[Opinion Owner]

Sex is the perfect tool to use someone. Every time she messes up she uses that against you. She knows your urges and knows you'd want that!
She's distracting you away from the real problems q

[Asker]

Yes I see your point about the unattractive ones. Is this why she is jealous of the girl on her course (let's call her F) who I thought was pretty and liked her personality?

B has no guilt about having stopped me meeting F despite the fact that B was already taken and I was single and she was supposed to be a friend.

In terms of committed, I was with my first gf A. The trouble was A went on a sabbatical course which is for almost 2 years so we decided to break up and stay friends. If it was F, I would be ready for commitment.

With B, I agreed to an exclusive sex based relationship. I mean I don't like her personality like A or F.

The thing is has B been playing me? She jerks me off and gets me to say her name each time. And she knows I love her giving me head. With the threesome, she has offered it again.. should I agree and ask for a girl of my choice?

Is it a trick? Why if I am angry about B, do I still masturbate to her if I prefer F?

[Asker]

Thoughts?

[Asker]

What do you think?

[Asker]

She's offered me a threesome again with another girl who looks similar to her?

[Asker]

So what should I do? And how to meet F if I need B's help?

[Mustachekitteh]

Yeah dump B's ass. Everything you said about her is a major red flag. Also try talking more to A. Even if she's far away there is always Skype. I'm in a LDR and Skype makes very easy for us to talk everyday. He's also studying in college but in another country. Just seems like your only interested in A and the rest seem like something you would be trying to fill that void.

[Asker]

I guess. I mean I do like F. Thing is B lied about her and so I didn't meet her earlier. Could I pursue F? I didn't get her number the other day and am now regretting it! It was at a random uni networking meeting. I would love to meet her, but she's in a separate area of the campus. B knows this because she is on the same course.

Why did B lie - isn't that selfish?

Why does B also keep coming into my head giving me head? I feel so angry at her, yet love to masturbate about her? I would rather think about F.

Thoughts?

[Asker]

B also just offered me another threesome?

[Mustachekitteh]

Ignore B try to pretend she doesn't exsist. I would go for which ever girl you have more feelings toward. So far it doesn't sound like you should get in a relationship. Just tell all the girls straight up u don't want a relationship until you sort out ur feelings for each one. Just work on getting to know each girl ex B. Again he is really bad news, only into herself, doesn't care about others really, and just avoid at all costs.

[Asker]

B seems really keen to keep me as her backup. Also she seems adamant to stop me meeting F? She actually doesn't feel guilty for having stopped me meeting F (even though B was taken at the time and F and I were single?)

Why is B offering me a threesome again? She messed up the last one, because when the other girl was giving me a bj, I liked it?

I am interested in asking out F, if I break up with B.

But for some reason, I can't get B out of my head giving me head? Is this what she wanted? Has she conditioned me to think about her? She used to talk nonsense and I gave her attention, then she would give me a bj and get me off if I moaned her name?

[Mustachekitteh]

B sounds like a really bad addiction like when people get addicted to meth. As in it's ruining your health but you can't seem to find the will to stop doing it. The only thing B will ever be able to offer you is confusion, sabotage any bond with others, no trust, and pain. Trying to be with anyone like her never ends well at all because they don't truly care about you. They only care about dominating/using you to feed their petty ego. Plus she might go to great lengths to ruin things for you with other women. I would be scared of how far she will go. As in she might become a sociopath and trying to cause pain for the chicks you try to talk to. Honestly from how she sounds I wouldn't put it past her. She's doing a good job of manipulating you into doing what she wants. Just sounds like all she wants is total control over you.

[Asker]

You do have a point. Has B been trying to keep me aroused by her? I mean I literally love how she gives me head.

I just feel so confused. I'm angry at her hypocrisy but I find her like some dirty pleasure?

She just offered me another threesome to make up for everything. She has suggested a girl who looks like her?

I don't know whether to break up with her? I kinda like how she touches me?

But I prefer F in my head? It's just that B seems to have messed up with who my loins get excited for? I've been avoiding her for a few days and ended up masturbating about her and moaning her name?

[Asker]

Forgot to mention also that during the last time she was trying to hog me. During the double bj, she was trying to edge out C. And it was when C was really into it, that B intimidated her to leave?

[Mustachekitteh]

You need a serious mental detoxification from her, lol. Reject the 3 some. Also if she keeps pushing herself on you. Tell her no and keep saying no. Doesn't matter what she does just say no. If she starts to snap and get extremely angry to psychotic level that probably would help you not want anything to do with her. She sounds like a women who can't handle it if someone says no to her. Be extremely honest about all the negative aspects of her and see how she reacts. Also I think you trying to get with any girl is a bad idea. You sound so badly brained washed by B's sexual nature and actions that you might end up cheating on anyone you would try to get with. Again it sounds like your having a really strong bad addiction to something that is corrupting your mind. All that is left is to ask you "what do you truly want? Are you wanting someone who makes you mentally happy not sexually? Do you want to keep letting things with B going on till it hits the breaking point and you lose yourself in a bad way?

[Asker]

The thing is I wouldn't cheat on anyone. I had a grameay first gf A. I'm not like B lol.

I just wish I had met F, B lied about her when B still had a bf.

I wouldn't mind a threesome with B and this other girl. She's like a twin of B lol. I do tell her no, it's just when she runs her foot up to my crotch when we're at dinner or gives me head.. she knows how to please me?

I don't mind being with her if F is taken. But F is single. I'd rather date F, but unsure why I still think about B? Also I feel so in need of being sucked off by B? Even though she is at fault here. But she wants to make up for it by giving me a birthday treat?

[Asker]

I do want someone like A who I find hot and personally like. I find B someone I like to bang tho?

