I think I had an embarrassing boner situation with this girl I kinda like. Can someone help me in this situation?

[Anonymous]

Long story short i was in the pool with this girl i'am a usually a shy person and don't talk a lot but she kinda forces things on me to not be haha. we were playing water polo and i was guarding her and everytime i got the ball should put her boobs on me tyring to get the ball. (she has decently big boobs). After the game everyone kinda just left the pool but she told me to stay (at this point i had a boner lol). I had ball in my hand and she said "give me that" i held it up and suprisingly she wrapped her legs around me and tried to get the ball and her boobs were all in my face..... NOW the embarsing part.... when she wrapped her legs around me she felt my boner and said "oh what was that" i had the dumbest lie and said "it my hand" she said "no it wasn't". I tried swimming away lmao... but she caught me and looked underwater and saw my boner. At this point my face was red and she was bursting out laughting and she knows i'm shy and don't like much attention and i said "sorry about that, please don't tell anyone", then she was like "awwww i won't" and hugged me. Should i be that embarrased about this? Does this say anything about her?

[Doafit]

Are you serious dude? There are two possibilites, she either found it embarrasing to raise a guy she doesn't like or she takes it as a compliment. From what you have written here, if it really was like that, then i guarantee you she is totaly into you. If you have a crush on her i would reccomend you to ask her out. I know this takes a lot of confidence, but let's be honest you probably have a good chance with her and if it doesn't work, what i doubt, then you at least have clarity about her liking you or not.

Wish you luck, but gueranteed this was maybe awkward but i think it might have been good for your "relationship" :D

[Asker]

It's just i didn't really talk much to her before i never had much luck with girls cause i'm trying to get more social, but i understand what she was doing.

[Doafit]

SHE WRAPPED HER LEGS AROUND YOU!!! and got poked by your boner and obviously liked it.. She probably likes you too...

[Asker]

i'll ask her out soon and hpoe for the best

[Doafit]

Tell us then how it went, I am excited :D

[Asker]

lol i will

[Anonymous]

Aha bro can't u see she wasn't embarrassed? I think you should make a move and ask her out in some time.

[Asker]

now i understand, i will

[Kalinda]

she was voluntarily shoving her breasts in your face and grinding in you in the water. Your erection is involuntary. you've nothing to be embarrassed about. she had no need to draw attention to it. I find her behavior pretty obnoxious personAlly. But anyhow you did nothing wrong:)

[Asker]

I understand from the comments what she was trying to do. It's just i didn't really talk much to her before i never had much luck with girls cause i'm trying to get more social, but i understand what she was doing.

[Asker]

obnoxious as in trashy?

[CHARismatic110]

Lol it seems like she was flirting with you. She probably likes you. The boner thing is normal and pretty much our of your control. I wouldn't worry that much about it. She seemed to have liked it anyway.

[Aud_Queen]

Ahahhahaahaa... this is so cute 😂
Don't worry about it. It happens and it looks like things are okay. It's a nnatural ofy response!

Also she likes the fact that your shy :)

[Asker]

yeah i understand what she was getting at haha.

[Aud_Queen]

*natural body response

[coffeprince]

My thought exactly I read this and thought how cute.. The level attraction and his shyness hahaha

[Asker]

I was always the shy type, but i see her today and i was wondering what types of ways can i flirt with her? She always kinda flirts with me first. How do you girls like to be "flirted" with haha?

[Aud_Queen]

Be corny, use indside jokes and tease her about stuff! :)

[Asker]

what type of corny things can i say lol?

[Aud_Queen]

I have no idea tbh. Never flirted with a girl before :3 If you don't have any corny jokes just be funny and tease... that usually works.

[Asker]

I meant like if a guy ever flirted with you, what did he do. but i'll just tease and try and maker her laugh. Thank you for the help :)

[Blackwatch8494]

noooo you're fine! You're more than fine! She was happy you got hard. She wanted you to. If you play your cards right you'll be able to hook up with her!

[Anonymous]

Dude--did you follow this up at all? No need to lie about your boner--she knew what she was doing. You should've flirted back with her. Next time it's just the two of you in the pool, perhaps you could do without the suits altogether!

[Anonymous]

It honestly sounds like she wanted you to get one.
I think it would be more embarrassing not to get turned on by a hot girl you like..