Since you work together he's smart of move things along slowly so there's no risk of him misinterpreting your signals. Next time, just get down to your string (wearing a string is a great idea) and walk up and hug him from behind. Rub his shoulders and chest and work your way down to his cock. It seems like he's really nervous when you're alone so if he's not hard, don't worry about it. Just stand up on your tiptoes, breathe warmly into his ear, and say something like, "Hey stud," turn him around and kiss him. I'm guessing you won't find him reluctant this time.
Alternatively, you can go out for that drink and just tell him that you were disappointed that he didn't make his move the other night--that you're ready. Then see what he says.0 0 0 0Being that aggressive won't turn off his respect for me and interest in more than just sex?
I see your point. Go out for the drink and ask him what his intentions are. Then go from there. I think you are a bit old school, a good thing in my eyes. You might find this very useful:
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He's being extremely nice. You don't describe yourself making sexual suggestions to him; he's not taking liberties with you.
1 0 0 0Is it bad that I am not a flirtatious type, in the obvious ways? I do smile and laugh, and say ridiculous thongs/ramble, BUT never anything sexy :/ I just come off as fun, friendly, and sweet. Is being sexually suggestive necessary for him to be physical with me?
If you're in the U. S., you need to say something to him to let him know if you want to have sex with him. It sounds like he's nice and he's not assuming anything. That's what I keep hearing women want and I think that's what he's doing.
Thanks! BUT, I'm a girl, so I don't want to SAY what I want, haha. Sounds terrible, but I am being honest. We want men to read our minds, haha, meaning… hmm… it is leads romantic to tell a guy to kiss me or that I want him. I appreciate him being a gentleman, but at some point I want him to pull he trigger. I am trying everything to show him I really want that and will be receptive! If a girl could do anything to get that across very clearly, without saying it, what would that be?
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(4)Maybe he wants to take it slow because he cares about you and worries that rushing into it will ruin whatever bond you two have
1 1 0 0He's worried you're not into it
1 0 0 0But i'm in my panties stroking his chest, in HIS bed? Guys still, at that point, question if I am interested?
I think he's lacking in sexual confidence. When I was 50 pounds overweight, I'd do stuff like you described, i. e. letting girls slip through my fingers when they offered themselves to me. A confident guy will take a risk. If he were feeling good about himself, he would've tried to at least touch p*ssy.
My advice, if you like him, take it slowly and let him figure it out in his own time.0 0 0 0Girls (especially the ones we like) are scary as fuck!
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