[Mustachekitteh]

I just meant that with how badly B has you wrapped around her finger sexually. It would seem like you wouldn't be able to think if she touches you in certain parts.

It doesn't sound like you truly want to get rid of B just because of what she does for you sexually. How do you know if F can't do the same and if better than B? Have you ever given that a thought that F might do better things for you mentally and sexually?

Honestly do what ever you can to get pass B and try talking, getting to know, and hand out with F. Who knows if you end up really falling for F she might be able to take you to higher pleasure states than B ever could. Deeply loving someone emotionally makes anything sexual 100 times more pleasurable and intense. Don't praise B so much and actually try to give F a chance.

[Asker]

I agree! I wanted F in the first place. B lied about F so we didn't meet before. B knows F. Trouble is that I don't have F's number. I'm not on her course (B is) so how do I meet her again? I met her randomly at a uni open day, we were hitting it off, then we got separated?

I agree I prefer F and also think she would take me to new mental and sexual heights. So how do I meet her - atm my only choice seems to be to ask B for help in meeting her?

And how to stop liking getting off about B?

[Mustachekitteh]

DO NOT ASK B! That would be the worst thing possible because then she would know what your up to. Then probably ruin things with you ever getting to know F. Your going to have to try and sneak around B at all costs.

Do you know what classes F takes? If so when do they end?

[Asker]

She's not on my course. That's the trouble! Was this all planned by B? So I was to be her backup by keeping me from F?

And then eventually B seduced me to commit to her?

How do I sneak round her? Why do I find the thought of B giving me a bj so hot?

B sent me a text of her in a hot nurse outfit and said let her take care of me and she wants to apologize?

[Mustachekitteh]

here PM me

[Asker]

Thing is I am happy to go with F and ask her out if I see her. She's who I wanted in the first place!

I turned down B's sexual advances earlier (when she was taken) It was cos I was single and lonely when she became free I went with her or was she slowly seducing me over time?

Can I not ask her for help? Or how to work round her?

Why do I find it hot to masturbate about her?

[Mustachekitteh]

naw you can ask here just figured it would be easier in just messaging.

B sound like a very manipulative person from the start so I wouldn't doubt it if she was just seducing you to feed her ego.

Have other women try to make you feel sexually wanted and pleasured in the same way B does?

[Asker]

A did when we were together.

C did during the threesome B offered me as an apology (and C was giving me a bj and I was loving it) that's when B got jealous and intimidated her to leave.

F was flirting with me, but it was in public, so it wasn't touching my crotch or anything like B keeps doing. I really like F and feel attracted to her.

With B it seems purely sexual desire? Even that seems to have only heightened after she put her feet on me all that time ago before we went out.

Now I keep thinking about the way she gives me head? I just love it? But I don't like her behavior?

Why is she offering me a threesome again?

[Mustachekitteh]

She is probably offering it again to make you forgive her. Most likely the same thing will happen again as in she would chase the other chick off. Not sure if she won't due to the fact that they both look a like.

No what I meant was has any other women who's done sexual stuff to you like B does. But y'all were both alone without B in the room at all.

I'm thinking that you might be so into B sexually because you've never had another chick to do the same thing or even close to it. In that case I would go out to a bar and just pick up a random chick and see if that might could flush B out of your head?

[Asker]

Good point. I mean I am angry at her having lied about F. I think she sensed that and offered this immediately.

No one has done this type of stuff. B was the first one to give me head. I liked flirting with F and felt a better connection to her. I was too nervous to get her number at the time. Really want to meet her again. Trouble is B is the only one I know on that course.

I think you're right in that that's why I find B sexually attractive. THe thing is even when she was taken and doing this to me, I found it quite arousing. Since then she has focussed on those things - her feet and sucking her fingers to get me aroused.

[Asker]

The other thing was she's gradually been changing from submissive to dominant? She used to get on her knees and now she wants me to kneel before her and finish on her feet? I mean I have to say I wouldn't mind having a threesome with B and a lookalike. She texted me saying that I could 'finish on two B's'. I think she might have conditioned me to get off about her? I find it hard to think about F and B comes into my mind more easily? I miss B giving me head right now?

[Mustachekitteh]

Does B have any other friends that also know F as well? Maybe try to talk to them to see if they will give you her number or something?

Honestly if your so hung up on B giving you head then it doesn't seem like you truly want to get rid of her. There is only so much advice I can give. Either you give up on both B and F and start over fresh with a new girl. Or keep being B's little bitch. Which you sound sexually happy being submissive to B.

[Asker]

No I agree with you! I like B giving me head, but I don't like being submissive to HER or under her control. It is literally her sucking me off that I like. I don't really find her hot in the bedroom otherwise.

I prefer F and just want to meet her instead. The other person doesn't know her. B is the one our age who knows her. F is one year older. I don't know how to meet her?

I really need a party so I can meet her casually. I think we hit it off last time. It was at a uni open day and we were representing our courses. Unfortunately I got called to go and help with something and by the time I got back, their stall had changed people! I need to meet F again, I think she liked me and I just need one more shot as I forgot (out of nerves) to ask for her number.

Thoughts?

[Mustachekitteh]

Maybe have a guy friend that B doesn't know at. To go up to her and ask her for F's number? That way you could get honest information about F without B knowing it's for you instead?

[Asker]

You know what, I actually tried this. B seemed to get jealous even when they asked about F, let alone for her number. Apparently she may have jealousy issues? I heard from this guy that B said "Oh god, everyone fancies her! What's so special about her? "

I know two other girls who know of F, but don't know her to make an introduction or to tell me where to be at what time to bump into her. That's the trouble.

I think B doesn't like how F is prettier than her, and since F is not attention seeking, much nicer. See F is my type of girl, not B.

Advice?

[Mustachekitteh]

Doesn't matter if they don't know her well enough to make an interaction. They can tell F that you wanted to get to know her better.

