he is making this situation into a little sulk fest for him, he sounds very manipulative and selfish to make you feel like you were in the wrong for not liking something he never discussed with you first.
i would say its a red flag, he's trying to push you into stuff you dont want to do and guilt you about it by being less affectionate2 0 0 0He can't force u to like it. He jus needs to respect it and never do it again.
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I think he's completely missing the point: in BDSM, things start with the consent of the sub and END, IMMEDIATELY if she withdraws her consent. Do you have a safe word?
1 0 0 0Nope , no safe word, never needed one. And although he stopped immediately, he sure doesn't understand the concept of getting consent FIRST. He's all about springing it on someone and sulking afterwards if the reaction isn't what he wanted. What's wrong with him?
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3 1Red flag ! Sounds like he's selfish and only wants you for sex! If he loves you he should respect you and ask you before trying anything new.
1 0 0 0He sounds like he's being completely unreasonable
1 0 0 0Red flag because he doesn't care about your feelings.
1 0 0 0That sounds like a red flag.
I would be pretty scared. And his response was rude. Dump him.2 0 1 0
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