Girls, why do you moan when having sex?

[Anonymous]

Guys don't moan so why do you? Do you even know you do it?

[answeris42]

No stone should be left unturned, I'm thrilled to answer your question, because it's not a silly question! It's amazing how many people fake orgasms during sex, but if they are going to fake it, they are just fooling themselves that they are being satisfied and are not being true to their partners! Both sides need to be pleasured.

I will say one sexual partner I had never showed emotion. (Refer to the movie Amelie, and closely observe lead actress Audrey Tautou, she was hardly enjoying anything each sexual experience she had). So thus, I hardly enjoyed his lack of enthusiasm and said ta ta!

Many partners who moan can also be very legit and be very vocal. I am very candid with my answer here. I am very much a noise maker, among other things that I think are the secret ingredient to making a man enjoy himself. My boyfriend loves various techniques and he is very much excited to try any possible position to make his sexual dreams come true.

When a penis thrusts passed the g spot, a moan orgasm will likely occur and many times.

But wait, there's no need to feel left out. If you are open to trying toys, try and have your sexual partner reach the full length of your rectum and there you have it, g spot heaven for a man. Explore sex shops and see what might tickle your fancy.

Extend your foreplay and you both will have a great time and orgasm plenty! You might do it before her but she will give her best moan possible. It's not necessary as too much can be offputting during sex, but some is healthy to a fun session.

Great calorie burner too, good luck Anonymous!

[dupe666]

It's a reaction used to communicate to your lover you are enjoying yourself. But just because it is used to let him know he is doing well, it doesn't mean it doesn't come from a genuine desire to do it.

Have you ever tried food and went "mhhmmm!". It's spontaneous and you do it communicating to others how much you like it. But it doesn't mean you wouldn't moan had no one been there. It doesn't mean you can't control it, or increase/decrease it for emphasis.

Part of enjoyment with others is EXPRESSING you're enjoying yourself. What is the point of hearing jokes from someone if you don't laugh. You laugh to SHARE that feeling. You may not have laughed as hard had that person not been there. And that expression INCREASES THE FEELING. Like resonance.

Sexual moaning is in part "you're doing a great job" and part "OMG, omg! *braindead pleasure thoughts!*".
Better job you do, more the moans come from a place of instinct and less from a place of control. But that doesn't mean they are always either just one, or the other.

[MichelleJustAsking]

I supposed it's just a natural reaction to pleasure. Have you ever moaned when you tasted something really good at a restaurant? How about when you had a great back massage or back scratch? How about at the end of the day when you get to take off your restrictive work attire and throw on some comfy clothes? How about when you stretch?

Having sex is no different. It feels good, so you moan out of pleasure. And some guys do moan. I know my husband does.

[Asker]

But guys can control it. Girls can't seem to help it.

[MichelleJustAsking]

No, I can control it. For example, if we are visiting family and don't want them to hear our "activity".

[Ozanne]

It's because of this right here:
en.wikipedia.org/.../Female_copulatory_vocalizations
To let you think we're having the time of our lives so that you can be turned on. I know, it doesn't sound so sexy when it's explained, but this is pretty much it.

Not to say we don't make sounds because it doesn't feel good, because it does. But there are times the slightest touch or a place may not necessarily warrant a reaction, but we'll unwittingly do it so that our partners can remain turned on and in the moment, and continue to try to please us.

[Kiwedin]

We moan because it feels good. Sometimes I know I'm doing it and sometimes I don't even realize and it just comes out. I also do it because I want the guy to know that I like what he's doing, because I actually really don't like it when a guy is too silent during sex. Guys do moan and it's sexy as hell. It lets us know that your enjoying yourself and I'm doing a good job.

[LittleMissGriff]

... Guys totally moan when having sex. I mean, there's quiet guys just like there's quiet girls, but no, dudes totally moan.

[Asker]

But guys can control it more.

[Asker]

Girls can't control it at all in my experience.

[0987655lululu]

I agree not all girls can control their moaning at all. Unless they bite there lips or on a pillow case. Put something in the mouth shut them up. My experience.

[WildRawd]

Then you've had shitty sex if someone hasn't made you moan...

[bombamboum]

At first I would try control it and one day a man told me to let it go and not control it. It just fell good to lose that control and to let myself express what I was feeling.

[Asker]

Control it how?

[bombamboum]

I think I would hold my breath, hold back and it was actually also holding the pleasure

[Asker]

My gf told me she can't hold it in. She tried once and she said she held it in for a bit by tensing but it just came out after a while.

[bombamboum]

It was at the beginning of my sex life, the man who told me that was the man who gave me my first orgasm, now? I wouldn't be able to hold it at all

[CrayonQueen]

Science proves that girls moan to get the guys to climax faster, or to boost a guys self esteem. SCIENCE BITCHES!

[peachykeen1515]

It feels good, we want to express ourselves, guys tell us they like it, and p*rn stars do it, so we feel pressured to do it even if it doesn't feel natural.

by the way guys do it too.

[SansiSavvy]

Moaning happens naturally when the sex feels really good. Do guys not like it or something? lol I'm just trying to understand the nature of the question.

[Asker]

Define feels good.

[SansiSavvy]

Com'on... it feels good when I'm super wet and his dick is hard and throbbing inside of me.

[Azara]

Lololol guys moan !!!

:-)