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How can a shy, socially awkward, ugly girl lose her virginity?

Ok if you're an ugly girl but have a cool, outgoing personality you can get some guy to have sex with you but what can I do???? I'm very shy, socially awkward, weird and stand-offish and unapproachable. Guys never approach me in public, I don't really have guy friends, I don't do bars and clubs. I'm freakin' 24 I shouldn't be a virgin. It's very annoying. I'm like the horniest girl alive, I don't just want sex, I need it!!! I don't even want a relationship or anything, I just want sex. And also I guess my standards are pretty high too, the guy should be a at least a 6 on a scale from 1-10. I know it's stupid for a girl who's like a 4 but I wanna be at least a little bit attracted to a guy to have sex with him. :(
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You need to get out of the mind set of 'oh I'm too awkward and weird for anyone to want to fuck me.' Many people on here are giving you advice, its up to you now. If you want to have a random fuck, trust its not going to be just a RANDOM fuck. Its going to hurt like hell! You need someone to take their time with you and not be in a rush to fuck, because you will be in hell. Your vagina walls aren't used to being stretched, even the tip of a penis poking your pussy will hurt like a mofo! If you really think you want sex bad, get a vibrator, a girls best friend. One day the right one will come, but they won't come if you don't socialize yourself and get out your very condensed box you are trapped in. Eye contact, smiling, admiration, Respect, confidence, and flirting are key.

  • If you really want a hookup, try online dating. Okcupid and Zoosk will probably be your best bet. It is all about your wording and the way you come off. But I'm going to tell you right now, you will have better results if you seem more confident. What is nice about online dating is you have your choice. You can different ways of flirting and not be so afraid of rejection because you have a screen between you and the person you are talking to. Even if you are not confident, it is very easy to fake online.

  • If a guy see that you're desperate that will make them run away. They'll think more than likely you're loose and have some sort of sexually transmitted disease, and that you're probably trying to give them something.

    Why can't you just work on your shyness? Go to a club with some female friends, dress up nicely, hair did, drink a couple of drinks to loosen up, dance, and in no time you'll find someone approaching you who is horny as fuck or hey.. he wants to really get to know you

Most Helpful Guys

  • "I'm very shy, socially awkward, weird and stand-offish and unapproachable. "

    That's not what I consider a cool, outgoing personality.

    Combine that with the fact you don't seem to go out socially and want an attractive guy, I'd say the harsh reality is that you don't get laid.

    Attractive men don't approach unattractive women with defensive and standoffish body language in grocery stores offering no strings attached sex. Horny guys may lower their standards for easy sex, but they won't work for it.

    You need to do some work on your personality and social habits first.

    • I do not have a cool, outgoing personality I guess there was a misunderstanding. But thanks for being real with me!

  • Get the guy drunk. I know this chick who's really fucking ugly in the face, but has a pretty nice body, and she posts risque photos and says she's a nympho all the time on Facebook. And then all these fucking desperate weirdos say "u look gud bby" and shit like that.

    So you could do that.
    Or just talk to more guys. Somehow. Find them anywhere.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Your probably not ugly, you just think you are, I'm weird and socially awkward in I get laid, you just have to maybe wait for the right people who actually like you and your weird awkwardness

  • there is an expression

    "pussy is pussy"

    sure you can get laid.

    • I just don't know how that's the problem

    • if you can't approach random people then start with people you are familiar with.

    • Like I said I have zero guy friends! That's how fucked up I am

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  • Just do it lol!
    stop thinking about it, and go up to a guy and say "hey, are you busy?"
    and see where that goes lol!

    • Easy to say.. impossible to do for me. I'm most scared that the guy would be like ewwww bye or laugh

    • Welcome to my life... lol! i get rejected all the time, and i dont even go up to them like! i play it cool and suave and some girls are just like "NAH BRUH!" so i am used to rejection, What if that guy is a complete stranger? and you will never see him again? just do it lol! its good mental excercise too!

    • How do you even get rejected you're good looking as fuck. If people like you get rejected then I got no chance at all! lol

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  • One word, Tinder.

  • You can always try asking someone on here to have sex with you. Lol. But you're anon, so we don't know if we are attracted to you or not.

    • Or not!! Believe me

    • How do you know?

    • No guy has ever been! Attracted to me

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  • Penis in vagina

    Like that

  • guys will lower than standards for NSA sex so even though you're a 4 you could probablt get a 6. Just do your makeup and approach a guy who's a 6 in a club/party scenario and ask if he wants to hook up.

    • their* not than

    • You have no idea how socially awkward and shy I am! I can't just approach a guy :(

    • you could try tinder and put in your bio that your looking to hook up. That should be easier than having to approach in person

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  • Throw yourself at an equally desperate guy.

  • Where are you located?

    • newvyork

    • *new york

    • message me

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  • Just ask a guy to fuck you.

    • she knows

    • Dam a chick that knows guy mentality share your knowledge with every women you meat please

    • It's not that simple. Sure is for pretty girls but not for me.

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  • You want the hot guy the hot guy wants the hot girl but not you. Such is life. I want the hot girl like you want the hot guy but I can't have her just like you can't have him. But then I try to get the average girl but she doesn't want me she wants the hot girl. Then here I am all alone. Such is life for us ugly forever aloners.

    • He doesn't even need to be like super hot lol I'm not delusional, just not as ugly as me

    • Well I was gonna ask but I'm pretty sure I'm uglier than you lol. You're a girl it shouldn't be that hard

  • Go to a club, dress revealing clothes, show you want it and you'll be set

  • Just ask a guy to fuck you, bam not a virgin anymore! No guy in their right mind can refuse sex.

    • But I'm anti-social and shy af

  • go to India (sarcasm)

  • no girl is ugly some girls sometimes think that they looks ugly but boy never think that and sure that a lot of boy wanna sex with you and that boy wanna this as well

    • Well then where do I find them

    • maybe you are find right time :) or you dont really want to lose your virginity yet if you wanna lose you can write me :)

  • I'm game!

  • Don't be so hard on yourself.

    • I'm just being realistic

    • Guys like confidence.

  • Yeah, your standards are way too high.

    Any of the guys you would consider good looking enough to sleep with will either refuse because they think you are disgusting or will abuse you somehow to punish your arrogance.

  • Go to a party, get drunk, find drunk guy, have sex.

    You whine about the fact no one wants to have sex with you, and by no one you mean hot guys. Nice-.-'

    • Does everyone really consider a guy who's a 6 hot? I consider guys 8-10 hot

    • It's above average.

  • i think go to a bar get drunk and just let go would be a good startegy

    • Hmmm... i don't know

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