Are girls more likely to fall in love with their fuck buddies?

I've been on this site for a while and I've noticed that there's a lot of posts about guys having unreciprocated feelings for their female friends. However when girls are posting about having unreciprocated feelings for a guy; they are more often than not, talking about one of their friends with benefits/fuck buddies. So in your opinion, are girls more likely to be in love with their fuck buddies while guys are more likely to be in love with their female friends?
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  • I chose "I have no idea" because I'm for both yes and no. I've had friends with benefits before and I never seriously liked any of them. I thought they were hot, and I was attracted to them, but never emotionally attracted to them. I obviously cared about them, because you inevitably become friends with them, but I knew I didn't care for them enough to want to be in a relationship with them. However, there was one guy I developed a crush on. It's funny though, we would have sex, and he was just so fucking amazing, that I literally felt like I was walking on clouds for the next couple of days. He was just so damn good that I ended up having feelings for him. Every time we would have sex, I would have a crush on him for like 5 days and then I would realize that I didn't really like him, he was just that good in bed lmao. So I think it is possible to confuse feelings for sexual attraction sometimes, but that fades pretty quickly after time goes by.

  • Me and my boyfriend have a rule to avoid that. We are both swingers into group sex. We have one on one only together.
    when we fuck with friends, its always in group, at least 3.
    you never fall in love when you have sex in group. sex is becoming fun, a game...

  • Yes. A fuck buddy already has her attracted sexually, which is the hardest part.

    • exactly

Most Helpful Guys

  • Oh ya dude girls go crazy for a guy who has sex with them and then doesn't call back. They also get frustrated when a guy gives them attention and then all of a sudden stops giving them attention. Women don't like a guy who is clingy or chases girls lets put it that way.

    • But if a guy who has sex with them chose to call them back, then would that make them lose interest? they want him to call them so i assume no. If a woman has given sex to a guy, then it is okey for the guy to show her affection/attention i assume.

    • Yeah I guess that's true @alphadoggystyle

  • As the saying goes, "The difference between a washing machine and a female, is that a washing machine won't want a commitment when you drop a load in it."

    It's very true. Women chemically become attached to a male who she has allowed into her sexual world.

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  • Yes because as much as they deny it women tie sex and emotions together. Maybe there are a few rare exceptions to that but not many.

    • love the honesty

  • Weren't they already in love with their fuck buddies to begin with and only agreed to an friends with benefits because he didn't want anything more?

  • Yeah, we just hit it and quit it. Girls hit it and bond closer.

    • crude but true

  • Women are less likely to be honest about having sex with someone they don't already like. and guys are less likely to be honest aboit falling in love with someone they are already having sex with.

    Self reports are unreliable bc of cultural expectations .. People lie and or can't distinguish between feelings and what their feeling " should" be. We can't really know what happens unless there is no social biases and or pressure to feel one way or the other based on ones sex.

  • Better be careful... might get a knife in your chest or car fucked up.

    • why? 0_o

    • Cause crazy truly exists...

    • Oh :o

  • As a woman with a friends with benefits , I can 100% agree. Maybe not fall in love, but being banged and then not getting treated like a gf hurts. You start to develope serious self esteem issues

  • I think girls are more likely to. I have only heard about guys falling for a girl they only had sex with like very rarely. this is common with girls