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So he showed me his dick?

So I'm in love with this guy and I told him which led to a lot of mixed signals like he's been coming over to just lay down and watch movies with me... last night he jumped on top of me and was holding me and looking into my eyed BUT no fucking kiss :'( then later on we're talking about dick piercings and he goes check it out straight up shows me a pic of his dick fully hard with the piercing n all... I was like " :o " lol asked him if it hurt and stuff like that and we kept talking till he was like "okay time for me to crash I have work in the morning" then he turns off the lights and TV takes off his shirt and gets into bed with me... STILL doesn't MAKE A MOVE? What's going on here :/ like does he like me or no? Like I've never had a "friend" show me his dick if he wasn't trying to fuck or come spend the night if he wasn't trying to fuck either lol but this guy isn't making a move... I'm frustrated sexually and every other way :'(
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  • Maybe I'm reading this wrong or there's something you're not telling us (in which case I apologize in advance) but it doesn't sound like you gave him a lot to work with.

    I'm not saying you have to jump his bones but you do have to give him some signs that his advances are working (or not working) and you want him to take it to the next level. There has to be some indication of consent. A guy's not going to go from first base to home plate if you just lie there passively and neither accept nor deny his advances.

    As a guy, if you keep elevating things further and further physically with a girl and she's just not responding there's comes a point where it starts to feel a little rapey. No sane guy is going to just stick his penis in you on the off chance that you might actually want it simply because you had a bit of a snuggle and a semi-intimate conversation before hand. Nine times out of ten that would land you in jail. Even getting into bed with a girl you don't know all too well is pretty bold if you weren't already passionately making out.

    I know girls don't like to be too forward sexually and fear looking slutty but guys can't read your mind. You don't have to be blunt about it but give him something work with. Use a sexy voice, use innuendo, lean in close when you want a kiss, touch his body. Do something.

    I'm not trying to be a dick here or blame you for spoiling the evening but seriously, it's okay to help a guy out. There's nothing wrong with greasing the wheels. If a guy isn't getting the message, turn up the volume.

    • Ah okay thankyou

  • He sounds a like he is stuck on himself. He may also be gay. He may be into sadomasochism, and bondage and torture and is feeling you out to see if these things interest you as well. I would ask him what his intentions are, and if they do not coincide with yours, dump him!

Most Helpful Girls

  • You girls... your so ironic... you moan when guys move too fast and want sex asap but then when they don't try to rush into sex you want to rush into it... decide for heavens sake... do you want love? or just sex? because if you want love then you can't be rushing into sex, wait MORE than 3 months... lol too many people these days even have sex just after 2 months and guess what? they break up after just 2 months lol, i really can't name a couple that stayed together jumping into bed that fast.

    He is clearly very into you since he wants to sleep next to you with his shirt off, he shows you his dick ring but he is a gentleman :) why aren't you happy he is respecting you? but don't go jumpng on him too soon. Girls say they want a guy who respects them but when they do they are ready to jump into bed asap... if you have sex with him now he's not going to feel like he earned it so... hold onto your panties and just get to know him and build some trust first.

    • I've known him / been super close for 7 years >_< but you're right Ishould wwait because things have started to change so maybe we have to get to know each other on a different level

    • Well you certainly have some trust there then but i guess a friends trust is different to the deeper trust you develop in relationships, sorry if my comment sounded a bit rude but it true lol i see other girls do it too it's like "urgh... he just wants sex right now, move along", but then it teases you so much when guys are respectful and don't make sexual advancements because you wonder why they don't :P, definitely get to know each other A LOT better first, take your time.

    • Thank you all I needed was some common sense & this is it I'd rather wait for what I really want than fuck it up for some sex

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  • He's teasing. He wants you to make the move.
    Some guys are like that.

    • Okay thankyou :) jeez all the guys up there are confusing ^^

    • No problem :)

  • all men are gggggggiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllssssssssss

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  • Sounds like he is either

    A - To inexperienced/Afraid to make one on his own.

    or

    B - Is just messing with your feelings because he likes the feeling of someone liking him.

    Conclusion? You make the move if he won't.

  • All that really happened? Looked into your eyes but not kiss? I'm at a loss. What the hell happened? And why didn't you kiss him?

    • I don't know I guess my pride :/ I guess I should of

  • Gosh!!! ? I don't even know

  • Wow, I can't believe he did not want to have sex! Did you fool around at all? Handjob or something? Maybe he wants to wait, better yet you may have to take the initiative and initiate sex with him. What do you think?

    • I don't know it seemed like he did want to but he didn't make a move all we did was sleep and He ddoes this thing were at least one part of our bodies are always touching but he doesn't try to cuddle.. except when he jumped on top of me but even then he was laying on me and I was just rubbing on his back and he kept looking at me like we was gonna kiss me till jumped up & said "um I'm hungry" lol maybe he's not feeling it :/

    • Did he have a hard on? If so that is kinda hard to ignore for a guy!

  • Why don't you just... communicate?

    "Hey, wanna have sex? :)?"

    Gosh.

    • Because I already put myself out there I don't want to have to be the one to do it again!

  • i just believe he was fiendly, and felelng comfortable with you showing his dick pic basically

  • He wants you so bad! Since your friends, he probably doesn’t want to ruin a friendship in case you don’t want it. In an unwelcome situation, a penis is a horrifying and traumatic thing to see. But when it’s someone I care about and trust, it’s like seeing his very soul. I love getting to that point…. and I love rewarding him for taking that leap. That thing would be in my mouth that very night! But take it nice and slow if you want him to stay around as a serious relationship

  • Time to tell him to butter your biscuit.

    • Lol XD

    • Haha I should

  • He has a piece of metal in his dick - it probably hurts like hell for him to have sex.

    • He said it does hurt sometimes but that he loves pain

  • Dick piercing is disgusting... !!!

  • What a weirdo

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