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Guys, ever regretted drunk sex?

It's about this guy who flirts with me all day every day. I think he might like me. I was eating lunch with him and some acquaintance. One of our acquaintances outed him about him having sex with some girl, we all know. At first he was all "can we talk about this later, just the two of us". Then he said he blacked out, he remember he did it, but couldn't control himself and he regretted it. I'm wondering it if he really regretted it. Or just said it because I was there. Have any of you ever regretted having sex when you were really really drunk.
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  • The only time I ever had drunk sex that wasn't when I was married was the night I lost my virginity. I was 19, she was 23. She worked in the department store I worked in. ALL the guys wanted her but I was the one that got her.
    I was so friggen shocked. we made out on the porch of my friends house.
    she suggested we go to her car.
    when we were makingout I unzipped my pants and took my cock out just hoping she would hold it. All of a sudden she is sucking it. it took maybe 30 seconds to sink in what was happening. I wish I could have seen my face.. all that went through my mind was "OMG.. she is sucking my cock... OMG she is sucking my cock..." lol...
    then all of a sudden she climgs over my lap and starts riding me. that is when my head exploded.
    but I immediately asked if she was on birth control. when she said no I almost threw her off me lol...
    I asked if we could go to my house which was only 2 blocks away. luckily I bought condoms because of another missed opportunity and vowed to always have them. but it was mostly wishful thinking.
    anyway, I grabbed 3, we found a place and went at it.
    she was shocked that I was a virgin when I told her the next day. So i guess I did well. I was pretty drunk so that helped me take a long time to cum.
    .
    the first time I had sex sober I came in like 15 seconds. it was embarrassing.

    • That was awesome hahaha, I know exactly what your talking about when you were like WHAT she's actually touching my dick!!! So good.(fist bump) But yeah I think its more like "Wasted" sex that she means. Imagine that chick from work started making out with you, you pulled out your cock, and it was soft and tiny. Then you look down and go? OI get up fuck head! But nothing happens. He just sits there like a drunken fool dangling in the wind. Then she comes up with the genius idea that she will "just suck it hard". It works! Then she jumps on and he passes out immediately, and then so do you because you are also blind drunk... Im telling you bro I can go hard when I have have a few drinks, we all can. (or think we can at least lol) So surely you would have another story like this?

    • No, I am not a drinker. I didn't drink until after I graduated. Then we did a lot of going to Canada (I live in the Detroit suburbs so it is only 30 min across the border and 19 drinking age). So for 2-3 years it was a lot of drinking. But once I went into the military, while I did get drunk a number of times in tech school, for the most part I really never drank much. As I got older I never liked feeling that way you do when you start coming down from a buzz, much less drunk. After I was in a train crash in 1999, my back has gotten worse and worse. So I am on some heavy drugs for pain. SO I stay away from alcohol for the most part. I probably avg 1 bottle a beer a month if that. Since I might drink 1 or 2 times a year.

  • Let see, he couldn't control himself, but he made the decision to have sex with her. A contradiction don't you think? Personally I think he's making this up because he sees you as a potential sex partner and he doesn't want you to think he's into someone else and lose your interest.

    While I might be wrong, I don't think anyone ever regrets having sex. I think that regretting the decision to have sex is probably a more realistic view.

    As for him, he needs to take responsibility for his own behaviour instead of blaming it on the alcohol.

    Run girl...

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  • I've never had sex with a non-girlfriend when I was really really drunk. But the question is whether the girl is attractive. Most guys won't regret sex if it's a hot girl.

  • I don't regret drunk sex, mostly because I'm smart enough to not have drunk sex in the first place.

    • Mostly because I'm smart enough to not be drunk in the first place* Gigantic typo.

  • I've had drunk sex and it was the best!

  • Haha fuck yeah! All of my best scores have been when I was blind drunk.(or so they seem) I've performed so badly or even not at all because my penis is also so drunk it has passed out. Now the most important thing to remember is that girls talk and They talk fast. Some have been with friends and it's too embarrassing to ask..."hey I know the fact we tried to fuck was weird, but can I try again? I swear I'm a machine I was just drunk and I feel like I owe it to you"... It never works hahaha

  • I only regret it if it affects my performance. otherwise no regrets... hahahaha

  • ever thought about having sex with a beer bottle or wine bottle?
    i haven't.

  • Nope even my drunk self has standards lol

  • I'll tell you when I've had sex I didn't regret.

  • Hahahaha NO let me rephrase that HELL NO. Your admirer just doesn't want to seem like a man slut in front of you and blow his chances with you. A true black out had no memory. People to this day have said dude remember when you were so drunk you did this? I still tell them i think theyre making it up.

  • Sounds like a formula for rape culture. Drunk sex does not exist, it is rape. You can't consent when you are drunk says almost EVERY court in America. Your boyfriend was raped. Women everywhere are talking about rape culture and then when questions like this pop up, they expect me to take their rape complaints seriously?

    • Bullshit and I don't care what the law says, you CAN consent to sex when you're drunk. If that was the cases, then 99% of people would be raped on their wedding night. What about people who PREFER drunk sex? Does this mean they ENJOY being raped? There is a difference between getting buzzed and having sex and being completely passed out. They need to alter the law to recognize the difference.

    • Hahahaha, the same thing can be said about murder, with your exact logic. Get out of here, rapist.

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