I think B does know F is prettier than her. So she doesn't want to admit it. Which is why she feels so extremely jealous. If B and F are actually friends B is putting up a good act with F.

I would seriously talk to those other girls to try to ask F if she would give u her number.

[Asker]

I'd rather meet F and ask her myself tbh. And those two friends don't seem to know F that well at all. They just have met her on the corridor that's all. Tbh, they weren't that helpful. They suggested B introduce me (that was when B was with her bf and I was single) and B just said "She's not his type" and changed the subject suddenly?

I think B is jealous for sure. But she seems to be the only person (that I know) with at least some relationship with F. I think she was her team mate for some coursework once.

Thing is I really find F the whole package. in my opinion she is so hot and I like her personality. She's genuinely nice. With B, I don't find her that hot. It's after she suggestively touched me in these ways that I started to masturbate about her whilst she was unavailable and then agreed to be with her later on when she was free. She seems to have manipulated me this whole time with F!!

Why do I still fantasize about B and what to do?

[Mustachekitteh]

Do you know what classes F takes?

Also I think your not actually into B personally. Your crazy about the thought of just something sexual like that happening. I remember when I first started getting into relationships. I ended up later noticing that I never fully loved the guy I was with. I was more into the idea about a relationship not the reality of it. So your more into the pleasure that comes with those sexual acts than the person who's giving it to you.

[Asker]

I only know her course. It is vastly different to mine, different buildings, modules, etc. Unfortunately it is arranged differently - they have smaller classes whereas my course has hundreds of people in one massive lecture theater.

I would love to meet F so much! You may be right about B. I don't really like her and in fact find her controlling attention seeking ways downright terrible. But for some reason I seem to have some soft spot for her? Why is it I can't bring myself to tell her not to do those things?

I also like how B touches me and listens to me when I'm stressed. I keep thinking about her giving me a bj?

[Mustachekitteh]

It's due to the pleasure you feel when she does it. Maybe your not wanting that pleasure feeling to end?

Also if you know the building F is in. Then go to the most popular part of the building. Like a sitting area and stay there the whole day basically and see if you can spot her. No that isn't creepy stalking. It's just because you options of finding her are very restricted.

[Asker]

That's a good point about F. I mean I would be willing to give up a day of lectures to meet her. The trouble is even though it's a smaller building, it's still like a needle in a haystack. She may not have her classes that day. But I feel so lost and defeated and it seems wrong that B gets her way.

I'm not a bad guy, I don't cheat and just want a caring relationship with someone I connect with.

I know, i must admit I love the feeling, but for some reason, B doing it is very hot and when i masturbate, it's about her doing it?

How to meet F? And what to do about the masturbating about B?

[Mustachekitteh]

Ok when your masturbating try to replace B with F and imagine F is the one doing all of that to you.

You said B and F are the same course right? Do you know if they are in the same class together? Try to be indirect when asking B about which classes she takes and who all she hangs out during the class?

[Asker]

F is a year older, but they were in some class together. I've tried to ask, but B talks about a few eccentric friends only. I feel so sad I don't know unless I'm lucky how to meet F?

In terms if the fantasies, I do try. It's hard to visualize since I only have one memory of F and it was not overtly touchy. It was lovely and felt so butterfly like!

But the thought of B giving me a bj is so arousing and overpowering?

[Mustachekitteh]

Does F use Facebook or anything? Maybe she is friends with B on there?

Then I would stalk the building you know she goes to for classes. Do it on days your able to have the entire day free. So go on random days. Keep looking for F. That seems like your best shot at finding her.

[Mustachekitteh]

Extreme times call for extreme measures. lol

[Asker]

I think you might be right! Is there no other way right? May have to have a lot of coffee in the cafe!

[Mustachekitteh]

If you truly want to get to know F it seems like the only way. I wish you the best of luck on it. :)

[Asker]

Right will start next week. Thanks, fingers crossed. I feel so sad. I want to meet F, but B has stalled my efforts. I don't know what to do and their course building is alien territory. For all I know F isn't even at uni on some days.

Why do I keep getting horny seeing B's picture? I masturbated about her last night. Is this what B wanted? Is it ok to still fantasize about B?

Does B win?

[Mustachekitteh]

So far it does seem like B is winning. You need to try and not think about her at all when masturbating. Try to find some other picture of a chick. Or watch p*rn .

[Asker]

I erm tried but ended up imagining a p*rnstar lookalike was her..

I did enjoy a different one though. Also I do get horny seeing a different female on my own course.

But how to stop feeling majorly horny when seeing B?

[Mustachekitteh]

Smack yourself every time you think of her? Sometimes if you associate something negative it makes you not want to have anything to do with it.

[Asker]

The thing is it feels soooo good when I see her picture and start masturbating about her. I almost want the feeling to continue. But when it comes to finishing, there is no way I want to release to her? Does that make sense?

What does that mean?

[Mustachekitteh]

It does make sense but still you need to build up stronger will power to not want to just feel pleasure by seeing her.

[Asker]

Ok. It's just atm it's become almost like the go to fantasy to masturbate to as it is such a super turn on?

Is it my body not wanting her and that's why I seem to be happy to get happy and get off about her, but not have an orgasm about her?

[Mustachekitteh]

That last part as a little confusing, lol. My brain is having trouble thinking atm XD

[Asker]

No problem, I'm also confused! I meant that, well if I see her picture and I feel horny, then I start to masturbate about her and it starts to feel good to imagine her doing the things she did. Then as I progress it feels even hotter. But when it comes to the moment of reaching orgasm or finishing, I somehow don't want to think about B.

Does that mean something that deep down I don't want her? Also she has been quite silly with some statements she made about a personal issue. I think instead of having a go at her, I held back. Is that why I keep thinking about her being submissive to me?

