Why doesn't he look at me during sex?

Very rarely does my boyfriend look at me during sex. Sometimes he does, but then he closes his eyes or looks away quickly. He always wants to have sex from behind, too. It's kind of got me a bit uncomfortable here... does he think I'm ugly or something. :(
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If that's you in your profile photo, you're absolutely no ugly. It sounds to me like the sex for him is much more about the tactile and physical and not so much about the emotional and romantic. Sit him down away from the sex and just ask him about it. Be very calm, direct, and matter of fact. NO drama. See what he says.

  • nah its so he can last longer, if he was looking at your hot body the whole time he would cum in like 3 minutes lol!

    all though i do think eye contact is important in intimacy
    go missionary first, doggy, then back to missionary so when he finishes or you climax you can be eye to eye

Most Helpful Girl

  • So a guy once told me that he tries to focus on something boring so he doesn't come too early... also, people tend to break eye contact when they can't deal with the intensity if often indicates a lack of confidence.
    It definitely isn't because you are ugly - because you're gorgeous!

    • This deserves MHO!

    • Thanks... yeah this guy, an ex, told me he starts counting sheep... 101, 102, 103.. oh no!!!

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  • I think you need to discuss this with him
    Ask him what the issue is

  • Concentration issue. I forget to look at my f w b and then I realize how she might feel or how I might look.. it's so easy to get caught up in our little world when trying to perform 1 trick, well enough.

  • did you ever think that he doesn't want you to see his dumb looking face during sex, trust me us guys make some dumb ass faces when we are having sex,

  • Its not you darling. you are absolutely gorgeous.
    Maybe you can talk him out of watching p*rn.. or at least watch less to begin with..
    If you'd ask him why he's doing it, you might get a snarl of some sort so be carefull with that haha.

  • He's most likely just uncomfortable/insecure about something... not everything has to result with the girl being ugly.

  • He loves your butt cheeks rather than your face

  • Perhaps there is a lack of emotional connection during intercourse.

  • i think he feels shy when he sees you,

  • I think he imagine something while having sex

    • That's what I'm worried about!

    • I think that He should stop watching p*rn and Stop mastarbation

    • Other thing is that U r not ugly u are Gorgeous

  • its possible yea but it might just be cause he's trying to have premature ejaculation as for why he wants to have sex from behind he may just favor the rear positions like i do but but i like doing it in front of mirror so can see her face cause it kind of turns me on to see her expression on her face