Asking my guy friend to take my virginity?

If ur girl friend asked u to take her virginity would u do it? I wanna ask my best friend a guy that I've know forever to take it. I know it will change our relationship but he's been flirting with me and when we hug he feels me up a bit.
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I have done that before for someone that asked me. The closer the friendship before hand, the more you risk losing the friendship of someone important though. She thought it would be no big deal, she liked me, knew I would treat her well and would be safe and careful. But she didn't plan on developing as many feelings afterwards as she did. So when I didn't want to actually date her, she started feeling more and more upset, even though when she approached me she said she didn't want a relationship, just didn't want to be a virgin any more and wanted it out of the way so she could just go about meeting guys without worrying about it.

    So... things may change for you that you don't expect to change. Sex can ruin friendships even between people that are comfortable with the idea of sex, that know what it's like and how it will affect them. It can be even more problematic if you don't know how you're going to be affected by it. Sex can release oxytocin (the 'cuddle' hormone), and you can end up being affected by it even if you think you'll be fine.

    If you are willing to burn the relationship, and think he will be gentle, safe and understanding... maybe consider it. If you care about the friendship, I would suggest you don't.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Just be honest and upfront with him. Let him know how you feel. Remember sex can ruin friendship's but if you are willing to take it to that level go for it and be safe. Happy sex!

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  • Why would you do that? Someday your groom will be mourning your decision.

    • That's not true. Most likely he is out right now having sex with other women. Asker if he is the one go for it!

    • Not if she chooses a guy who will also wait. But even if not, he will be very very pleased, and respect her very much.

    • So why should he wait to "please him" when he shouldn't have to wait? I hate double standards. Women are just as sexual as men and should never wait unless they really want to otherwise be the sexual being that you are

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