[Mustachekitteh]

In that case yeah i think that might mean you don't honestly like her enough to want to cum.

[Asker]

That's good then right? Phew. I don't really want to like her.

But why do I find it hot to get off about her and get horny, then don't want to cum about her?

[Mustachekitteh]

Well it's easy to want to feel the pleasure but cumming for guys. I would think some guys would have standards to who they would allow their cum to be inside or to cause them to do it.

[Asker]

That's good right?

So does that mean deep down, some part of me doesn't want her if I don't want to cum about her?

I mean for instance, I find cumming about F or this other girl or a celebrity pleasurable. But not B? But then why does B arouse me quicker? I mean I don't want to cum about B. So that's a good sign?

[Asker]

Thoughts?

[Mustachekitteh]

Because B has actually done that to you physically. So now the pleasurable feeling is stuck in your mind. But your logical part of your brain doesn't want to give in to cumming since you know how much you don't actually like her as a person. For women when trying to orgasm they can rub down there and feel all the pleasure but if they aren't mentally into it or the person they are thinking about. They will never reach an amazing orgasm. So I assume it's it's the same for you.

[Asker]

Ah right I see. I see your point about a woman fantasizing. So I guess in my situation, it means I am free? I don't actually like her then?

I mean I ended up masturbating about her again imagining it was her looking back at me.. it feels hot, but I didn't want to cum about her.

So I guess I don't desire her?

[Mustachekitteh]

Yeah I would say that you don't any desires for her.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[Red_Arrow]

The poll basically is this:
A) B is bad, break up with her
B) B is bad, break up with her
C) B is bad, break up with her, and then stupidly ask her to help you with F
D) B is bad, trick her into another 3-sum and then break up with her
E) B was not bad even though she was bad.

I think the correct answer is:
F) Asker is trying to fuck A or C or D or F and is pissed that B won't help him do that, so he is on here whining and can't understand why everyone is telling him he is wrong.

Ding ding ding - -0 F is the correct answer!

[Asker]

So you don't think that:
1) When B had a bf, touching my crotch with her feet was not wrong?
2) When B had a bf, and was my friend, lying about F's personality to stop us meeting was not wrong?
3) When B became single, still feeling me up to seduce me whilst stopping me meeting other girls was not wrong?
4) When B wants me to commit to an exclusive sex based relationship, yet openly grinds other people in public, but doesn't want me to even talk to other girls on campus, that's not wrong?
5) When B offers me a 3some to placate me, lies about one girl's availability because she is also hot, that's not wrong? Then she messes it up, that's not wrong?
6) When B offers no apology for having lied about F when I was single, that's not wrong?
7) When B gets me off and seems to want to condition me to have strong desire for her so I find it difficult to think about others, and so not break up with her, that's not wrong?

How is B not bad here?

[Red_Arrow]

I did not judge B one way or the other. But you made a phony poll where basically every answer was B was bad, so no one can give you the correct answer which is you were wrong and are making it sound as if B was bad. But since you asked: B's boyfriend was long distance and may not have been exclusive. As for F, I can't even find an F in your epic drama. I have no idea if B lied about anything because it appears you interpret lots of things the way you want, not how they are.

[Asker]

Lol I summarized it clearly for you in 8 points and you still don't seem to get it. How am I at fault? B had a bf. I did NOT do anything. She did. I ignored her. Only when she was single, did I accept it.

But then even only because she LIED about F being a bitch. When in fact F was a great girl and B is a bitchy attention seeker.

Pls read the 8 points and tell me if you agree?

[Asker]

Lol... Ding ding ding, Red_Arrow doesn't actually know anything?

[Red_Arrow]

Wrong. Red_Arrow got tire of talking to a moron.

[Asker]

And then came here to tell me that?

Lol

Why post if you clearly are not providing any helpful information? Thanks for nothing!

Ding ding ding - Red_Arrow is not only unhelpful, but also obnoxious!

[Red_Arrow]

I only came here because your asinine comment called me here. I can't argue about obnoxious because you are the expert. One suggestion for you... Get a life!

[Frost_Byt3]

All i can say is that its kinda fucked up that you are cheating on A when you are still technically dating (unless you officially broke up). And by the way B is a whore. She cheated on her oast bf with you, now she is cheating on you with random men- she is a whore.

But then again, you my friend, are just as bad as B. Maybe you two deserve eachother

[Asker]

Forgot the last part:
B now doesn’t want C to talk to me according to C. B and I also fight about a HOT GIRL (F) I asked her about when I was single who is on her course, and who B said wasn’t my type and I met recently and is really nice! Also B is having a go at me for being friends with my ex A (my great gf). B also doesn’t like it when I say a girl on my course is pretty. I’ve had enough!

THOUGHTS?

[Asker]

A and I officially broke up. I would NEVER cheat!!! We agreed that we would split and we are single when she returns we might get together again. We stay in touch as friends. I much prefer A over B that's for sure!! But I like C and especially F, the latter who B told me wasn't a good person, yet I met her and she is!!

[Frost_Byt3]

Tell B that she is being a MAJOR hypocrit because she flirts with guys all the time. If she apologizes and stops flirting, stay with her. If she gets mad or denies it, break up with her. Then go talk to C and F and see which one you like better and pursue them.

[Asker]

I know that's what I said right!

I told her that and she didn't say anything. She said that's why she offered me a threesome. But in my opinion she ruined that by essentially making the other girl leave mid way through. I then questioned why she lied about F when I was single and she was taken. She went pink at that one. I told her that she can't manipulate my life, it's wrong.

I mean I don't want to cheat, and since I agreed to be with her, have stuck with her. I really miss my ex girlfriend now. I prefer girls like her which F is like. I am considering breaking up with B for F.

