Guys, would you marry a girl who had anal sex with her ex?

Could you take seriously and marry a girl who had anal sex with her ex. She did it for him but didn't enjoy it and stopped before he could even get all the way in. But is that too much, does it make her too slutty to marry or date/ take seriously?
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  • I can't imagine a guy wanting to get married would have a problem with that, especially compared to the level most women go before marriage. Lots of guys would not only be willing to marry you, but would actually be grateful that is as far as you went before marriage. If purity is important to you, then rest assured you are a lot more pure than most women your age.

    • i get really worried to get into another relationship. I have had sex with my ex (regular sex) but i'm still learning. We were together for 5 years, but we only started having sex shortly into our 5th year. Then he broke up with me and i spent the majority of the year trying to keep him. So i worry that if i tell when i tell a guy i dated one guy for 5 years and he's the only guy i had sex with. he will assume we can go faster in bed or that i'd be really good at sex or something. but it still hurts a bit and its still uncomfortable and i'm still learning about sex (thats where i was in my sexual development before he broke up with me). and if i say i did have anal sex, then he'll think i'm a slut or there will more even more expectations. I won't even go on any dates and its been a year of me being single due to my fear of not meeting a guys expectations in bed. Although i was with him for so many years, sexually i didn't learn much, once we got to that point he left me shortly after.

    • we only had regular sex a few times. He just kept wanting to try different things with me. He was experienced i wasn't. i didn't want to disappoint him, especially since he had waited so many years for me to sleep with him.

    • Anal sex with your boyfriend isn't any more slutty than normal sex with your boyfriend. It is just one option some people try in a sexual relationship. There isn't anything slutty about having a sexual relationship with your boyfriend. Typically being slutty is about having sex with people you aren't in a relationship with. So that wouldn't even apply to you. If you are worried about your inexperience you can tell a guy you have only had sex a few times so he can take it easy with you, until you learn your likes and dislikes. Or you can try to fake it and just let him think you are bad in bed for a little while. The first time a couple has sex is commonly bad anyway. Both people are nervous and worrying about what the other thinks. It typically improves the longer they are together as they learn each others likes and dislikes and grow more comfortable together.

  • What's wrong with anal sex? Or let me rephrase that. Since I used to work in the p*rnstar industry 7 years ago, I've always enjoyed vaginal sex better than anal sex. This shouldn't even affect your relationship, current and future ones, let alone marriage.

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  • DOSN'T MATTER AT ALL!!!

  • If you are going to beat her up over this issue, the problem could be you. He was her past, leave it there.

  • Fact you had anal - not an issue.

    Fact you had anal (sort of) and may not want to try anal with him? Could be an issue if he wants it. The 'sort of' may bail you out, may not.

    Guys take sex seriously, and are hurt if you seemed more open to things with your ex than you are with him.

    Otherwise, no issues.

    • Very well said.

  • I am no advocate of it, but I understand that it does happen. I'd simply note it in case it could lead to future health problems for her. Otherwise, I'd think little of it.

  • no it doesn't make her too slutty. experimentation is normal and I would put it past her.

  • I don't know fuck it who cares. I know this though my ex girlfriend got this guy to marry to her and I fucked her in her ass quite a bit... she liked it.

  • I'd be more disappointed she hadn't enjoyed it and didn't want to try it again :/

  • That fact wouldn't disqualify her from a relationship.

  • Why would I not?

  • Yes of course I would still date or marry her. It's not that big a deal

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