Girls, do you give fake compliments?

[Anonymous]

I'm not used to getting compliments from girls. I rarely get compliments, but when I do it's normally from guys. But lately I've been given the same type of compliment again and again from (drunk) girls. It's the "You can get all the guys you want" compliment. That's such a lie, I rarely get approached by guys, and when I do, they are really really pissed and horny. I don't approach guys because I've been hurt so many times. I never give people compliments unless I mean it. It's just principle to me. Do you girls give other girls fake compliments? Or do you mean all compliments you give others?

[ForTheRide]

Id never give a fake compliment. As for the "you can get any guy you want" is probably true, the reason some girls simple dont get approached actually has little to do with looks, rather body language.

I have a twin sister, now we aren't identical but we are both blonde hair/ blue eyes pretty similar looks. Anyway, she's incredibly shy and awkward. Often people think she's snobby when she isn't. Me on the other hand, I can be shy but I am far more confident and out going then her. I talked to people, give eye contact, actively participate in conversation and SMILE!
I've been approached by a lot more guys thrn her simply because of my body language.

If you were attracted to a girl or even just wanted to talk to them and as you walked by over heard a conversation where she was only giving one word answers and there was a lot of awkward silence it doesn't seem like the person is going to be approachable or easy to talk too. Which makes approaching someone you dont know a lot more difficult, especially if you have to constantly baby the conversation along.

So maybe, infact they are commenting on the fact that maybe your really comfortable and easy to talk to, possibly physically attractive and interesting, however maybe you just need to open up your body language (smile more, make eye contact, dont stare at your phone, engage in conversation with people around you and dont fold your arms). Goodluck!

[opugh93]

I don't give fake compliments, but I also don't feel obligated to return a compliment when i'm complimented if it's not genuine. I get the "you can get any guy you want" comment too, haha. I get stared at more than approached. Maybe men aren't comfortable. A lot of older white women and white girls always tell me I'm gorgeous. My boss sometimes gives me fake compliments when her friends compliment me, haha. She hates that 0:)

[LoveMyMan52314]

If they're drunk they probably don't know what they are saying... that or there're stuck up bitches that give out compliments to anything and anyone to make themselves look good.

[LoveMyMan52314]

But, sometimes some girls actually mean them. I mean all my compliments. Just depends on the person.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

no I don't do that. if I compliment you its because I really think you are pretty, or want to break the ice with you. and honestly (Lord forgive me for being shallow) but I don't really go out of my way to break ice with random girls who aren't pretty. if im drunk and partying and I talk to you, its because you are cute, dress nice and I want us to clique up

just because you don't get approached doesn't mean you aren't pretty. you sound like u may have walls up preventing from people from getting to know you

[macncheese]

No, I barely compliment people unless I really mean it. Else I come across as being fake because that's just not who I am

[BubblyMaria]

I mean them.

[meeegggg]

I would never give a compliment if I didn't mean it

[katedepp32]

no. i always say what i think, even if it's harsh.

[georgiaaaagirl]

NOT if i dont mean them.

[Anonymous]

Very rarely will i. If I give someone a compliment I mean it