B said she wants to make it up to me. She is even offering me another threesome? What is she playing at?

[Asker]

Also who is she to tell me not to be friends with my ex gf, who is a great person. B agreed our relationship would be primarily based on sex, but exclusive. She seems to have attention issues and wants me to just hang about and not be with anyone else, but for her to be free?

[Frost_Byt3]

If i were you, i would break it off with B entirely. Who knows? Maybe she will learn her lesson and you can take her back someday.

But in the meantime, you should examine all of your options- A, C, and F. At least talk to C as well as F, so you can count both of them in as options. Don't worry about A until she gets back. Focus on C and F right now. Talk to both, choose one and pursue her. Form a relationship, and when A comes back, if you like her better dump F/C, but if not stay with F/C. Good luck

[Asker]

That's a thought yeah. The thing is I really liked A. I do like F, I must say. She's just like A.

In terms of C, it was mainly physical. It's the same with B tho. We don't really click personally. She tried to seduce me when still had a bf as well (she didn't tell me that she did).

But when she sucked her finger, she got me hooked. I mean I masturbated about her giving me head yesterday. It's unreal how horny I get with her. That's why I'm struggling with what to do. I prefer F, but am struggling to fantasize about her and am worried about asking her out as I am out of touch with that?

But is B trying to keep me as a backup or condition me?

The last time we did it, at the end, she was getting me off and wanted me to keep repeating her name as she did it?

[Asker]

Thoughts?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Are you cheating on A? And B sounds like trouble. I'd break up with her if I were you. But it seems lots of guys like trouble/dramatic women.

[Asker]

No way! I would never cheat on A. A is on a long sabbatical abroad. She started that at the beginning of the term. She won't be back for just over a year now. We agreed to break up and stay friends. I really liked her and she was my first. I feel so sad. I think because I didn't meet someone like her, I stayed single for ages.

I met B after a while. She had been trying to touch me up a lot, even when she was taken. B does seem a bit of an attention seeker. The thing is she wanted an exclusive sex based relationship, to which I agreed (after she was single). But she seems to want to flirt around and still have me as a committed guy who can't be friends with other girls?
B now doesn’t want C to talk to me. B and I also fight about a HOT GIRL (F) I asked her about when I was single who is on her course, and who B said wasn’t my type and I met recently and is really nice! Also B is having a go at me for being friends with my ex A (my great gf).

Thoughts?

[Asker]

P. S. It's all in the update, and B seemed to make C panic and leave at the end of it.

What do you think of all of this?

[Asker]

What to do about B and also F?

[Asker]

Thoughts pls?

[Editor]

Dude...

Women view all other women as competition. If you're with a woman who willingly shares you with another woman, neither one cares about you.

[Asker]

I think she was doing it to keep me thinking about her tho. I mean she has been flirting with me even when she was not single. Was she just using me?

Also forgot the last part:

B now doesn’t want C to talk to me according to C. B and I also fight about a HOT GIRL (F) I asked her about when I was single who is on her course, and who B said wasn’t my type and I met recently and is really nice! Also B is having a go at me for being friends with my ex A (my great gf). B also doesn’t like it when I say a girl on my course is pretty. I’ve had enough!

THOUGHTS?

[Editor]

Quit playing around with the alphabet or you'll only go out with H, A, N, and D.

[Asker]

Sorry, I was just trying to make it quicker to type, but I see it can be confusing.

A= my first girlfriend who I really liked. We are friends - she is on a sabbatical for another 18 months abroad. So we are just friends now (have broken up but stay in touch).
B = current gf who flirted with me even when she had a bf and I was single.
C = new girl at halls. She's in a society with B.
D and E = some random friend of B

F = a girl I liked after I broke up with A. I asked B (who was my friend at the time) about her, and B dismissed her as not being my type. She told me she wasn't nice. Yet I met her recently and she is awesome?

Thoughts on all of this? B doesn't want me to speak to my old gf on Skype or to speak to C. She was stunned when I confronted her about lying about F.

B asked for an exclusive, sex based relationship, yet wants to have me as a committed backup and do whatever she wants?

[Bandit74]

I'd you keep fucking your way down the alphabet you might get an STD.

[Asker]

Lol I did that to keep the people anon. Probably could have made it clearer though.

Look I had a girlfriend a year ago. We stay friends now, but have broken up as she is on a sabbatical.

The new girl has been trying to seduce me or have me as a backup for a while. She was a new friend. I asked her about a girl I like on a course, and she deliberately stopped me meeting that girl. I only relented to this friend when she was single, and that also for an exclusive sex based relationship.

Now as my gf, she seems to want me to be a committed bf or backup whilst not practicing the same?

Understand?

[Asker]

In terms of her being touchy with other people and then offering me this as an apology and messing it up what do you think?

Also she doesn't want me talking to my old girlfriend (the good one), to the new girl I like on her course who she lied about being a bad person, to the threesome participant or to any other girl for that matter. Yet she is allowed to go and be touchy with other guys?

Thoughts? She has offered me the threesome again or is this her way of just keeping me with her and away from other girls?

[Asker]

Lol just came in for a joke? It was good i'll give you that. An opinion would have been nice tho.

[GirlsLie]

"I'd you keep fucking your way down the alphabet you might get an STD."

This made me laugh out loud haha

[Bandit74]

@GirlsLie
thanks :)

[Asker]

Made me laugh too.

Why do you think B does this tho? Is it to keep me as a backup?

[Bandit74]

dude I've never had a girlfriend so I really don't know. Your best bet is to just ask her why she's acting weird.

[rockaholic]

Oooh man what the hell is this? is this a question or what... tell me your question in few simple words please so i can give you a perfect advice...

[Asker]

Agreed, the question is in the update tbh. Sorry, it ran out of words!

