Ladies, if you had to choose, would you rather have thickness or length for a man?

For me I prefer thickness, a woman can anatomically take up to a certain length. So, what do you guys say?
Thickness
Vote A
Length
Vote B
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Girl Guy
1 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm no woman (or that's what my penis says), but I think, from what I've heard and read, that thickness is better, since the pleasure receptors or whatever they're called, are located on the vagina's walls, so the thicker the dick, the more contact it'll make with the walls of the vagina, ergo, more pleasure.

    • What about when guys say the length makes them hit the g spot better?

    • The g-spot is not too far in the vagina, so you don't need a long dick to hit it.

    • That's what I said bur most men swear up and down that it's further

    • Show All
  • To much in either department can cause problems! But in my experience girth is more important to girls, but guys tend to worry about length.

    • Why do guys worry more about length?

    • I honestly don't know, but when a guy talks about the size of his manhood he usually just says one number, the length. Maybe he thinks length is more visually impressive, but a long skinny doesn't look good, a stubby fat one looks better I'd say. Or maybe they think the important thing about pleasuring a woman is how deep into her vagina they can go? Whereas the vast majority of the pleasure giving nerve endings are at the front of the vagina, and pleasure comes from the penis putting pressure on them. Hence girth > length. So really the focus on length is just due to misconceptions men have about sex. Of course one of the biggest misconceptions a lot of men have about sex is that penis size makes much difference to the quality of sex at all, or that women generally care much about it.

    • Thank you lol that was very knowledgeable. But even with length, most men don't know it hurts a woman when you go to deep. That gasping we do when it hits us is not out of pleasure most of the time lol because anatomically a woman can take up to 6.5 inches I think.

    • Show All

Most Helpful Girls

  • Definitely thickness.. What girl would want to see and feel something the size of a matchstick!

    • Lol definitely I don't see the point of a super long penis. Sometimes if it's too long it hurts lol

    • @Noobian-Queen.. Absolutely right.. I do believe at times that guys must think we have an infinite vagina.. And it's not until they hit our cervix and we scream out, that they suddenly realise this!

    • Exactly ! Lol one guy I felt like he was hitting my stomach and I made a gasping sound and he was like, "did that feel good?" NOOOOO!

    • Show All
  • I'd prefer thickness and length. If i have to chose one, then i'd have to say thickness.

    • Yeah because it's very rare that guys come with both at a perfect circumference and length lol

    • I agree!

    • what are your honest opinions on mine? 5 inch thick and long but its a bit curve it looks 4.5 inches and its not a thin cock so looks even shorter. (just measured with tape measure. ) aparently its average short and a bit over average thick but you guys felt it so how would it be?

    • Show All
  • I think thickness is much more important and it looks better ghan a skinny dick

    • Most men that I've asked said it's because they make a woman have an orgasm better with length.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

8 15
  • Honestly, I don't care.

  • I'm not a woman, just spitballing, but I have a theory that the size of a penis is an absolutely totally visual thing for a girl. There's really not a whole lot of feeling deep down in that cavern, the clit is (I believe) in the very front and on the outside of the vagina. So whats the point in having a big penis?

    I think it's just a visual thing, but visuals can be powerful

  • basically y most girls want thickness?

    • Are you asking why do girls want thickness?

  • Thickness...

  • i am tall and skinny, wait we are talking penises again aren't we...

  • I'm gonna go with thickness on this one.

  • thickness is just fit, length doesn't mean shit

    • Exactly lol

  • Ha ha ha... excellent question. Its like I am a fly on the wall of a girls washroom!

    • Take notes lol

    • Oh I am!

  • from the comments I've had (5.5inches circ) its definitely thickness

    • Really? That's what I'm getting so far lol

    • really what? yeh thats what they've said to me

    • You've had no complaints over the thickness?

    • Show All
  • well i am about 6 ich in length and and about 5.5 in circ and i have never hand any complaints maybe a few sore ones but that is about it ;>

    • Haha XD well alright then

  • Anything that doesn't look like it will cause me to be in intense pain. :/

  • I think both matter to women, I know there's such a thing as too big, but all in all most women prefer them on the thicker and longer side. Just the way it is, like how men prefer beautiful vs ugly women, it's just life. They just need to invent penis enlargement already, they finally have solutions for baldness.

    • they have invented means to enlarge the cock. It's just not stable and completely safe yet. Scar tissue (which makes your cock bend a lot) is a problem. Same is complications.

    • @dartmaul15 yeah I mean a real method that's safe. Regenerative medicine is coming along, so I'm sure its probably 10 to 20 years away.

    • depends. By then i suspect antibiotics will be useless unless we do something drastic... But yeah, not taking that into account, i'd say 10-20 years is realistic. Then again, i'd rather see plastic surgery removed. Insted we should do it GENETICALLY! That way it will have a chance to carry over to our offspring. And it'll look more natural.

    • Show All
  • Girls have always told me thickness is better, but I think it is length more. I'm 5.25 inches long which is on the short side but a little thick around. But I always got the best reaction in the bedroom when I go deep, that's why I think its length.

    • No that's the perfect length because if you go to far it hurts some women well most women.

    • Well it depends on who the girl is if it goes too deep. How big is your bf and does he ever go too deep?

    • My bf is about 6 and a half inches but he's 3 fingers thick. And he always tries to go too deep and when he does I swear he hits my pelvis. So I don't like it too long.

    • Show All
  • if girl want length they can use pencils :P

    • Lol omg

  • thin with some length 12-15cm is good

    • How DARE you measure me when I am not looking?

  • Oh, why short change a lady friend? God saw fit that I can offer both to girls, haha.

    • Lol well alright then

  • They want length girth helps but at the end of the day length is more important.

  • So a 6 in with a girth of 5.1in and std free is good

  • Girth every time.

  • I just wish they would invent safe penis enlargement. I don't have either measurement... :(

    #ForeverVirgin

    • I'm sorry sugar :((

  • Show More (3)