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Girls the fact that you know that every guy you know or and meet masturbates, does it effect the way that you see them?

I ask this because my friend who is a girl said the other day to a few of us guys that all girls know we jerk off by default and its just something they have to deal with. Does the fact that all girls know that all guys jack off make a difference in how you view them, like a guy you like, or dont like, or just met, or have known for a long time? What are your thoughts knowng this is a normal part of our lives. I found this to be quite embarrassing that she said this but i would like to know what girls think. I put a poll but i dont think it gives the full opinions. Please explain what you think about this, thank you
Yes we all know and have to deal with knowing all guys do it
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Yes we know and dont care
Vote B
it doesn't matter we all both guys and girls do it and its normal part of life
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It grosses me out and try not to think about it
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  • Yes we all know that jerking off is a normal part of guys lives but masturbation is just as much a part of our lives as yours, whether we do it less or more or the same amount as you do. I dont look at it like some foreign thing that we are forced to except but just that you guys do it in a different fashion than we do.

    • I guess i can understand that perspective for sure. It just seemed so embarrassing the she had put it. What do you mean do it in a different fashion?

    • I mean that both guys and girls do it, but while you have a specific manner on how you do it, we have different motions and methods on the physical act of it, we have different things that might turn us on to do it, and we probably take different amount of time to do it

  • Honestly, I don't think of a guy masturbating until I start liking him. Then I can't get it out of my head. 'What does he think of when he does it?' 'Why am I thinking of him doing it?' 'How long does it take him to get off?' But it's normal. Everyone does it. Even me.

    • Okay that very interesting analysis on it. I guess that makes total sense as well. Because its not the first thing i think about when meeting a girl of course but i guess as i get to know them i start to wonder these types of things more. It was just the way my friend put it, as if it was on the top of her head and is just an automatic knowledge of it. And yeah i always assumed we all just did it but she mad it sound like it was more a one sided tolerance of it

    • Just throwing this out there, but maybe she imagines you doing it. I know I have with some of my coworkers. Kinda embarrassing. But hell, who hasn't imagined embarrassing things.

    • Hmm i never really thought about thar because of the way she made it sound like us guys masturbating was some primitive thing that we do. And yes i know i have certainly imagined some embarrassing things about people that i know, and or have liked

  • I have a shocker for you - most girls masturbate too.

    • Its not that im surprised that girls do it too, but the way my friend had stated it was that its something that is well known for girls that all of us guys do it and she just has to tolerate it. \I do know that girls do it as well but according to her, it seemed like it was so insignificant part of their lives compared to guys, HER statements not mine.

    • To be fair, that's more of a cultural stereotype than an actual truth. I mean, there's totally horn dogs who have to jack it every few hours, but for the most part, guys grow out the 'OH GOD, BONER' stage by their early 20s. If she's the same age and hasn't realized that, that's her being slow on the uptake and using media references instead of personal experience.

    • Yeah she's the same age as i am, 22. Yeah i understand what you are saying, when i was a teenager i definitely was like that. It just made me think because there is a super cute girl i work with who seems very sweet and is hard to imagine masturbating. The fact that she knows i masturbate by "default" so i wondered if thats just how she looked at me, or something like that

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Most girls know this and id say wouldn't care.. most probably get turned on at thought, especially guys they like.

  • I have been fap free for 6 weeks now! feeling pretty amazing not gonna lie =)

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  • I masturbate too. I don't care.

    • So you basically have the same view as I, that because i do it regularly, if i find out someone else does, i dont care because i just view it as normal?

    • I view it as normal. But even if I didn't do it, I wouldn't care.

    • That is how i think about it too. But i wasn't sure after my friend made it sound like its something you girls just know and tolerate that we have to do

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  • Chill out! Masturbation is a regular thing to do! :)

    • Im not freaking out. i know its a normal thing but i was more just curious about girls general perspective about being aware that guys do it, and the question came from some stuff my friend had said about it.

  • mostly everyone masturbates unless bounded by religion so no one cares

    • Okay so because it is just something we all do, we dont really look down on someone else who does it? Thats how i viewed it, until my friend had said that

  • i dont give a fuck if a guy masturbates as long as he cleans himself up be for talking to me

    • So it doesn't really change the way you see them when you know that they do it?

    • why should it its like how if you have a dog that looks his balls you still let him lick you its natural

  • I mean that is not the first thing I think when I see a guy but now it will be... thanks a lot

    • oops, sorry?

  • To be hones, you are not likely to find a girl that doesn't/hasn't masturbated. It's nothing to worry about. :)

    • Okay i normally assumed that everyone regardless of gender masturbated. I just wasn't sure how to think about her statements. it seemed like it was just something you girls had tolerate with us

  • To be honest most guys masturbate and girls do it too.
    The rest just lie about not doing it.
    It's human nature we do it cause it feels good.

    • That's how i feel as well. As human beings, we all need that feeling of release and because it does feel good, why do people make such a big deal about? My friend made it sound like it was something she didn't need and how guys need more than girls, but that just doesn't make sense to me. So you think she was probably lying about not needing to do it?

    • Some have a higher sex drive then others. Myself I always wanted more sex then my ex did.

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