[rockaholic]

Of course she will seem insecure.. she's jealous.. and the Threeway is a very bad idea... would you agree your girlfriend having a MFM Threeway? i don't think so

[Asker]

Forgot the last part:
B now doesn’t want C to talk to me according to C. B and I also fight about a HOT GIRL (F) I asked her about when I was single who is on her course, and who B said wasn’t my type and I met recently and is really nice! Also B is having a go at me for being friends with my ex A (my great gf). B also doesn’t like it when I say a girl on my course is pretty. I’ve had enough!

THOUGHTS?

[Asker]

So B is at fault isn't she?

The threeway was her suggestion to make it up to me for being very slutty when she is out and even at uni!

[rockaholic]

Let me get this.. you girlfriend get jealous when you fuck other girls.. seems unfair..

[rockaholic]

Seems to be her fault...

[Asker]

What do you think then?

Should I break up with her? I mean she's not like my first gf.

[Asker]

She wanted an exclusive sex based relationship to which I agreed. Now she seems to want to be allowed to do whatever, but have me as a committed backup who can't talk to anyone?

[Asker]

Also is she trying to keep me conditioned? Last time we did it, she was getting me off and asking me to repeat her name each time?

[rockaholic]

Yes she wants to do a threeway again

[rockaholic]

Bad thing bro

[Asker]

What should I do, go along with the threesome? I

And what about the saying her name thing, what is she playing at?

[rockaholic]

Yes... go along with it... enjoy and think about her

[Asker]

Thing is I feel like she has been manipulating me the whole time. She stopped me meeting this other girl F when I was single, so that she could keep me as a backup?

It's so messed up. Also this threesome business, she only suggests friends of hers I don't even like to talk to, let alone want. I am happy for C to rejoin us, and have suggested that. She seems to be hesitating.

I find it incredible that she is not even feeling guilty at deliberately blocking me meeting F.

[Anonymous]

I think you should leave all those girls alone and move on. Try to find someone else because those are a lot of problems and if you keep going they might just get worst.

[Asker]

Ok, but the thing is this. I understand A is abroad so I have to wait or forget about her.

I liked F. When B was taken, and just my friend, I asked for help to meet F, but B deliberately it seems told me she was a horrible person, even though she wasn't, just to keep us from meeting. Isn't that wrong?

F seems like a great girl. B who is really touchy, seduced me even whilst she was taken. I ended up masturbating about her but stayed strong. Only when she was single did I agree to go for an exclusive relationship.

Thing is she seems to want me to stop talking to any girl, has no guilt about lying about F, and wants to be free herself? Also she seems to be conditioning me? She likes to jerk me off and get me to say her name at the same time? What does that mean?

Why did she flirt with a guy, offer me a threesome as an apology and then mess it up? Why do I masturbate about B if I prefer F?

[Asker]

Thoughts pls?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah that is wrong that B did that. She seems like she really likes you and wants you for herself. Maybe she is flirting with another guy to get your attention and so, you could want her more. The reason why she messed it up was because maybe she isn't sure of what she wants ( I am guessing). You masturbate about B because she was every sexual with you and you liked that.

[Asker]

I don't think she does it to make me want her. She does it when I'm not there apparently. And I have seen her photos.

She seems to like attention. But wants me to be exclusive to her. She also stopped me meeting F? Can I forgive her for that and what to do about F now?

Agreed, I like her touching and her giving head is so hot, I masturbate about that a lot when I haven't seen her for a bit. But thing is, does she use it to keep me her slave?

I mean she panicked and offered the threesome and backed out by messing it up? She has offered it again after the fight about her lying about F and not being guilty about it.

She texted me and said she will make it special this time and give me a double bj?

[Opinion Owner]

Then she is just playing with you and seems to want to have you on a short leash. Have you tried talking to B about all of this? Do what your heart say about F.

[Asker]

I wanted F originally. I feel like B has distracted me. She was putting her feet on me and under the table and stuff when I was single. She lied about F to stop me meeting her.

I feel confused now because I can't stop masturbating about B giving me head. And when we had a fight she used to say sorry and give me a bj. Even the flirting with others, she offered me a threesome. Then she got upset when the other girl was making me finish.

I don't know whether to pursue F. I feel like B is in my head?

She has just texted me offering me a threesome again as a sorry?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay and try to forget B and then pursue F. See what happens

Can you help me with my problem?

[Asker]

Thing is F is on B's course. They are all on a separate area of campus. B could have helped me meet F when I was single, but deliberately lied about her? Atm I am with B. Should I break it off?

She arouses me so much, I ended up masturbating about B. I met her yesterday and she wants to do a threesome again to make it up to me?

Also is she conditioning me? She gave me head and told me to keep moaning her name?

[Asker]

Sure, post a link

Thoughts on above?

[Opinion Owner]

I say don't do it and forget her. Brake up with her and she is conditioning you.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1386656-need-some-advice

[Asker]

Will check it out.
Why do I feel hot at seeing her picture?

Should I go for the threesome? She is offering it to me with a girl who looks like her?

Also she sent me a text saying she misses giving me a bj?

[sailorjupiter]

You are a player and a cheater. Of coz she got jealous, she is your gf! (Either A or B or whatever girl with u). But based on whatever you told, its all about sex, so doesn't matter, you just want to have fun, you don't even want a commitment.

[Asker]

Pls read what I wrote. I am not a cheater. I met A in my first year at uni. She has a sabbatical period of 18 months which started this term. We agreed to break up and stay as friends.

I met B after that. I didn't even like her that much tbh. She touched me up even when she had a boyfriend. After she became single, I got aroused by her advances and agreed to an exclusive sex based relationship. SHE is the one who is being a player flirting around. I did NOT start doing that with anyone. I hardly flirted with anyone since I broke up with A.

