Girls, have you ever been pressured into sex? What about blackmail?

Has a guy ever tried to pressure you into any sexual activity? How do you usually handle that? Have they ever succeeded? What about blackmail? Has anyone ever tried to blackmail you? Have they ever succeeded? Do you have a fantasy about being blackmailed? This sounds strange, but one time a girl told me that she had that fantasy.
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  • Yea i have and it was you can say both pressured into and blackmailed and yup he succeeded.
    He was my ex and he had my nudes with him which i never bothered and actually helped him make my nudes thinking he is my boyfriend and nothing bad would ever happen but things got a twist and we were like not getting along anymore and one day forwarded my nudes to my dad, brother and mum and when i talked to him about it he said he could delete everything infront of me but i had to have sex one last time with him and his 2 friends and somehow i agreed but by the time i came back he had recorded that too and sent the short clips and pics to my family and not just that, next day he took printouts of my nudes and dropped in all the houses around my house
    so it was a very very bad experience for me and no i dont fantacise about being blackmailed at all

  • No not really, I mean guys have often wanted to sleep with me but I just have said I am not ready and that's the end of it. About the worst I had was a guy friend who was a work colleague and he was relentlessly hitting on me. I wasn't interested so I cut the friendship away but of course we worked in the same place. He started stalking me. I was only in my mid 20s at the time and one of my managers had daughters about the same age so I went to him. He took care of it and the guy never bothered me after that. Any of those fantasy's about sex under duress (e. g. blackmail, rape, etc) are more about enjoying being submissive to a really hot guy that just has to have us at all cost.

  • Has a guy ever tried to pressure you into any sexual activity?
    Has anyone ever tried to blackmail you?
    Yes

    How do you usually handle that?
    Pressure: Tazer him in the balls, punch in the gut, and object slam on the head usually.
    Blackmail: I laugh at them then proceed to humiliate/emasculate them while vocally pondering charging them with attempted rape.

    Have they ever succeeded?
    No

    Do you have a fantasy about being blackmailed?
    No

  • Sort of blackmailed. I got wasted and had sex with one of my best friends boyfriend. The next morning I didn’t remember any of it and was horrified. Anyway, he climbs on top of me trying to have sex again and I yell at him to get off me. He told me he would tell her everything if I didn’t do it. So I said fine and just laid there while he did his thing. I felt like a total POS afterwards.

Most Helpful Guys

  • "Do you have a fantasy about being blackmailed?"<---- that's insane dude... maybe it was ONLY this girl basically

  • I told a girl I wouldn't like her anymore unless she got naked and we had sexuals.. is that blackmail

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  • I've never been blackmailed into having sex, but I've been pressured into it. Sometimes you just have to make a decision as to whither its worth it or not.

  • I've been in both situations. Not fun. Took me time to be strong and fight back. Glad I did.

  • Yeah. Because somehow when a respectful woman tells a scumbag "no" to hooking up so easily as if she is some piece of ass, he sees that as "oh just push even further".

  • If rape is being pressured then yes I was pressured into sex.

    • I didn't mean to that extent, but yes that would be the extreme. I meant just like... someone kept asking and asking until you caved. (more like that)... by the way... as a guy... I couldn't even imagine turning down a girl asking to give me a blowjob... so why do girls turn down sex so much? (even oral)?

    • I don't have that problem.