The only girl I considered dating based on looks and personality after A was F. Before I was dating B, I asked her about F, and B very clearly tried to stop me meeting her saying she was a terrible person and not my type. I found out this was all a lie.

Can you see why I feel annoyed? On top of that did you read about her touching up others? And then why offer me something and renege on that?

Thoughts?

[Asker]

I didn't cheat on anyone!

Thoughts?

[Asker]

What do you think?

[sailorjupiter]

it's too complicated.. I'm so sorry, I can't help you with this ;/

[Asker]

It's not my fault tho, she's the one who is trying to cheat, and wants me to be her backup?

[Anonymous]

If C3/PO don't F the D. I suggest R2 & D2 become friends with benefits 4 A 69. ASAP

[Asker]

Lol seriously tho what to do?

[Opinion Owner]

Seriously I have no idea. I got lost in the algorithm.

[Asker]

Just read the update!

[Asker]

Sorry, I was just trying to make it quicker to type, but I see it can be confusing.

A= my first girlfriend who I really liked. We are friends - she is on a sabbatical for another 18 months abroad. So we are just friends now (have broken up but stay in touch).
B = current gf who flirted with me even when she had a bf and I was single.
C = new girl at halls. She's in a society with B.
D and E = some random friend of B

F = a girl I liked after I broke up with A. I asked B (who was my friend at the time) about her, and B dismissed her as not being my type. She told me she wasn't nice. Yet I met her recently and she is awesome?

Thoughts on all of this? B doesn't want me to speak to my old gf on Skype or to speak to C. She was stunned when I confronted her about lying about F.

B asked for an exclusive, sex based relationship, yet wants to have me as a committed backup and do whatever she wants?

[GirlsLie]

This feels like an Algebra problem. Honestly you sound really entitled so I don't care who you pick.

[Asker]

I apologize. It's just I'm so confused by these girls. I'm asking advice about B and F tbh.

[Asker]

B is someone who has been putting her feet on me and being very touchy even when she was in her previous relationship? She also liked about F, when F and I were both single. F is on B's course. They have a separate area of campus and I was hoping B, my friend, would help me meet F.

B aroused me and convinced me to agree to an exclusive sex based relationship. Yet she is grinding other people and then getting into fights about me just talking to other girls on campus?

She offered me a threesome to apologize for flirting so openly with these guys in a bar. Then she messed it all up?

She has offered me a threesome again to make it up to me?

Thoughts?

[GirlsLie]

Honestly, you all sound like you deserve each other lol

[Asker]

Why?

How do I deserve her? I was in a great relationship, unfortunately the girl moved away for her sabbatical.

B seduces me, then despite being my friend, lies to me about a girl I like (F) and then later on B cheats on me in public?

[Asker]

You seriously think that I am to blame here?

[GirlsLie]

I think you're acting entitled, defenseless and you are disregarding these girls feelings and only concerned about your own. Even though these girls sound crazy, that says a lot about your standards.

[Asker]

I don't think you're reading? How is F crazy for instance? Or C for that matter?

It only seems like B (my current gf) is crazy. Don't you agree?

I'm not entitled. What to do?

[GirlsLie]

Trust me, I can read. "Crazy" was my way of being nice to describe all of you, I don't really want to say everything I was thinking, so lets just leave it at that and move on please.

[Asker]

Erm.. ok, not that helpful, but ok.

Seriously tho, why is F or me crazy? What did we do?

Only B strikes me as the crazy one in this whole scenario? How can she want me to be exclusive and be hypocritical? Am I to be her backup? Isn't that selfish?

[GirlsLie]

You're stuck on the word "crazy" for some reason, everything else I said about you still stands as well as other things I can think of. Crazy was just the nicest generalization I could think of.

[Asker]

Ok but how am I in the wrong in this situation? I haven't cheated.

Don't you think B is wrong? Did you read what she did?

[GirlsLie]

I think you're both selfish. B has a long distance boyfriend according to you, she's an attention whore, she does all of this shit while she has a boyfriend and then asks if she should break up with her boyfriend afterwards.

[GirlsLie]

You don't really like B but you agree to be her boyfriend anyway then you get offended when she "grinds" other people. You're upset that she is "grinding" other people so you accept a threesome with her to make up for it, when you admittedly don't like her enough to be her boyfriend in the first place and you counter her acting like an attention whore by accepting a threesome. And not only that but by being selfish about who it is with. B probably had a threesome to get you to like her more and then she regretted it at the end and now you're being completely selfish regarding her feelings in the entire situation.

[GirlsLie]

I really hope that you're a troll, for my own sanity.

Every one of your answers is pointing the finger at everyone else and you take no responsibility for anything that you did. Just look at your poll options for example.

[Asker]

Woah I think you misunderstood. B HAD a long distance bf and was suggestively touching me up. I was asking her about F and B lied about F's personality to stop me from pursuing her. Then B broke up with her bf and still touched me up. Then I agreed to be with her on the basis of being exclusive and it was a sex based relationship.

I got offended as B constantly interupts me speaking to girls, yet was grinding this guy and posing suggestively in photos with others. She offered me the threesome, but tried to lie about a hot girl not being available and picking a girl she knows I don't like. Then when the other girl was giving me a bj, she got her to leave.

[Asker]

I am now angry because I met F recently and she is not only pretty, but really nice. B lied about her. B didn't apologize and was shocked that I had met her and looked panicky that her selfishness had been revealed. She also only invites the eccentric people on her course to parties, and of the girls only less attractive ones.

She is now offering me a threesome to make it up to me according to her text. She seems adamant I don't pursue F even if I break up with her? B is now offering me a threesome with a girl who looks like B.

How am I being selfish? I have never cheated on B. I didn't initiate anything with her when she had a bf. And she was meant to be my friend but interfered with me and F?

Thoughts?

[GirlsLie]

I don't think I misunderstood at all lol She was flirting with you/ "touching you up" whatever while she had a long distance boyfriend, she even asked you if she should break up with him. And if she did lie about a hotter girl not being available then she was obviously too jealous for a threesome which is why she left and you're being really insensitive about her feelings, honestly you two deserve each other and this is pointless, I just don't think you get it.

[Asker]

I don't think you are reading what I say properly. When she asked me about her long distance bf, I didn't tell her to break up and she wasn't asking me at that time whether I wanted to go out with her.

In terms of lying about F, that has nothing to do with the threesome. When I asked about F, B was in a relationship, and F and I were single. B is meant to be my friend, but was saying F was not my type and nothing special. I later found this to be a blatant lie. SHE IS DEFINITELY AT FAULT FOR THIS.

In terms of the threesome, that was HER IDEA. How do I deserve to be 1. cheated upon and 2. lied to and manipulated so I don't meet other girls who are my type?

Pls explain?

[Asker]

Well?

[Asker]

Isn't B at fault?

[Asker]

Just as I thought. You realized you were way wrong and now are embarrassed. I am still willing to hear your INFORMED opinion after you have read all this properly.

Once again, B IS THE ONE WHO HAS BEEN CHEATING AND LYING ABOUT OTHER GIRLS.

B IS THE ONE WHO HAS BEEN CHEATING AND LYING ABOUT OTHER GIRLS.

Your thoughts?

[GirlsLie]

I think that you're under the impression that I didn't read it properly and I did, you kept correcting me on things that I did read properly and you basically repeated those very things I had an issue with back to me in another way to try and prove your point or to make it seem like I didn't read it properly, when I did.

And I still stand by everything that I said, B seems like is a crazy, stupid, liar and as I said earlier "I think you're acting entitled, defenseless and you are disregarding these girls feelings and only concerned about your own" and any girl who wants anything to do with a man who acts like you is crazy in my opinion. Which is why I said "I think you're all crazy" and I think you and B deserve each other.

I stopped replying because you're one of those guys who will never see what he did wrong and it's a waste of time for me to continue to explain it to you.

[Asker]

But I would like to know what I did wrong?

Please can you explain? I mean during the time I was single, I didn't make a move on her. And when we were together I didn't cheat? She did, so wasn't she wrong?

And when she offered me a threesome, I was enjoying it? I mean if the other girl started giving me a bj and I liked it, was I doing anything wrong?

[GirlsLie]

You're being very insensitive to this girls feelings, you're acting very selfish and entitled, just look at your answer options, you can't be serious about those.

I don't understand why it's so difficult to accept when someone doesn't agree with you. You're on a public website, people are bound to disagree with you, accept it and move on with your life lol

[Asker]

Ok the poll options could be seen as muddly, but could you explain how I am being insensitive to B's feelings? If B had a bf, but was my friend and given I was single and F was single, why did B lie to me about F and not help me meet her?

And when B became single, and effectively made me her bf, why is she acting like she is single? I don't see how I am acting entitled?

[Asker]

I have no problem if you don't agree, but could you explain? I would like to understand this all about B!

[GirlsLie]

Well I think you're being insensitive because obviously B is an insecure girl and instead of putting your needs aside, you're trying to blame all of this on her and seeing what else you can get out of her.

"she wants attention and wants you as backup" when in fact you knew how she was before you agreed to be her boyfriend.

Requesting that she go through with a threeesome then breaking up with her is just mean and selfish.

The fact that you agreed to be her boyfriend even though you had feelings for another girl is misleading.

"B has every right to be upset even though she was trying to seduce you when she had a bf, and was acting like a harlot when she made your hers. Stay with her until you meet someone."

You knew she had a boyfriend as well, you're both wrong. You also knew she acted like a "harlot" before you agreed to be her boyfriend. All i'm saying is take some responsibility.

[Asker]

Ok, what do you think about this though? I've tried to address your points:

I knew how she was, but did not initiate anything with B or reciprocate her advances. Now if she puts her feet on my crotch, is it my fault that I ended up getting aroused? I didn't do anything with her afterward or encourage it. Nor when she sucked her fingers.

I didn't request a threesome. She apologized for flirting so openly with someone (grinding) and offered me it. I accepted. Then she kinda ruined it for some reason when the other girl was giving me a bj.

I didn't agree to be her bf when I had feelings for someone else. I liked F when I was single and B had a bf. I asked for B's help to meet F as she knows where she is on campus, etc. B LIED TO ME ABOUT F's attributes and thus limited my options later on.

I don't see where I could have acted differently?

[GirlsLie]

You just don't get it, it's fine.

[Asker]

No i really want to get what you're saying as I don't want to be doing something wrong. But do you see my explanation to your points? I don't see where I went wrong? I didn't initiate or lead her on, and I didn't agree to be her bf whilst having feelings for others?

Pls explain what I have done wrong and what she has done right?

[Asker]

I didn't do anything wrong! I've read and thought about what I did. I didn't lead her on at all. She did that. I can only think that she might have been upset that a girl was making me cum, but this was her idea? And after she had done bad things to me?

Thoughts?

[Asker]

Is it cos when the other girl was giving me a bj, she and I were really enjoying it?

[Anonymous]

What a greedy guy. Leave them alone. Stop leading any girl on. If you don't like B that much, don't date her. It's too complicated.

[Asker]

What? How am I greedy? B is not like A unfortunately. She just aroused me (even when she was already taken) and when she was single, seems to want me to stay as her backup committed bf.

Isn't is selfish of her to have lied about F? She seems to not want us to have met. Isn't she the greedy and needy person?

I also think she is trying to make sure I only think about her giving me head, since she seems to do it to keep me with her?